posted December 19, 2015 06:45 AM            

It is nothing romantic there (he is married anyway), but there seems to be a stream of sympathy between us (more so from him to me as it seems though), and I`m always getting the feeling as if he is "looking out for me". I don`t know, he just pays such a lot of attention to me, including always offering to do things for me (if the opportunity arrives), and it puzzles me a little (we are just colleagues, not close friends or something like that).

I wonder if that is the Sun-Mercury-Venus in the composite depicting that?

posted December 19, 2015 08:20 AM            

Hope your birthday was fun.

It's nice to think sun-Venus-Mercury can create so much kindness. Maybe that's it?
Pisces moon squaring the nodes perhaps.

His early Aqua sun must be sextile your Mars-Neptune-ASC? And his sun conjunct composite BML...hmmm...maybe the connection brings out his wild side?

posted December 19, 2015 08:31 AM            

birthday was alright, though not so much fun due to the big fight between my mom and my aunt.

"His early Aqua sun must be sextile your Mars-Neptune-ASC?"
His Sun is on 9 Aquarius, so yes, sextile my Neptune-ASC and trine my Pluto.

" And his sun conjunct composite BML...hmmm...maybe the connection brings out his wild side?"
I did not even realize his Sun was on c-BML. lol

Not sure about wild side, though I remember some years ago, another colleague told me that this guy had seen me in my hometown (while doing one of his bike tours); well I had not seen him (like usual Seems I am getting more noticed than really paying attention to others.) but I remember thinking (and maybe even saying): "Well why didn`t he say `Hello`?"

I mean, for real, why didn`t he? Puzzles me, and why mentioning it to someone else?

I am not that scary, now, am I?

"atch out for Mars-Juno, especially if it falls on the ASC..."
Don`t know that.

"cuz my husband and I have that in composite...and you know we raced to the altar as if shot out of a cannon."
LOL Must be something else. No racing to the altar in our case, and well he is married already.

the Mars-Juno falls onto his natal Mercury-Jupiter.

Oh and I just see he has sort of a DW with the compostie

c-Lilith conjunct his n Sun (3)
c-Sun conjunct his n Lilith exact

posted December 19, 2015 08:54 AM            

Too bad he's married :-/ Why do people do that to themselves?? LOL

But would you have considered dating him if he were single and asked you out? ETA: Or is that the wrong thing to ask?

"the Mars-Juno falls onto his natal Mercury-Jupiter."

Aye, so he amplifies and expresses the Mars-Juno energy perhaps.

"c-Lilith conjunct his n Sun (3)
c-Sun conjunct his n Lilith exact"

Is his Mars in Aries? Oh wait nevermind I have astro.com and can check myself...

Gasp!

His moon could be on your draconic sun.

And you see where his NN is??? Opposing Saturn...wow....

And then he's an Aqua with his Uranus sextile your sun, too.

It all looks pretty good on paper.

I like his Mars in Taurus for your Cap Venus even if it's out of orb.

Sorry to be creepy and stalk his chart.

Sorrier still that your birthday was overshadowed with an argument. :-/

posted December 19, 2015 09:15 AM            

"But would you have considered dating him if he were single and asked you out? ETA: Or is that the wrong thing to ask? "
Not wrong.
Well when we met he wasn`t married, he hadn`t even met his wife by then.
And though it is some years ago, in a rather blurry period of my life, I do remember that he sometimes asked me to accompany him (sometimes with others, sometimes alone) for lunch, but I pretty much always was on my way home or somewhere else, in a hurry, and with my thoughts miles away. lol

If this was an attempt to get closer to me, I totally didn`t get it. But nowadays, after having modified my self-perception a bit in the last 2 years, I wonder, if he was indeed trying to get to know me a little better back then.

Whatever the answer, I did not get it (and I was`t romantically attracted to him anyway), and he then met his future wife.
Does that story somehow sound familiar to you?

"His moon could be on your draconic sun."
Yes.

But as you can see my Saturn would square his Moon-Chiron as well.

"And you see where his NN is??? Opposing Saturn...wow...."
Sure I do. Also see my Sun on his NN and opposing his Saturn. I never felt him judge me or criticize me in any way though.

"Sorry to be creepy and stalk his chart."
LOL

posted December 19, 2015 09:24 AM            

Can you tell us more about Juno conjunct Mars on the Composite ASC?

Having that with my someone….also conjunct Neptune, Psyche and Karma.
Whole constellation squared to Composite Venus. :/

posted December 19, 2015 10:25 AM            

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Originally posted by thegrinning_cat:
Hey Faith!

Can you tell us more about Juno conjunct Mars on the Composite ASC?

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Whole constellation squared to Composite Venus. :/

What would that imply in your opinion?

