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Topic: Pain theme in a relationship... Is it really worth it?
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mymeyou
Newflake Posts: 5
From: Big big city
Registered: Nov 2015
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posted November 19, 2015 03:10 PM
  
Hello,
at the moment I am so sad because of some problems in my relationship.My boyfriend and I know each other for two years now.
I have pluto conjunct venus transit and I met him under uranus square venus transit.
When I spend time with him it is so painful. Not always but sometimes. I only want to cry and I do not know the reason for that. When I feel this "pain" I need some extra time alone. I can't stand his company.
Another problem is that I am so nervous in his company For me it feels like test fear... At the moment I am very tired of this and thinking about leaving this relationship. Can someone look in our synastry chart? I am inside, he is outside.
Why is it so painful for me but not for him?
Maybe because of northnode conjunct chiron? 
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LeeLoo2014
Knowflake Posts: 16795
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 19, 2015 03:32 PM
Welcome 
It's actually a rather difficult synastry, for you are more involved, astrologically, then he is. Many of his planets are left aside by your chart, I am sorry for what you experience  so difficulties are to be expected.
There are some tight aspects, which make the relationship compulsive, but not enough power to sustain it, in the long run.------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... LeeLoo's Esotericorner IP: Logged |
mymeyou
Newflake Posts: 5
From: Big big city
Registered: Nov 2015
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posted November 19, 2015 04:05 PM
We are kind of drawn to each other and we can talk about everything. The communication gets better and better. It was always difficult for both of us to open up in a relationship before we met each other. But we already had some issues and we also like to "fight". I guess sun square sun is not an easy aspect.But what are the other difficult aspects?
After our first date I was at home and was crying the whole night although it was a wonderful first date. I really hate this pain issue.
Is there kind of astrological definition? IP: Logged |
margym0o
Knowflake Posts: 584
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted November 19, 2015 04:47 PM
Google various explanations of Mars (yours) conjunct Saturn (his) and you may find something to help explain your feelings. What exactly about his presence/behaviour makes you feel pain? There really isn't much here to explain it otherwise. You may also feel like he isn't totally "with you" like you are with him as LeeLoo explained with so many of his personal planets unaspected. Those are a lot of areas that you are "out of touch" with. Did you reduce the orbs by chance?IP: Logged |
mymeyou
Newflake Posts: 5
From: Big big city
Registered: Nov 2015
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posted November 19, 2015 05:39 PM
Well, he seems to me very self-confident and very good in talking to people.
I am shy and it is hard for me to relate to others.
Sometimes I have the feeling he is on a "higher" level than I am. He sometimes seems to be impatient. This is an extreme example: I did my drivers license 3 months ago. He is a car freak and a very experienced driver. I was driving his car and was a little nervous. In the beginning he tried to help me but lost his patient because I was too slow. He was so upset after I did a stupid mistake. He said he does not understand how I could get my drivers license and it is only a matter of time till I cause an accident. The consequences were I was more nervous and told him to shut up. But this could possibly be explained by this unaspected planets... I have to google that as well. Thank you for the advice! IP: Logged |
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