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Topic: Are children possible
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Meems11
Newflake Posts: 7
From: Australia
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted October 24, 2015 08:27 PM
  
I am hoping someone could be kind enough to have a look at my chart if possible please?
My husband & I have been struggling with infertility for a couple of years now. Before that we had 2 miscarriages, one in 2010 & 2012. I was born on 2nd July 1975 at 5.52pm & my husband on 9th August 1973 at 11.42am both in Melbourne Australia.
Just wondering if it's possible we will ever have children together? My husband has 1 son from a previous relationship.
Many thanks!
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Meems11
Newflake Posts: 7
From: Australia
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 12:47 AM
How do a post a copy of my chart?IP: Logged |
comdoc
Knowflake Posts: 187
From: Tucson
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 01:01 AM
Go to: tinypic.com, and upload synastry and composite charts from astro.com. Then simply copy the message board code and paste into your message.IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
Knowflake Posts: 251
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Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 01:13 AM
  I will later post how can you do this by yourself.
Hope you get some answers!  Ps: Aw these asteroids were saved in my astro page,I should not have posted them but i forgot,sorry. IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
Knowflake Posts: 251
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Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 01:16 AM
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Meems11
Newflake Posts: 7
From: Australia
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 05:37 AM
That's awesome thank you so much Com doc & Empty Spaces! IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 1063
From: <--------- over there.
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 07:34 AM
I wish you the best!
I'd like children too but I fear that I can't.It's very stressful. Actually, until right now, this moment as I type this. No one knows the worry it causes me. The pain it causes me to even imagine not being able to have children. I don't like to think about it. I hope that you find answers here. Personally I wouldn't let astrology stop me from trying. (Not to imply that I think that you would either). In fact, it'd be the miscarriages. Ugh, they're so brutal, physically, emotionally. I don't face my own pain sometimes. Well a lot actually but I understand yours and I empathize with you.
I'll be thinking of you and your husband.  IP: Logged |
Soltze
Knowflake Posts: 865
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Registered: Mar 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 08:01 AM
I was looking at the synastry chart. Specially your placements.Ruler of the 5th (children) in the 8th can explains why you are having problems. I have this too, and I have problems in my ovaries. Although I don't intend to have children. Your SN is in the 5th. I don't know if you believe in past-lifes but this issue has a karmic origin. Have you and your husband considered adoption? You have a full 4th house. I can see why you want to be a mother. And with the moon and jupiter there I can see you being a very giving mother. I wish you all the best. IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 1063
From: <--------- over there.
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 02:01 PM
This is interesting.
I kind of disagree but I also acknowledge that my knowledge on the topic is small. http://therealastrology.com/ask-kevin-topics/planets-signs-and-houses/140-number-of-children-in-the-chart IP: Logged |
Meems11
Newflake Posts: 7
From: Australia
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 05:21 PM
DopGang, you brought a tear to my eye! It is so hard to go through fertility issues and only those that are can fully understand it. I will not give up trying until the end (I hope you don’t either!). I’m a fighter and don’t give up easily. I don’t like to think about it either but it is hard to not let it consume you at times. I just wanted to know if there was something in my chart blocking children as it seems there is always an obstacle in the way. My next step is IVF and if that doesn’t work then I may have to consider a donor egg. I’m hoping it doesn’t come to that and if all else fails then I will just have to accept it and move on. I feel for you too as it sounds like you are going through the same as me. All the very best to you too and you are in my thoughts also. Much love.IP: Logged |
Meems11
Newflake Posts: 7
From: Australia
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 05:37 PM
Soltze, thank you so much for your reply! I will do some more research on this. Unfortunately adoption is extremely hard in Australia but yes I would consider it if the opportunity arose. My husband and I have so much love to give a child. I wondered if Chiron and Mars in the 5th composite chart was an issue as I read that Chiron can block children and Mars can cause problems. Chiron is also transiting my husbands 5th until February 2016 which is interesting. All the best to you too
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EmGem
Knowflake Posts: 859
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Registered: Jan 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 05:44 PM
Memes I wish you all the best. I too have struggled trying to have children. Never lose hope. Australia has the best ivf clinics in the world. If you're in Melbourne I'd go with Monash ivf and ask for Dr. Lynn Burmeister. She is amazing. IP: Logged |
Meems11
Newflake Posts: 7
From: Australia
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 05:54 PM
Hi EmGem! Funny you should say that as I am already seeing Lynne at Monash Richmond. She has me on some antioxidants & vitamins for egg health and if nothing happens naturally, I am planning on IVF in February. Fingers crossed xIP: Logged |
EmGem
Knowflake Posts: 859
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Registered: Jan 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 06:04 PM
A-mazing! You're in such good hands with her. If anyone can do it she can. She got Sonia Kruger pregnant in her mid forties after all!
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Soltze
Knowflake Posts: 865
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Registered: Mar 2015
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posted October 26, 2015 06:12 AM
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Originally posted by Meems11:
Soltze, thank you so much for your reply! I will do some more research on this. Unfortunately adoption is extremely hard in Australia but yes I would consider it if the opportunity arose. My husband and I have so much love to give a child. I wondered if Chiron and Mars in the 5th composite chart was an issue as I read that Chiron can block children and Mars can cause problems. Chiron is also transiting my husbands 5th until February 2016 which is interesting. All the best to you too
Yes, I've seen the Chiron/Mars as well. But I'm still not very acquainted with composite charts.
You'll overcome this :-))
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Belage
Knowflake Posts: 1810
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 26, 2015 01:14 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Meems11:
Soltze, thank you so much for your reply! I will do some more research on this. Unfortunately adoption is extremely hard in Australia but yes I would consider it if the opportunity arose. My husband and I have so much love to give a child. I wondered if Chiron and Mars in the 5th composite chart was an issue as I read that Chiron can block children and Mars can cause problems. Chiron is also transiting my husbands 5th until February 2016 which is interesting. All the best to you too
the mars/Chiron Aries in the composite 5th jumped out to me as well. I think since South Node has left Aries, the chances of being able to have children is a little better. Be careful what you ask for. From what I have seen, many people with 5th house Chiron have children with disabilities. If you are okay with that as a possibility, then go ahead. Keep in mind that composite chiron also squares composite sun, which means it could put a huge strain on the marriage. I am truly not an expert in this area. Hopefully someone else has a more positive interpretation. IP: Logged |
Meems11
Newflake Posts: 7
From: Australia
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted October 26, 2015 09:42 PM
I appreciate your reply Belage. I certainly don't think anyone would ever wish for a disabled child, however I think there is a risk of this happening with any pregnancy especially with older women. My husband and I don't have Chiron in our individual 5th houses (which is good I suppose) and it looks to me that the square is with mars / sun not chiron / sun but I am no expert either. I was reading that chiron in the 5th composite may mean that the relationship is not expressed especially romantically or creative abilities can be stifled. I hope someone else can put a positive light on this aspect also. Best wishes to you IP: Logged |
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