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mystictinkerbell Newflake Posts: 12 From: somewhere , on earth Registered: Oct 2015
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posted October 25, 2015 11:04 PM
i have a crush on this guy even though our synastry has so many close aspects...I m quite skeptical if things will work out……dont know why even with so many aspects i fell pessimistic ... sorry for th grammatical errors HIS PLANET -- MY PLANET mars trine moon 0.3‘ mars sextile pluto 1' Pluto conj mars 1' jupiter conj sun 0.2' Moon conj sun 2' sun trine sun 3' pluto sextile mercury 0.2' mercury square mars 1' jupiter trine moon 1' venus conj jupiter 2' uranus sextile venus 1' Neptune sextie venus0.4' Venus sextile saturn 2' Saturn square mars 1' Vertex opp mars 0.8' Node opp mars 1' vertex trine mercury 1' node sextile mercury 1' Vertex trine moon 2' Node trine moon 2' venus opp vertex 0.1' jupiter square vertex 0.5' descendant conj. vesta 0' exact! we also have moon - pluto 4.7‘ and venus pluto 5.8‘ so i have 3 questions here-- 1) will the moon pluto and venus pluto be felt ..is 4 – 5 too wide for an orbit value.. 2) natally i have venus, pluto, mars and pof in 12 house.. my parents would never approve of him .. basically i have been abused since I was born and I am not allowed to date...so even if I let my feelings out our relationship would be a secret.. but will I ever get into relationship considering 12 house issues........ P.S natally even he has a 12 house moon and 5 house pisces ... 3)with so many close aspects where would our relationship go since i can afford a casual relationship.. we havent started dating yet.. plus we have only 2 saturn aspects.. rest of them are there but orb is wider than 3' so will it be a significant relationship??
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DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1099 From: <--------- over there. Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 26, 2015 06:50 AM
If you can, you should post the chart. I have 12th personal planets. I know you may not want to hear this but when I was a teen I did the whole having a relationship with someone who's parents didn't approve. What a nightmare it was. Maybe it needed to happen. You never know how things will turn out. I didn't know until much later into the relationship but she had been sexually abused by the babysitter. She even had scars, down there. (She was 9-12 at the time of abuse). Well, she told me about it. Later, her parents discovered our relationship and in their fighting she told them about the abuse and said that I was helping her work it out. Which I was. They of course were in denial and blamed me for, I don't know, ruining her I guess. I stopped by one time and her drunk father wanted to fight me. It was crazy. I actually don't say all of this to frighten you from relationships or to worry about the 12th. It doesn't always work out that way. The main thing that I wanted to say is that disapproving parents are SO difficult to deal with. I don't suggest it. It was the single most difficult thing.
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DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1099 From: <--------- over there. Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 26, 2015 07:01 AM
There's some funny stories though. One time her mom came into her room (after basically breaking down the locked door), yelling at her, "He was here wasn't he? Where'd he go? Did he go out your window?" All the while I was hiding in the closet in my underwear. LOL Her mom left the room for a minute so I ran across the hall, carrying my clothes and jumped out of her brothers bedroom window.
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mystictinkerbell Newflake Posts: 12 From: somewhere , on earth Registered: Oct 2015
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posted October 26, 2015 07:10 AM
Well i can totally understand...I have had really bad phase of abuse both home and away... He has his sun and venus in Aquarius.. a big flirt that one.. I have given up already...I cannot seriously afford a casual relationship.. But i would like a natal reading .. I am a newbie i dont know how to attach images can you tell me so I'll post it to personal reading forum?IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1099 From: <--------- over there. Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 28, 2015 07:51 PM
Wow! I'm so sorry that I didn't get back to you! I don't know where my mind went!! Pull up your chart on astro.com (if you need help with this, myself or others will be able to walk you through that I'm sure) Next, if you're on a mobile device you can take a screen shot or save the picture of your chart. It might be wise to crop out the birth information for security/privacy reasons but that is up to you obviously. Then use an image hosting service like tiny pic. http://tinypic.com Copy code for "forums and message boards" Paste the code here and you're good to go! I'm not sure what your level of technical ability is so I took a shot. IP: Logged |