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posted November 06, 2015 03:39 PM            

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Hello! I’m having few years of interesting happenings and confusion regarding this person but only recently I started digging little deeper to understand. I was wondering if you could shed some astrological light upon our charts. Thank you so much!

Synastry chart (I am the inner circle and I am female, he is the outer circle)

https://40.media.tumblr.com/6bd7d8dedfdba8c3614ef0fe165114de/tumblr_nxe7w8y8u11qgr1apo1_1280.jpg

And composite

https://41.media.tumblr.com/9a46c7f591b09a917bfc0958f151278c/tumblr_nxe7w8y8u11qgr1apo2_1280.jpg

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posted November 06, 2015 04:14 PM            

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Are both time of births correct?

It might be his moon falling into your 8th, along with his Pluto conjuncting your ascendant. Your Mars and moon also square his Pluto.

These aspects, especially all at once, can bring out obsessive feelings in each other.

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posted November 06, 2015 05:28 PM            

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Yes they are. Interesting...I'm not usually a person to obsess over anyone, but I just can't shake it off. Thank you for you insight!

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posted November 06, 2015 05:52 PM            

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hi ya

I think the fascination and infatuation is because the vertex is exactly conjunct he descendant on the 27th degree of virgo and the Venus/Uranus midpoint is square the vertex on the 26th degree of sag.
vertex on the descendant gives a spontaneous and almost unbreakable connection. it can be good or bad but here with the Venus/Uranus midpoint square the vertex, there is a an intense electric emotional connection. Uranus/venus gives intense and immediate attraction but often shows a unstable and changeable relationship. usually this is a brief affair. but here with the vertex involved this seemingly intense and fleeting attraction does not wane. hence you inability to let go. to complicate matters the venus/Saturn midpoint is also square the vertex/descendant on the 29th degree sag.
and the chiron/mercury midpoint is opn the 28th degree of gemini with the chiron/jupiter midpoint on the 29th degree of Gemini. these sag/Gemini midpoints are actually harsh as Venus/Saturn often shows love denied and the chiron midpoints can show a critical nature to the relationship. But these "harsh" aspects are close to the attractive aspects of venus/Uranus so the relationship has a off and on nature. either it is extremely intense and exhilarating or it seems cold and critical.
it is interesting that you bring this up now because the transiting node will transit through these aspects from late November till late December. so I assume you and he are in contact or will be in contact very soon again. as the node moves retrograde the problematic aspects will be transited first in November and then the attractive Uranus/venus aspects will be transited in December. but I think the end wilkl be the same, that is the potential happiness of December will fade away as usual by jan 2016.
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posted November 07, 2015 07:36 AM            

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Wow, that makes so much sense actually. It was/is instant and intense, and it still affects me greatly. I don't know, it's like I imprinted on him, lol. Ever since he appeared I am not the same person anymore.
Hmm, maybe I subconsciously felt something's coming soon. We'll see. I'll report back.
Do you see some more major reoccurring themes in the chart except this "obsessive" nature?
Thank you for your help!

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posted November 07, 2015 04:30 PM            

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well there some really neat aspets with vensu opposed to Jupiter and mrcury and the sun/venus midpoint square to Jupiter/mercury. ths pattern is very loving,optimistic with emotional and mental openness and a lot of laughter. this shows not only personal attraction but it shows a general enjoyment of life . just being with each other makes life feels more expansive and happy .
but the off and on theme is still present as chiron is opposed the Saturn/Neptune conjunction and Uranus is conjunct to Saturn.
this pattern shows him to be distant andsecretive. it also shws he is hesistant about a serous inbvolvment and gives mixed signals, if he gives any signalksat all.thr e satrun/Neptune conunctin shows him to be complicate and he does not let you know what relly goes on in his life. privbacy is a very big thing for him.
there is a stable emotionally attractive feeling here as the moon is trine to venus, but chiron opposed to Saturn shows at times a very critical or almost hostile emotional demeanor can come over him. but the biggest stumbling block is the secretive moods as you can't really tell what he is feeling at times

todd

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posted November 08, 2015 09:18 AM            

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Yes! I've felt those hostile vibes at times, though I never gave him the real reason to act or feel that way. I sense him very well, his moods and personality, I don't know, it's like I've known him since forever. And sometimes it's as if he's angry because of that, like he's internally screaming "How dare you, who gave you the right to know me like that?" Sometimes I swear I can feel the wave of hate towards me. There is the great warmth and understanding, but there is this current underneath which is very heavy and it is so confusing and maybe I'm also kind of afraid of it too to try and discuss further.

Thank you once again, Todd, you're spot on. I don't wanna bother you anymore, have a nice day.

If there's someone who feels like adding something though, I'd appreciate very much.

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