posted November 02, 2015 09:24 AM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Hi, Aurora.Nothing is immediately leaping out at me. That is a highly compacted composite, however, showing a kind of singular purpose of the relationship; in this case, being 3H focussed. No wonder you feel like siblings, huh?
What's the story here? Sometimes, the best way to 'know' is through dreams and shared experiences.
*chuckles*Thanks for the reply Auby.It's surprising that you mention that we feel like siblings.
It's something i overlooked.The concentrated 3rd house in the composite.
And yes i do feel like he's a brother of some sort to me.And he has on one occasion said i'm like a sister to him.
The story behind this?Hmm that's a tough one.Mainly because there isn't much of a story.Not to me anyways but i'll give it a try.
I met him on a dating site,we started off as friends(but my friends disagree-they seem to think he was 'dating' me or at least trying to find out if i was interested in him in the begining which at this point is moot since he's engaged to be married and i couldn't be happier for him.
Anyways that was in 2011/2012 so it has been what 3/4 years i've known him for now.
The first time we met in real in 2012 was you could say the turning point.Up to that point everything was okay between us.Comfortable but nothing spectacular.
When we met,i felt this sense of comfort and ease with him,overwhealming and he said the same day he felt it too(actually he said it first and i concurred :P).
It was as though 'sparks' flew but for me it was more of a friendship kind than a romantic kind.Not that i didn't view him in a romantic way but something was holding me back.
I always felt that as though if we got together it would be 'wrong'.As though kissing him would be like kissing my 'brother'.As though we had our chance/our time at 'being' together and now we were better off as friends/siblings of some sort :P.
I don't know what he felt on this as i never brought it up.And now that he has a steady fiancee and is happy i don't intend to.
Aside from that,he has been a really close friend of mine.Not in terms of daily activities but in terms of the big ones in life-ie whenever i had a major issue i did turn to him and he responded in helping me out.For that reason it's hard not to see why he's important to me in a sense.
As for shared dreams etc nothing of that sort except for one small thing.Something i think he knows what's on my mind-he says things out loud that i've been thinking in my head ,sometimes making light of it and i look at him and think "do you even know that what you're saying has been in my head all along?".Although i never told him so.I like my thoughts to remain mine even if he 'unconsciously' spits them out when we talk:P
I found that slightly amusing and slightly annoying.
Oh and the reason we 'connected' at first and one of the big things we have in common is that we're both into 'spiritual things' such as meditation etc.
The funniest thing was i wouldn't even be on a dating site if it wasn't for that other guy,the one i was posting about a few times on here.And this guy(the one i posted this thread about) is the only person/friend i made on that site.Never used that site again.
And that's why i posted the charts.I was just curious as to what we were.Like in the other chart,the one you identified as my soul brother,we both has osiris conjunct moon by about 2-3 degrees each.Here,this guy has osiris conjunct moon as well but by 7 degrees.Is that too far off?
And speaking of the guy you identified as my soul brother,from the get go i felt that he was me on an emotional level.To have you say that we were cut from the same emotional cloth was just a validation to what i felt from the get go.And yes he has said that i am him 15 years younger :PThough i never asked him what exactly he meant by that as i thought it was self explanatory.
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