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Topic: Full of oppositions! Will we ever get together?
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WhiteSunshine314
Newflake Posts: 7
From: California USA
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 04, 2015 04:03 PM
  
Our synstry is full of tight oppositions... Mostly between personal planets. There is definitely a strong attraction, we also share a sun/moon conjunction. The problem is he is pretty shy, as well as I can be (especially when I like someone). Even though I can tell we like each other I feel as though I might have to make the move, and I don't know if I want to do that. Are all of these oppositions in the way? If we could get passed this initial awkwardness I feel like we would hit it off. Any advice/ insight?Me
Sun/ Pisces
Moon/ Taurus
Asc/ Cancer
Merc/ Pisces
Venus/Aires
Mars/ Sag Him
Sun/ Virgo (opposite -1 my sun)
Moon/ Pisces (exact conj my sun)
Asc/ ? (I have a feeling it's libra)
Merc/ Libra (opposite my Venus)
Venus/ Scorpio (opposite my moon, conj. My Pluto)
Mars/ Virgo (opposite -1 my sun) Also his Jupiter conj. My asc. opposite my Neptune.
His Saturn conjunction my Desc. And there is a grand trine between both of our jupiters and his Pluto in all water signs. Appreciate any insights!
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Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 5801
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 04, 2015 06:44 PM
Welcome to LL!  So, his VENUS is conjunct your PLUTO? Oh, boy. That's a heavy one. Guys don't know how to do heavy until they reach a certain age. Even then, it's kind of debatable, you know? The exact SUN conjunct MOON is a very nice thing, however. The MOON tends to feel quite devoted to the SUN. My parents have this. It's very nice when the man's MOON is conjunct the woman's SUN, in my experience. I have several major oppositions with my boyfriend, including his MOON opposite my SUN. There's definitely a push-pull flavour, as is customary for oppositions, but it's hardly a death sentence. IP: Logged |
WhiteSunshine314
Newflake Posts: 7
From: California USA
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 05, 2015 03:55 AM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Welcome to LL! So, his VENUS is conjunct your PLUTO? Oh, boy. That's a heavy one. Guys don't know how to do heavy until they reach a certain age. Even then, it's kind of debatable, you know? The exact SUN conjunct MOON is a very nice thing, however. The MOON tends to feel quite devoted to the SUN. My parents have this. It's very nice when the man's MOON is conjunct the woman's SUN, in my experience. I have several major oppositions with my boyfriend, including his MOON opposite my SUN. There's definitely a push-pull flavour, as is customary for oppositions, but it's hardly a death sentence.
Thank you so much for your gracious greetings  Yes pluto could be quite heavy, but his Venus is in Scorpio! King of all things heavy and intense!? lol I guess I get the feeling that he is just a little too shy and Im blaming it on all of these oppositions. I would think that with his moon conjunct my sun that might make him feel a bit more vulnerable (with his feelings) than how receive it via Sun (ego)? Ive never dated a Virgo but I think their energy is quite kind and gentle.
Also my experience with sun/moon opposition relationships have been some of the most intense, loving and transforming. That aspect can feel very magnetic!
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 2526
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 05, 2015 05:23 AM
Personally, I like oppositions. But then again, everything in moderation.That Mars/Sun conjunct and Mars/Moon opposition,should give him the "gusto" to just go for it. What aspects are made nataly to his Venus? IP: Logged |
WhiteSunshine314
Newflake Posts: 7
From: California USA
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 05, 2015 02:06 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Personally, I like oppositions. But then again, everything in moderation.That Mars/Sun conjunct and Mars/Moon opposition,should give him the "gusto" to just go for it. What aspects are made nataly to his Venus?
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WhiteSunshine314
Newflake Posts: 7
From: California USA
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 05, 2015 05:26 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Personally, I like oppositions. But then again, everything in moderation.That Mars/Sun conjunct and Mars/Moon opposition,should give him the "gusto" to just go for it. What aspects are made nataly to his Venus?
that is a great point! very interesting I did not see that He has some nice aspects going on with his venus.. trine jupiter (conjunct my ASC) and sextile uranus, saturn , and neptune (which are conjuncting my DSC).. hmmm maybe im feeling that saturn there IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 2526
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 06, 2015 01:14 PM
Hmmm..I am not convinced that those aspects would altogether influence the effect of Venus in Scorpio that greatly.Virgo is by nature very prudent, careful and systematic. The conjunct aspect of Sun and Mars should add a certain "resolve" and single-mindedness towards a goal; albeit attained in a highly systematic manner. Moon in Pisces is random, prone to feeling, erratic and "inspired". The opposition between the two could have a "on again/off again" effect. But I still maintain that Mars aspecting moon would steady the intentions. Even if the modus operandi is quite slow and puritanical. I think you should be a little more patient with him. He will eventually get there. But this may be a hard pill to swallow for your Venus in Aries who often just wants to "get started already"!!! He is staying true to his nature. Do you have any other Aries placements? Something that may be responsible for your impatience? IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 1182
From: <--------- over there.
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted November 06, 2015 01:31 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Personally, I like oppositions. But then again, everything in moderation.
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Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 5801
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 06, 2015 03:07 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
He is staying true to his nature. Do you have any other Aries placements? Something that may be responsible for your impatience?
Yep, she's an Aries VENUS. Dunno the degree though. She said it's opposite his MERC. IP: Logged |
WhiteSunshine314
Newflake Posts: 7
From: California USA
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 06, 2015 06:20 PM
I think you should be a little more patient with him. He will eventually get there. But this may be a hard pill to swallow for your Venus in Aries who often just wants to "get started already"!!! He is staying true to his nature. Do you have any other Aries placements? Something that may be responsible for your impatience? I think your right. I need to be patient. I do not have any other Aires placements. It may be the cause of my SUN square MARS. I feel I can be really patient (Taurus moon) and then all of a sudden I feel like I need to initiate something! Go for it! It's the passionate side of me. But I've learned that after I do that the relationship usually gets boring, left feeling unfulfilled and dull then I'm over it and by then they usually are too. So taking it slow usually works for me considering long term. Btw thank you so much for your insight! It is greatly appreciated. This is a wonderful site and one of my first posts. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 5801
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 06, 2015 06:41 PM
VENUS in Aries isn't enough?   IP: Logged |
WhiteSunshine314
Newflake Posts: 7
From: California USA
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 06, 2015 06:41 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Hmmm..I am not convinced that those aspects would altogether influence the effect of Venus in Scorpio that greatly.Virgo is by nature very prudent, careful and systematic. The conjunct aspect of Sun and Mars should add a certain "resolve" and single-mindedness towards a goal; albeit attained in a highly systematic manner. Moon in Pisces is random, prone to feeling, erratic and "inspired". The opposition between the two could have a "on again/off again" effect. But I still maintain that Mars aspecting moon would steady the intentions. Even if the modus operandi is quite slow and puritanical. I think you should be a little more patient with him. He will eventually get there. But this may be a hard pill to swallow for your Venus in Aries who often just wants to "get started already"!!! He is staying true to his nature. Do you have any other Aries placements? Something that may be responsible for your impatience?
I feel like if I do t do something the opportunity will pass.. But I think I'm going to take your advice and be patient see where it goes
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