posted November 08, 2015 09:55 PM            

my moon also quincunx his sun & venus. His moon semi sextile my moon.

posted November 08, 2015 10:09 PM            

It can work, but often it doesn't - not long-term, anyway.

Emotional understanding is very important, and with the quincunx, it's like you're from two different worlds.

posted November 08, 2015 10:59 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Did you and your girlfriend break up?

It can work, but often it doesn't - not long-term, anyway.

Emotional understanding is very important, and with the quincunx, it's like you're from two different worlds.

When it's good, you can appreciate each other's differences, but when it's bad, you're not on the same page, and it's hard to get back to normality.

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I second this. From a 30+ year on again off again relationship with Sun inconjunct Sun exact. Like the nursery rhyme... When its good, its very good but when its bad, its horrid. Move from the realm of Sun to the emotions of Moon, and you've got it.

posted November 08, 2015 11:31 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Did you and your girlfriend break up?

It can work, but often it doesn't - not long-term, anyway.

Emotional understanding is very important, and with the quincunx, it's like you're from two different worlds.

When it's good, you can appreciate each other's differences, but when it's bad, you're not on the same page, and it's hard to get back to normality.

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No we are still together im primarily looking for a friendship with him nothing more than that to be honest and was just curious about the QUINXUNX. I defently feel this aspect is very magnatetic but awkward. Your explanation helped

posted November 08, 2015 11:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
I second this. From a 30+ year on again off again relationship with Sun inconjunct Sun exact. Like the nursery rhyme... When its good, its very good but when its bad, its horrid. Move from the realm of Sun to the emotions of Moon, and you've got it.

One difference perhaps... You understand each other very well... until you don't. That's what's maddening. Never assume. Talk. Hope you've got good Mercury aspects...

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So you think two grand trines involving both of our moons Wont ease this aspect geminiblues? Instead I should look for Mercury aspects? Well our mercuries our semi-square and his Mercury sextile my sun uranus and Neptune, my Mercury conjunct his uranus.

posted November 09, 2015 01:38 AM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
So you think two grand trines involving both of our moons Wont ease this aspect geminiblues? Instead I should look for Mercury aspects? Well our mercuries our semi-square and his Mercury sextile my sun uranus and Neptune, my Mercury conjunct his uranus.

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posted November 09, 2015 06:22 AM            

Our moon are in quincunx, as well as out sun and moon.

We have been together for over 18 months and all seem well.

His sun and moon is in Aries, and my moon is in Scorpio. I think the common ruler (mars) being is a trine help. Plus positive mercury contacts.

posted November 09, 2015 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Honestly, my boyfriend and I don't have any issues with it. Granted, it's wide; 2°. But it's the opposite for us. We're cut from THE same emotional cloth to the point where it's eerie.

This may be due to our lunar dispositors being exactly conjunct, however. There may be a strong resonance there due to that.

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Omg I am so stupid I have a semi sextile not a QUINCUNX to our moon to moon in synastry and its under 1 orb aubyanne. But thank you for this im glad you have something similar and it isn't effecting your relationship so much .

posted November 09, 2015 09:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Capricornheart:
I have this aspect also with a guy I'm dating.

Our moon are in quincunx, as well as out sun and moon.

We have been together for over 18 months and all seem well.

His sun and moon is in Aries, and my moon is in Scorpio. I think the common ruler (mars) being is a trine help. Plus positive mercury contacts.

I would suggest looking and aspects to mercury as communication is key, and aspects to the rulers of you planets involved in the quincunx.

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Omg! That's nice! I actually have something quite similar his sun and venus in scopeio and his moon in taurus and my moon in aries.

Also what do you mean by common ruler Mars being trine?

posted November 09, 2015 09:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
I would guess that it depends what is trining each Moon. But it still could be like a game of "telephone". Make sure you aren't making assumptions about what the other is feeling. Make sure you communicate.

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posted November 09, 2015 11:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
I have this with the guy I'm seeing - his moon in Virgo my moon in Aries. For some reason, it works. It's like we are fascinated with each other's emotions, because they're not predictable. The trines will probably make it so there's less or no frustration.

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posted November 09, 2015 05:17 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
Omg I am so stupid I have a semi sextile not a QUINCUNX to our moon to moon in synastry and its under 1 orb aubyanne. But thank you for this im glad you have something similar and it isn't effecting your relationship so much .

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Yeah, that's totally different. I used to tell myself, 'look out for the tabletop', and 'basket is open'. I mean, I was nine. But, still.

I'm not entirely sure how these work, exactly. Unlike the parallel, it doesn't have karmic significance, even as the quincunx naturally DOES have karmic implication. Nonetheless, the rulers or dispositors conjunct, or dwads as well -- these clearly mean something. It almost feels like a place to meet -- a bit of common ground; an area where conflict can be resolved in a 'third option', if we utilise the potential gifts, skills, and traits that are represented.

To use the aforementioned as an example, we're looking at the 22nd degree of Libra. Lynda Hill calls it the 'kind, small deeds' degree, and how small efforts can bring great rewards; simple, unconditional gestures of giving and love that are beyond the realm of expectations. Giving 'just because'.

Where does it fall apart? When expectations become involved; when tallies are taken, and scorecards introduced. Just as soon as it becomes a matter of exchange rather than communality, it's back to Aries versus Scorpio; MARS is not exactly taking on PLUTO, (per se) but Scorpio MOON is privately boiling over regarding the selfish audacity of the Aries MOON, who has NO idea what Scorpio's on about, and, before long, both are at their battle stations, as it goes from a cold war to a very hot one quickly.

Otherwise, our genuine goodwill towards each other, and unconditional desire to support the other in all endeavours is what prevails. This sort of understanding of basic intentions, and that circumstances sometimes prevent us from delivering upon them they way we'd like to.