posted November 10, 2015 08:51 PM            

I also did our midpoints. Here is how I fall on his:

Sun=Sun/Moon (orb 1)
Mars=Sun/Mars (orb 0)
Mars=Sun/Saturn (orb 0)
Venus=Sun/Pluto (orb 0)
Jupiter=Sun/True Node (orb 0)
Venus=Moon/Venus (orb 0)
Venus=Moon/Jupiter (orb 0)
NNode=Moon/Mars (orb 0)
Sun=Venus/Uranus (orb 0)
Sun=Jupiter/Uranus (orb 0)
Venus=Uranus/Chiron (orb 1)
Moon=Pluto/NNode (orb 1)

He doesn't hit as many of mine:

posted November 11, 2015 06:37 AM            

We kind of bonded over comedy (we like the same stuff), that's why we are seeing a show.

posted November 15, 2015 11:04 AM            

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Originally posted by downtomars:
Something else cool that I noticed is our Moon-Moon conjunction. The last "gentleman" I dated had Moon in Aries, exactly opposed to my moon. That turned out to be pretty terrible for many reasons, but I could feel our moon opposition from the beginning. Me and this new guy have similar dispositions...

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posted November 15, 2015 11:07 AM            

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Originally posted by downtomars:
So, I just got done with our date. No chemistry, no spark. We did the polite "Oh, call me to hang out next week thing", but that probably won't happen. Oh well...

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posted November 15, 2015 11:26 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Maybe his Mars/Saturn on your Venus/Descendant is the reason for the lack of chemistry. His Saturn opposing your Ascendant might feel restricting.

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Still weird to me.

I have a saturn/moon DW with my ex boyfriend no good aspects as venus-mars and were very attracted to one another at the beggining.
-Saturn is in my 7H
We didnt last long though (just few months) OF COURSE cuz besides the saturn/moon in synastry we have 4 saturn squares in composite lol

posted November 15, 2015 02:44 PM            

I don't have any experience with a Davidson chart, I'll have to learn more about it. Here it is:

posted November 15, 2015 06:39 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Maybe his Mars/Saturn on your Venus/Descendant is the reason for the lack of chemistry. His Saturn opposing your Ascendant might feel restricting.

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posted November 15, 2015 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
post mortems are easy.
I just looked at this composite and off the top with mars square to pluto conjunct the node, he is marked as extremely selfish and looking for a quick "fix" rather than a relationship.
the moon sextile to Saturn and trine to venus does look favorable but the Saturn/Uranus midpoint is square to the sun/Jupiter conjunction, implying he is not interested in stability and his hesitant attitude would be expected. with mars square the node , I would think that you took some of the initiative to arrange the date ,as this aspect shows he is kind of of into himself, that is you were responding to his energy more than he was interested in your energy.

todd

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Thank you Todd!

I actually think that he is into himself but not in the way we might think. I actually felt like he may have been somewhere on the autism spectrum, very high functioning (Aspergers). That is not a bad thing at all, he would not be the first guy I've dated with a behavioral or mental health diagnosis. I can recognize it because my brother is on the spectrum (autistic disorder). So, for him, I think, "into himself" just means within his own thoughts, or in his own head, as opposed too a jerk that only cares about himself. He is very sweet in a way and a very nice, nice guy. I would see him again, but I didn't have that initial "zsa zsa zsu" (as Carrie Bradshaw would say) :-P

Interestingly...This morning I told my mother that I thought he had Aspergers and how many men I've dated with Aspergers or another behavioral disorder, ADHD. She said "That's why the guys you date are always so smart!".

That was, as Oprah would say, an "a-ha moment". Yeah. This guy has three masters degrees and all of the others have lots of academic honors as well, along with lots of social issues.

What can I say? I like an extremely smart, slightly awkward guy...

posted November 15, 2015 10:50 PM            

He didn't touch me (until the end, I'll get to that later). I am very tactile, very warm and touchy-feely. I have to smell a man, put my head on his chest, squeeze his arm. I have to have a guy that holds my hand and gives me hugs and puts his arm around my chair - someone affectionate. I didn't get any of that with him. He told me as much beforehand, because I asked if he would consider himself an affectionate person. He told me that he was not comfortable answering such a personal question (huh?) and I had to rephrase it, saying "I just want to know if you are the 'Don't touch me! type'..." and he replied "I like to cuddle". Good enough, I thought.

So, in person, he did the same thing the last Taurus I dated did - walked about three steps ahead of me, didn't hold my hand, had his hands in his lap during the show and avoided all physical contact during the date. I thought "Well, he's not so impressed I guess...". Then at the (abrupt) end of our date, at the train station, he gave me a quick hug and kiss on the cheek and...

"So what day do you get back? Sunday night?"

"Yup, Sunday"

"So we'll hang out, meet halfway"

"Okay"(?)

"But, we'll text before that..."

"Mmm hmm"

...This was so quick and awkward. I think I thanked him, maybe?

So, I really don't know what happened. It could have went well, I don't know, :-D

My cousin, who is against any kind of affection, said "Nachos, wings and no touching - perfect!"

Not to me...

I spoke with my mother this morning and she said "So? Maybe he was nervous. Sounds like a nice guy, but you only like guys who treat you like [crap]".

The thing is, I easily fall for the "overly demonstrative" type (aka "playas"). I'm not used to not ending a date with a passionate kiss. Even the other guy with Aspergers (the other Taurus I was talking about) ended the date by (awkwardly) asking "Do you want to make out?", and we did.