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What the...???

Are you me? Is he him?

That's too strange because we also have Mars-Juno square Venus, tight.

In our case Venus is conjunct the sun. We tend to clash in public. It's freaky. We could be getting along fine at home, go out with some friends and immediately the Mars-sun square starts breathing fire. So I've had to tell people over and over...Uhhh...see...we're not really like that...

And it's gotten better over time, since I know to expect it now and take precautions.

Like you, we have Neptune aspecting the Mars-ASC-Juno, so that takes some of the edge off. And our Mars-etc is part of a kite formation, or several overlapping kites, depending on how you look at it. So the geometry has been...interesting....and binding, in our case.

Not sure what else to say, it's been good and bad, up and down.

posted December 19, 2015 10:30 AM            

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What would that imply in your opinion?

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To me, the way you interact in public will probably draw attention, and you could bring out a mystical side to each other, or promote a mystical viewpoint? Ceri has ASC-Mars-Neptune in her natal and she's mystical

But perhaps the way you come together in public has a negative impact on your shared affections...like you both might regret things you said in public, or how it made you appear...something like that?

posted December 19, 2015 10:40 AM            

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Whatever the answer, I did not get it (and I was`t romantically attracted to him anyway), and he then met his future wife.
Does that story somehow sound familiar to you?

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Yes.

You know what the oddest thing is, I think my best friend's moon may be exactly conjunct yours (though her mother's memory is not perfect, and she has no offical time.) And the same thing has happened with her time and again.

And Sabrina, isn't her moon conjunct yours?

What's up with this??

New theory: Aqua moon ladies compel men to marry.....other women.

No I am just kidding and being ridiculous but it's an odd pattern. Maybe young men are just daunted by your superlative brains and all that, running scared into the arms of comparatively harmless, dull women.

Not to be mean or anything.

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And though it is some years ago, in a rather blurry period of my life, I do remember that he sometimes asked me to accompany him (sometimes with others, sometimes alone) for lunch, but I pretty much always was on my way home or somewhere else, in a hurry, and with my thoughts miles away. lol

If this was an attempt to get closer to me, I totally didn`t get it.

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My Pisces moon wants to hug you before my Aqua Mercury tells you straight that has to be the most naive thing I have ever heard you say. Ooo and here's a heart to buffer my criticism: Everyone on LL knows that hearts and angels cancel all rudeness.

But Ceri...IF it was an attempt to get closer?? He was asking you out!

And your sun is on his NN and all that!

posted December 19, 2015 10:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Aww Faith,
you`re doing amazing for "winging it".
I totally can see your interpretation.
Just from one mystical girl to another (after all it is YOU with the Pisces Moon, and the Venus-Neptune ).

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posted December 19, 2015 11:00 AM            

Hallo!

I`ve been to Stuttgart once (for watching a musical, though it was one of the crappiest days in my life, as I was feeling so dizzy I was honestly thinking I was going to die, which I did not. lol)

posted December 19, 2015 11:06 AM            

"And Sabrina, isn't her moon conjunct yours?"
Possibly. Her birthtime is unknown, but her Moon can only range from 5-18 Aquarius. And her Sun is on 19 Aquarius.

wouldn`t be surprised if she had a new Moon in her natal chart.

"New theory: Aqua moon ladies compel men to marry.....other women."
Yes, that was my theory as well.

So we can internally do a breath of relief, because we don`t have to actually make a choice to give up our independence or adjust our life (aqua is a fixed sign after all), and at the same time can point to the gentleman in question for having all the blame for breaking our heart (while we can maintain our independence and thus feel... safe).

"Not to be mean or anything. "
Of course not.

"Mercury tells you straight that has to be the most naive thing I have ever heard you say.
LOL

" Ooo and here's a heart to buffer my criticism: Everyone on LL knows that hearts and angels cancel all rudeness."
Of course

"But Ceri...IF it was an attempt to get closer?? He was asking you out!"
LOL Who knows? Maybe it was a first approach to do exactly that... or not. Whatever it was, I totally did not get a thing.

posted December 19, 2015 06:39 PM            

I was hoping you`d might have a look, too.

True Lilith is on 19.59 Aqua, conjunct Ceres.

posted December 20, 2015 01:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Ja bin ich.

Hallo!

I`ve been to Stuttgart once (for watching a musical, though it was one of the crappiest days in my life, as I was feeling so dizzy I was honestly thinking I was going to die, which I did not. lol)

Have you been working here?

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posted December 21, 2015 03:49 AM            

I think that is very accurate. And I`ve been suspecting a little, that his interest might exceed the normal business-good-terms between colleagues.

posted December 21, 2015 04:14 AM            

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