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InTheGreen
Newflake

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posted December 14, 2015 02:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for InTheGreen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm feeling conflicted of my relationship of 1 yr & 10 mo. It's long distance and there is an age gap. (could I have made this any harder for myself? haha)
I was going to provide more info but realized that maybe the less I revealed, the better for now.

Can anyone shed any clarity on what this relationship looks like by glancing at us?
It would really be appreciated.

Me:

Him:

Synastry: (He is on the outside)

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FireandSpiritandDew
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posted December 14, 2015 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireandSpiritandDew     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not brilliant at interpretations, I'm afraid, but I figure that any response is better than none

I notice that each of you has Pluto in the other's twelfth, and that your Pluto (your 12H ruler) has been squared by transiting Pluto for the last few years - seems like it would be quite hard. Also your Mercury-Vertex on his Chiron-SN-Mars.

I'd guess that your association has brought up quite a lot of deep, hidden and maybe painful issues for both of you. But also fascinating and addictive with his Pluto square your Venus (edit! And yours square his Mars).

'Course, I might be wrong (novice disclaimer!) but if so hopefully someone more knowledgeable will come and set you straight.


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Faith
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posted December 15, 2015 12:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Communication looks difficult because of the Mercury square Mercury.

His Scorpio ASC with Pluto in the 1H could be secretive or non-talkative; ASC square moon conjunct Saturn in Aquarius could also make him reserved. Quite a problem with a long-distance relationship.

I can see the appeal for you when his ASC is trine you sun, his Mercury conjunct your moon. (Especially because you are a Cancer...it's nice when someone can pick up directly on your emotions...and moon conjunct Mercury enables you to do that.)

Still, Mercury rules your DSC, it's in your 8H conjunct your Vertex, and you might need better Mercury-to-Mercury synastry in order to be happy.

He could express himself in ways that feel too harsh to you. Especially with his Mercury quincunx Pluto. His Mercury squares his nodes so he is trying to reign himself in and speak in such a way that it advances him across the board (Cap NN) and you see that he's trying so you hang on. Plus he's stable and you like that, too. But somehow it must leave you feeling like it's nothing coming together right.

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