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Topic: Thoughts on this composite?
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Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1712 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 03, 2015 10:03 AM
We've been together 3 months.I just want different thoughts and opinions. More analysis. Thank you in advance. 😊 MY NATAL HIS NATAL
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Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1712 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 03, 2015 03:28 PM
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todd Knowflake Posts: 1494 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 03, 2015 07:31 PM
hi yanmorg the composite has the nice Venus/mercury/sun stellium. this show affection and laughter filled time together. it a good communication and an open emotional channel between you.but mars square to Pluto is a bit moody and distant at times and the Saturn/Neptune conjunction just negates what a previously said. you two may have good communication but he does not let his real feeling out. he is secretive and doesn't tell you much about what he does when he is not with you. the vertex axis is on the nodal axis which brings a feeling of knowing each other from before and gives a psychic connection. most troubling for a long term relationship is that the midpoints of the moon/Venus, moon/mercury and sun/moon are all conjunct the Saturn/Neptune conjunction. this unfortunately bodes that he will never let you know the real him . his privacy is a major concern for him and these midpoints show it always will be. 3 months would place the transiting node square to the mars/pluto midpoint. this is an extremely sexual position but it is not a emotionally intimate position .the node is now squaring the composite moons I would think that his secret and closed emotional nature is starting to wear on you, as you are being very emotionally expressive and he is not reciprocating.it is possible that you or he had broken up with a past lover just before you and he got together. so there is a bit of a "on the rebound" feeling to this chart. it just seems that the passion of this composite is past and I don't see any fire in the near future. todd IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1712 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 04, 2015 08:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by todd: hi yanmorg the composite has the nice Venus/mercury/sun stellium. this show affection and laughter filled time together. it a good communication and an open emotional channel between you.but mars square to Pluto is a bit moody and distant at times and the Saturn/Neptune conjunction just negates what a previously said. you two may have good communication but he does not let his real feeling out. he is secretive and doesn't tell you much about what he does when he is not with you. the vertex axis is on the nodal axis which brings a feeling of knowing each other from before and gives a psychic connection. most troubling for a long term relationship is that the midpoints of the moon/Venus, moon/mercury and sun/moon are all conjunct the Saturn/Neptune conjunction. this unfortunately bodes that he will never let you know the real him . his privacy is a major concern for him and these midpoints show it always will be. 3 months would place the transiting node square to the mars/pluto midpoint. this is an extremely sexual position but it is not a emotionally intimate position .the node is now squaring the composite moons I would think that his secret and closed emotional nature is starting to wear on you, as you are being very emotionally expressive and he is not reciprocating.it is possible that you or he had broken up with a past lover just before you and he got together. so there is a bit of a "on the rebound" feeling to this chart. it just seems that the passion of this composite is past and I don't see any fire in the near future. todd
Almost all of your interpretations I've read have been extremely negative which is why question the validity in your posts. Anyway, he's actually very emotionally expressive. We had a rough starr because of his stubborn 1st house Saturn, but he's starting to relax and open a lot more than he has in the beginning. As far as breaking up with a past lover, I was single for a long time before entering this new relationship. I agree with the mars square pluto being moody.
