posted November 03, 2015 01:49 PM            

During the time we met again and slept together, the transit NN was conjucnt his vertex

Hi Everyone,
I learned how the Sun conjunt North node works, he surely brought a confidence in me, I thought I'd never accomplish.

We have been friends on and off for a year. This whole time, I was exploring myself sexually with other partners. I was trying to fix the damage I experienced in my upbringing and other insecurities.
Needless to say, none of these experiences helped.
I just about gave up on intimacy when he contacted me randomly and i met up with him.
It was one of the most soul wrenching, pleasing experiences, Where I finally realized "This is what sex is supposed to feel like."

Now, i'm not sure if I should contact him again.
When i met him it was definitely a pull as they described.

So, anyone else felt so obessed

posted November 05, 2015 02:12 PM            

I think Sun conjunct Venus and maybe Moon opp Mars would lend to the obsession factor--as in feeling totally blown away/drawn in and in love with this person. ..

posted November 05, 2015 02:42 PM            

It did, however, surprise me how strongly he reacted when I was transferred to another team. Well I did not quite understand it cause, we are of course still all working at the same place, same school, just that I am now in the team responsible for a different agegroup of pupils.
We are of course still part of the greater team that is the whole school and colleagues.

Neverthless, when it became clear that I was apparently needed more elsewhere, and that would be the reasonable decision, he was protesting a lot and arguing with the superiors to keep me in his team, to an extent I did not quite understand to be honest. I mean it was not like I was leaving or something like that, ane even if I did, we are not that close. lol

Plus he is usually not the arguing type, but calm and logical (Sun, Mercury, Jupiter in Aquarius help with that I am sure. Oh Venus in Aquarius, too).

Nevertheless I took it as a compliment. Though of course it did not change the decision, and really, it WAS the most reasonable decision.

posted November 05, 2015 02:47 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
I have a dear friend whose Sun is conjunct my North Node and I feel so good around her. It is not exactly obsession--it's a gentle encompassing sense of peace in the world which she and I generate together.. I sometimes have to remind myself that I am worthy of her attention and love because I admire her so much and she is so wise and wonderful... I think with the North Node we may not always know that we can embody those qualities if we are still being weighed down by the South Node, but it seems that no matter how down-trodden or disconnected we feel, it is *always* beneficial to us in a holistic sense to participate with our North Node energy... and engaging with people who encourage it is a great way to do this. I wouldn't hesitate to get in touch with him again..

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posted November 05, 2015 02:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
my Sun falls onto the NN of a colleague of mine (0°44); I donīt think he`s obsessed with me (one isolated aspect could not show that anyway imo), but he does hold me in pretty high regard and pays me a lot of attention.
In some weird way it`s almost as if I can`t do anything wrong (not that I tried to so far!).
While he can be quite arrogant (others have complained about this, I have never experienced it to be honest), I just felt very respected by him and had the feeling he just liked being around me.

It did, however, surprise me how strongly he reacted when I was transferred to another team. Well I did not quite understand it cause, we are of course still all working at the same place, same school, just that I am now in the team responsible for a different agegroup of pupils.
We are of course still part of the greater team that is the whole school and colleagues.

Neverthless, when it became clear that I was apparently needed more elsewhere, and that would be the reasonable decision, he was protesting a lot and arguing with the superiors to keep me in his team, to an extent I did not quite understand to be honest. I mean it was not like I was leaving or something like that, ane even if I did, we are not that close. lol

Plus he is usually not the arguing type, but calm and logical (Sun, Mercury, Jupiter in Aquarius help with that I am sure. Oh Venus in Aquarius, too).

Nevertheless I took it as a compliment. Though of course it did not change the decision, and really, it WAS the most reasonable decision.

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Oh! A Sun person's perspective!
I definitely understand his over reaction towards you. I can understand how it comes across uneasy with the Sun person. Even when I first met him, he made me uncomfortable initially as the NN person. I didn't feel like the self I usually knew ( kind how your co worker is) But like this one blog described. it's definitely a "Pull" that even though I felt uneasy at first, I felt it was very necessary to be around him for my energy growth and my health.

posted November 07, 2015 01:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Septembergirl:
I would love to learn more about this. I also have this aspect with someone. I'm the NN and I feel very drawn to this person as well. Just wonder if that person feels anything from the sun's perspective.

