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posted December 18, 2015 02:36 PM            

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He was VERY attracted to me but then he withdrew . When I told him lets cut the crap (I know harsh lol) because he was treating me like a burden he said "okay whatever you like"

Me (left) Him

Sun Square Venus 1.49
Moon Trine Venus 1.53
Moon Opposition Neptune 3.06
Mercury Conjunction Moon 1.45
Venus Opposition Sun 1.17
Venus Sextile Mars 1.37
Mars Opposition Mercury 2.51
Jupiter Conjunction Mercury 0.18
Jupiter Sextile Saturn 1.14
Saturn Square Mercury 1.25
Uranus Sextile Jupiter 1.17
Pluto Square Mars 1.46
Pluto Conjunction Jupiter 2.51
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 1.03
Ascendant Sextile Uranus 1.26

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posted December 18, 2015 03:06 PM            

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I don't attribute stuff like that to synastry.

Pick one:

He is either not attracted, is depressed or hung on somebody else so not emotionally available, or he is an idiot and a coward or he is gay.

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posted December 18, 2015 03:44 PM            

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^^ LOL.

Pluto square Mars mixed with Mercury opposite Mars, perhaps?

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posted December 18, 2015 03:50 PM            

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explain
we never argued, mercury opposite mars didnt come out (yet)

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
^^ LOL.

Pluto square Mars mixed with Mercury opposite Mars, perhaps?

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posted December 18, 2015 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by lundan:
explain
we never argued, mercury opposite mars didnt come out (yet)

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Your Mars squaring his Mercury probably caused a lot of irritation while communicating. Mars squaring Pluto is just known to be a volatile aspect.

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posted December 18, 2015 10:25 PM            

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^Good point about the mercury opposite mars but the mars square pluto I would imagine would lead to sexual tension between two.

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posted December 18, 2015 10:26 PM            

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he did call me a tease when we hung out -_-

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
^Good point about the mercury opposite mars but the mars square pluto I would imagine would lead to sexual tension between two.

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posted December 18, 2015 10:33 PM            

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Maybe they needed to talk less and do more and perhaps once the tension is gone things would have flown better communication wise, PERHAPS. This is me giving terrible advice though...

If he made you feel pressured to get physical F him, I don't like that and if he was calling you a tease that means he was probably pressuring you which goes back to my original theory that he is probably an idiot and a coward. A guy who is confident in himself, who he is and what he has to offer if he likes a girl does not pressure and waits till she is ready. Him calling you a tease tells me a lot about his maturity level.

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posted December 18, 2015 10:39 PM            

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tbh we barely talked when we hung out and he didnt seem to listen to anything I said.
But when we texted, there was no communication issue.
things got a lot more comfortable when we made out and got physically closer; but i didnt want sex, maybe that was his problem.
You're probably right about the immaturity!

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Maybe they needed to talk less and do more and perhaps once the tension is gone things would have flown better communication wise, PERHAPS. This is me giving terrible advice though...

If he made you feel pressured to get physical F him, I don't like that and if he was calling you a tease that means he was probably pressuring you which goes back to my original theory that he is probably an idiot and a coward. A guy who is confident in himself, who he is and what he has to offer if he likes a girl does not pressure and waits till she is ready. Him calling you a tease tells me a lot about his maturity level.

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