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Topic: synastry: long term?
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sxorpia Knowflake Posts: 119 From: Exit 75 Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 30, 2015 02:59 AM
I'm wondering if our synastry and composite charts show signs of a long term relationship, amicable or otherwise. any help and input is appreciated! please don't quote IP: Logged |
sxorpia Knowflake Posts: 119 From: Exit 75 Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 30, 2015 03:01 AM
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Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6345 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 30, 2015 05:54 AM
If that's an exact SUN conjunct PLUTO -- as in 0º-0º30 -- it will be keenly felt.IP: Logged |
sxorpia Knowflake Posts: 119 From: Exit 75 Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 30, 2015 03:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: If that's an exact SUN conjunct PLUTO -- as in 0º-0º30 -- it will be keenly felt.
it's exact at 0°03s but is it felt by one side moreso than the other? the articles I've been reading have said it's essentially mutual. and it feels mutual. but that it is all dependent on where we both are in life. thank you, Aubyanne IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 528 From: New Jersey Registered: Jul 2014
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posted November 30, 2015 06:01 PM
I don't see a lot happening here. Your personal planets look almost completely unaspected. So, in the long run, I think you'd feel a bit unsatisfied. IP: Logged |
Cappi112 Knowflake Posts: 454 From: New York, New York, USA Registered: May 2015
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posted December 01, 2015 02:26 PM
My personal take on Synastry is that it should be like bootcamp for the real-deal, the commitment (composite).So, without any hard energy in Synastry to make things HAPPEN, I see relationships fizzle quickly, or become pretty ambivalent/boring. This one... while pleasant, does not have the real, raw energy needed in my opinion to make a bond form. I'm not saying that dating has to be HARD or painful before a real commitment is formed, but there needs to be some real POW, passion, oomf to make two people recognize each other as something important. What I see is , right off the bat, a total lack of energy from the luminaries. To me that just looks like a dim lamp. Comforting... but not enough to draw my attention. I couldn't totally figure out who's who in the chart you added, but it doesn't really matter: Sun energy is realllyyy way too empty for any ongoing relationship. There is a sextile of Sun/Saturn, but in my humble opinion, Saturn needs to be stronger in synastry, and then gentler in composite later on. It is, afterall, that glue that forms the bonds. I see almost zero Chiron energy (not that I am a huge fan of chiron, but I always consider that an indicator of a karmic bond). I see very little Juno energy - the marriage/commitment asteroid. More importantly, Moon is too empty/ unaspected as well. There is a lack of moon from his side, although it does overlay your 5th house (if I'm looking at this right), which is your fun/romance house, so I am guessing you feel an emotional link to him and attraction therein. Your moon is in his 1H, so I think maybe your emotional energy is supportive to him and makes him feel good. So that could work well for a friendship. But all moon orbs are relatively wide, so I don't think this is likely to be a super-close bond. Also, the square of Moon and Uranus alwayyyysss makes me cringe. There IS some venus energy here, but really, just in semi-sextiles... again, just nooottt enough. You need the attraction to each other. There is, kind of surprisingly, some strong Pluto here. But that can be tricky, as it could lead one person to feeling dominated and left out to dry by the other. And, going back to my initial point, the lack of Saturn strength here just wouldn't create enough glue for a longterm bond, in my opinion. I'd guess this could be a very easy-going friendship, but not a deep, emotional connection at all. Curious to hear what the relationship is like to you in reality though? Can you give a little more background? IP: Logged |
sxorpia Knowflake Posts: 119 From: Exit 75 Registered: Aug 2014
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posted December 08, 2015 03:59 AM
Ty@ Cappi112 and LaceyLeighyes we'll I've known him since I was 19, just turned 25. we recently reconnected. he's on and off been in touch in the form of dreams as well as (though he won't admit to it) he's found out where I've worked in the past and had a few people sort of lightly spy on me. But really the catalyst was. He kept appearing in my dreams the past few months and in them he was hurt. Physically and emotionally. So i called him. this was October. End of October around the 20-25th. We talked and started actually dating again around the 11th of November. We took it too fast though and have since slowed the pace but atm we are in a very good place. Progressing really well. Neither of us are very good with relationships but for whatever reason we're working beautifully together. learning one another's spaces and teaching each oother anything / everything we can. I believe in synastry but I also know what we are to be a stronger truth. If that makes any sense. Perhaps. Soul (draconic) can reveal more? Edit. Gotta head to work will reply later @Aub thanks for all your help again IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6345 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 08, 2015 06:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by sxorpia: it's exact at 0°03sbut is it felt by one side moreso than the other? the articles I've been reading have said it's essentially mutual. and it feels mutual. but that it is all dependent on where we both are in life. thank you, Aubyanne
SUN is under PLUTO's sway, but PLUTO can become very obsessed. Of course, SUN can be haunted by PLUTO's impact years -- even decades -- later. Never quite forgetting them. Likely due to the intense transformation. That in and of itself doesn't speak to the long term in my experience. It burns hot, intensely, and then fades. There are lessons to be learnt. Once done, the individuals tend to be done as well. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6345 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 08, 2015 06:12 AM
I think the dASC conjunct ASC in mid-Cap is the link -- providing it's in orb. Draco points are learning from the tropical how to best actualise their greatest potential. The dASC/ASC link is nice, in that case, but I'd need to see a bit more than that to declare a fated, long term thing. Tell me more about the dream connexion. IP: Logged |
sxorpia Knowflake Posts: 119 From: Exit 75 Registered: Aug 2014
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posted December 19, 2015 01:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: I think the dASC conjunct ASC in mid-Cap is the link -- providing it's in orb. Draco points are learning from the tropical how to best actualise their greatest potential. The dASC/ASC link is nice, in that case, but I'd need to see a bit more than that to declare a fated, long term thing. Tell me more about the dream connexion.
His draconic natal asc 13 Cap 52'28'' My western natal asc 12 Cap 42'34" Is that within orb? I've just gotten off the phone with him an hour ago and 5 min and we both are finally on the same page and know we have to stop spending time together. We agreed that it's for the best. He unleashes anger and frustration in me and I do the same within him. Neither of us mean to and neither of want that or need it in our lives especially atm. There have been quite a few dreams. I will update later with the two that stood out the most and catalyzed me into contacting him. Have to find them again
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sxorpia Knowflake Posts: 119 From: Exit 75 Registered: Aug 2014
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posted December 21, 2015 05:11 AM
what about an exact mars / POF conj? with me being mars, him having his POF at 7º gemini.IP: Logged |
sxorpia Knowflake Posts: 119 From: Exit 75 Registered: Aug 2014
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posted December 22, 2015 11:02 PM
i just realized there's not only the mars / POF but also PHOLUS conj CHIRON exact. where he's chiron and i'm pholus.i found this quote:
Chiron conjunct Pholus. That one aspect would be super intense. With asteroids, one must do one’s own research, as there can be precious little information available. I have been checking out Pholus in charts and have come to this conclusion. Pholus explodes what it touches. If Pholus touches Chiron, the planet of pain, a person will explode with his pain. If Pholus touches Ceres, the asteroid of unconditional love, the person may be a teacher who gives unconditional love to her students. This was the case in a chart I did. If one persons Pholus touches another persons planet, the Pholus person can make the planet person “explode” in that area. By explode, I mean come forth and break open. I liken it to an infection which comes to a head. Then, it can open and heal.. Each energy is part of being human. One must embrace each part of the chart as one must embrace each part of oneself.
idk if this belongs in the asteroid forum at this point. i can't find anything on POF conj Mars in terms of synastry other than it being a potential marriage indicator. IP: Logged | |