He's not secretive at all, just reserved and cautious. He openly shares his daily life and all with me aside from the fact that we're together practically every day. I appreciate your response, Todd. Thank you. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1712 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 05, 2015 01:08 PM
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Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1712 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 08, 2015 02:36 PM
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Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6711 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 08, 2015 03:57 PM
How's the sexual relationship sorting out, Yan? I know that was an issue. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1712 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 08, 2015 07:09 PM
He's still having issues, but I'm sure you know in today's day and age, there's ways around it and it works for us. He just needs a little "pick me up" every now & then but when it comes down to the actual act, AMAZING so I can't complain despite my initial frustration.I'm just concerned about that chiron dynamic between us. It rears its ugly head more often than not but we're trying to work things out. I've tried to end things a million times just out of frustration, anxiety, and exhaustion but he won't budge so we're coming along slowly but surely. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1712 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 10, 2015 09:40 AM
I noticed Transit Uranus will be squaring our Composite Love stellium in a few months. Is this a cause for concern? or does this transit mark big changes? or both? I know I shouldn't worry too much about transits to composite, but I already see how those Uranus squares might play out.IP: Logged |
Cappi112 Knowflake Posts: 695 From: New York, New York, USA Registered: May 2015
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posted December 10, 2015 09:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by todd: hi yanmorg the composite has the nice Venus/mercury/sun stellium. this show affection and laughter filled time together. it a good communication and an open emotional channel between you.but mars square to Pluto is a bit moody and distant at times and the Saturn/Neptune conjunction just negates what a previously said. you two may have good communication but he does not let his real feeling out. he is secretive and doesn't tell you much about what he does when he is not with you. the vertex axis is on the nodal axis which brings a feeling of knowing each other from before and gives a psychic connection. most troubling for a long term relationship is that the midpoints of the moon/Venus, moon/mercury and sun/moon are all conjunct the Saturn/Neptune conjunction. this unfortunately bodes that he will never let you know the real him . his privacy is a major concern for him and these midpoints show it always will be. 3 months would place the transiting node square to the mars/pluto midpoint. this is an extremely sexual position but it is not a emotionally intimate position .the node is now squaring the composite moons I would think that his secret and closed emotional nature is starting to wear on you, as you are being very emotionally expressive and he is not reciprocating.it is possible that you or he had broken up with a past lover just before you and he got together. so there is a bit of a "on the rebound" feeling to this chart. it just seems that the passion of this composite is past and I don't see any fire in the near future. todd
I am forever impressed with Todd's ability to cut right to the chase yet still be thoroughly on point with analyzing these charts. I'm still very new to analyzing charts, so the feeling I got most was that there is a hidden quality here, with SO many planets in the 12H and 11H (11 making me think there's a feeling of wanting to just be friends, etc...) If there were more 1H with the 12H, I'd say it's possible it develops romantically and is as much a spiritual bond as an outer one, but I don't get the same feeling with so much of the chart stuffed into that area. My question is just, how do YOU feel? Do you feel like there's secrecy or confusion about where you two stand? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1712 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 10, 2015 10:29 AM
I appreciate Todd's input, but he's incorrect about a number of things. I believe he uses cookbook interpretations instead of delving below the surface but that's just my opinion and I'm no professional. We are completely and totally in love. From doing research on the 12H and reading other posts, I believe we lucked up and the positive manifestation of the 12H resonates better with my relationship. He is very shy, reserved, and conservative, ESPECIALLY when it comes to us communicating, but he's gotten a lot better and continues to put a conscious effort in fixing his behavior.
There's no hidden element to our relationship except outsiders looking in have no idea what we're up to and since we're both pretty water dominated natally, that's perfectly fine with us. I believe that Saturn-Neptune conjunction in our composite just allows us to stay grounded. With so much water emphasis, Saturn had to rear his ugly head somewhere but in our case, it's actually quite beneficial. We talk about EVERYTHING. There's no room for secrets, hidden agendas, etc between us. Our connection won't allow it. As far as the 11th house goes, we are friends. Best friends actually. I feel like he is my partner in crime when we're not at each other's throats during an argument We also have tons of fun together traveling, playing games, sports, enjoying nature, etc. But the romantic interest, intensity, and feelings are still very much apparent, but he's just as much as a friend as he is a lover and it's perfect. He's NOT perfect, but that friend- lover medium IS. Issues arise when he still tries to opperate from that Moon-Saturn square of is. He can get extremely childish and defensive during a sensitive discussion that makes him uncomfortable, but he just went through his Saturn return and Transit Saturn was JUST on top of his moon so he's progressing, growing, and learning some hard lessons along the way, but he's a trooper! I can say that. After a bit of analysis on my part, I have come to the conclusion that our karma together has a lot to do with Mercury-Venus on both of our parts. Utter and total transformation. How did I come to this conclusion?
Pluto-Venus conjunct EXACT. Mars-Venus opposition EXACT. Both of our mercury-venus are unaspected. Both of our mercury-venus are in each other's 12H. His Venus in retrograde natally. The 11H in our composite represents our struggles with his friends. Due to his IC being in Aquarius and his Moon in the 4th, he places his sense of security in his friends vs. his family so there were some major jealousies and anger coming from both sides because his friends just didn't want to accept that he has a girlfriend now. He tried reasoning with them and talking things out, but eventually he just placed some distance between his friends and himself for the sake of our relationship.
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Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1712 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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