posted October 28, 2015 06:16 PM            

In friendship, it doesn't matter I think. lol.

posted October 28, 2015 09:47 PM            

This guy wants a relationship but I just want to enjoy my single life right now. He says that he likes my rebellious attitude and ideas. I'm the one who comes up with the crazy ideas and we bounce ideas off of each other. He also mentioned he enjoys when we galavant around town together. I like how he teaches me to be more practical about things but is also fun. We had a bit of a falling out because he started being controlling just like the other 3 guys with the almost same birth charts and I wasn't going to deal with that stupid stuff once again so I stopped talking to him. 2 months go by and he comes out of nowhere and wants to try and work things out.

posted October 29, 2015 02:59 PM            

The ruler of your 11th house cusp is Venus(Taurus). So you want to share artistic interests,aesthetics and values with your friends.

Your friends Venus is close to conjunct the Asc in their chart. This makes Venus very important to them.

Now since the 11th house is intercepted, that means that Mercury co-rules the 11th. And in your chart, it is situated in the 12th.

But oh look at that. You have Sun in 12th and your friend has what I believe is Sun-conjunct Neptune on their Asc?

His 11th house is also intercepted between Scorpio and Libra.

The ruler of Scorpio is Pluto. But the only thing I see that could affiliate the attraction to you, could be the North Node in 8th?

But the co-ruler of his 11th is Venus.So he also likes sharing artistic interests and values with his friends.

Now your Venus is in the 1st house too. But it conjuncts that fiery Mars hmmm.

But not too worry, because even if it makes Venus that much more ardent than sensual, he has Mars in Aries. So he can totally get the energy!!

The fact that you both have the ruler of the 11th house interacting with the 1st house, suggests that in many ways you two mirror each other.

posted October 29, 2015 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Friends...really good friends, are often indicated by the 11th house cusp, its ruler, planets etc.

The ruler of your 11th house cusp is Venus(Taurus). So you want to share artistic interests,aesthetics and values with your friends.

Your friends Venus is close to conjunct the Asc in their chart. This makes Venus very important to them.

Now since the 11th house is intercepted, that means that Mercury co-rules the 11th. And in your chart, it is situated in the 12th.

But oh look at that. You have Sun in 12th and your friend has what I believe is Sun-conjunct Neptune on their Asc?

His 11th house is also intercepted between Scorpio and Libra.

The ruler of Scorpio is Pluto. But the only thing I see that could affiliate the attraction to you, could be the North Node in 8th?

But the co-ruler of his 11th is Venus.So he also likes sharing artistic interests and values with his friends.

Now your Venus is in the 1st house too. But it conjuncts that fiery Mars hmmm.

But not too worry, because even if it makes Venus that much more ardent than sensual, he has Mars in Aries. So he can totally get the energy!!

The fact that you both have the ruler of the 11th house interacting with the 1st house, suggests that in many ways you two mirror each other.

You both my consider friendship(11th) to be absolutely essential in both your lives.

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Cool! I never knew how to interpret the friendship side of charts. Why would he want a relationship though? I wouldn't think I'd be his type in any way. I do feel like he's a really good friend and I do value friendship so much. We were intimate at one point but things got complicated.

posted October 30, 2015 03:16 PM            

He has the Moon in the 7th. So he is looking to nurture/be nurtured in a relationship

You have Sun in Cancer with the Moon close to the IC.

posted October 30, 2015 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Sometimes when people mirror us,we can start to have sexual/less platonic feelings for them.

He has the Moon in the 7th. So he is looking to nurture/be nurtured in a relationship

You have Sun in Cancer with the Moon close to the IC.

There are other factors to add to the attraction. But I was looking for patterns.

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I told him your replies and he said its freaky how you're right lol we actually feel like we're the same person with liking certain things but also different and those differences are what we teach each other or bring to our friendship.

You're the first person ever to bring up the mirroring It's something I noticed over a year ago. My Libra moon in the 3rd is crazy and I feel his Gem moon in the 7th would kinda be the same thing. So I think I understand how he is at times.

With my Aqua north node in the 8th, I feel like he has taught me to be more detached in my relationships with people with his Uranus conjunct sun opposite moon because my Venus square Pluto definitely needed that. His Pisces north node in the 3rd, I would think I help him express his feelings because of my mercury in cancer and its in the 12th. With his Cap sun, it's hard to sense what he's feeling. I think we can help each other or at least understand each other's 12th planets. I WISH I had sun and mercury in the 1st like he does though lol I'm not sure how he feels about his 12th Venus but my 1st Venus might help him in whatever way.