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What I'm learning from this aspect, I had to understand the sign my NN is in:
It's in Capricorn, my SN is in Cancer
His sun is in Capricorn.

With the South Node in Cancer, I'm conflicted in this life to stay home, be attached to my 'clan' family and being comfortable at home. Not exploring others outside my group.

To complete my journey in life with NN in Capricorn, I have to have some type of achievement in business, going outside of my family (which is something I always feared)
but, to keep a balance, I must develop a strong sense of family and achievement in whatever business endeavors i achieve.

It makes sense I am so attracted to him. His home life, he moved out on his own at such a young age. Worked from the bottom and has a very stable independent life, without much family roots.

posted November 07, 2015 01:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Airyaquarian:
What I'm learning from this aspect, I had to understand the sign my NN is in:
It's in Capricorn, my SN is in Cancer
His sun is in Capricorn.

With the South Node in Cancer, I'm conflicted in this life to stay home, be attached to my 'clan' family and being comfortable at home. Not exploring others outside my group.

To complete my journey in life with NN in Capricorn, I have to have some type of achievement in business, going outside of my family (which is something I always feared)
but, to keep a balance, I must develop a strong sense of family and achievement in whatever business endeavors i achieve.

It makes sense I am so attracted to him. His home life, he moved out on his own at such a young age. Worked from the bottom and has a very stable independent life, without much family roots.

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Mine is in cap, too!! Maybe I've confused this with romantic attraction, because I'm attracted to him in that way. Not at first...but I think it's the things that we have in common through our jobs that have fueled the attraction.

I just feel like we complete each other some how. Maybe I'm delusional. Lol

posted November 07, 2015 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Septembergirl:
Mine is in cap, too!! Maybe I've confused this with romantic attraction, because I'm attracted to him in that way. Not at first...but I think it's the things that we have in common through our jobs that have fueled the attraction.

I just feel like we complete each other some how. Maybe I'm delusional. Lol

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I know what you mean, but there might be other aspects to that.
I felt a pull towards him, and I think what adds to my adoring him is the Sun conjunct Venus aspect like someone else says.

Keep being around him as much as you can, see what you can learn from him this lifetime.

posted November 07, 2015 02:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Airyaquarian:

I know what you mean, but there might be other aspects to that.
I felt a pull towards him, and I think what adds to my adoring him is the Sun conjunct Venus aspect like someone else says.

Keep being around him as much as you can, see what you can learn from him this lifetime.

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Our composite has sun conjunct Venus in Scorpio. 😬

posted November 07, 2015 03:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Septembergirl:
Our composite has sun conjunct Venus in Scorpio. 😬

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posted November 07, 2015 05:14 PM            

Have you ever been around someone, who made you feel so good about being you? That's how the sun feels, they feel like they can be themselves. [/B][/QUOTE]

I know, right?? Aw, that is sweet.
I figured out today that my psyche is conjunct his NN exact. In Scorpio as well. Wonder what that means??

posted November 08, 2015 07:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
From SUN conjunct VENUS in Scorpio in composite alone? I disagree. Sure, it's possible, but hardly guaranteed, you know?

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I'm not sure what you mean....

posted November 08, 2015 07:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Septembergirl:
I'm not sure what you mean....

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Someone (I suspect you?) spoke highly of the Scorpio VENUS conjunct SUN in composite as being an intense, obsessive attraction. I warned not to be so general. That's not always the case, of course.

posted November 08, 2015 08:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Someone (I suspect you?) spoke highly of the Scorpio VENUS conjunct SUN in composite as being an intense, obsessive attraction. I warned not to be so general. That's not always the case, of course.

Scratch that. It was Airyaquarian. It just wasn't quoted properly. I had to track it back.

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I don't know why it didn't quote correctly. I tried to fix it and it still wouldn't do it correctly.
I'm sure that aspect adds fuel to the fire, but isn't the cause.

posted November 08, 2015 08:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
From SUN conjunct VENUS in Scorpio in composite alone? I disagree. Sure, it's possible, but hardly guaranteed, you know?

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Yeah I just realized its composite.
Not synastry like I have with my guy.
A lot if my plants conjunct his sun. It's not obsession but adoration perhaps?
If I'm obessed. I'm pretty sure there's mars-moons synastry. Some Pluto contacts as well. Or 8th house in plants

General explaining I had my sun conjunct someone's Venus and I felt "great to be around them adorn'