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Topic: can anyone tell me about this synastry? picture included this time lol
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starchaser Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 21, 2015 09:37 AM
Hi guys! Can you tell me about my synastry with a guy i like? I've known him for years ,we were together at university but i had no love feelings back then..now i accidentally found him again ,after like 5-6 years,and fell in love with him! I'd never believe i'd feel like that for him! lol Anyone? IP: Logged |
starchaser Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 21, 2015 12:57 PM
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posted December 21, 2015 03:25 PM
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ReachingForTheStars Knowflake Posts: 393 From: second star to the right, and straight on till morning Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 21, 2015 05:10 PM
Hello, Starchaser!I will give this a try: It looks like you two share some of the traditional attraction aspects. His Mars is conjunct your moon with his Venus in sextile aspect. If birth times are accurate, his moon overlays your first house. Moon and Venus are said to represent the ideal feminine archetype in a male's chart. These placements and aspects suggest you are close to his ideal. That your Mars is also in this aspect pattern should add to the attraction. Your Venus also overlays his 5th house of romance and conjuncts his 7th house ruler. There is lots of negative interpretations for Venus conjunct Saturn, but in my experience, I like aspects to my Saturn. I have it in the 5th house as well. It's my 8th house ruler. In my opinion, this Venus/Saturn is positive, and it trines his moon suggesting stability. Actually, you fill his 5th house of romance. This is usually good for romance and fun. Uranus (your 8th house rulers) is active in this synastry so that could explain the sudden activation of this attraction. Also, it looks like transit Pluto is on your Dsc activating your 7th house, and you've just experienced your Saturn return. Transit Saturn is now probably in conjunct aspect to your 5th house sun. This could add to the becoming serious about romance and relationships. Plus, transit Uranus looks about conjunct his Venus which means it's in aspect to everything Venus is aspecting. Transit are believed to activate certain energies/experiences. I'm not too keen on aspect patterns and what they mean, but you two have a grand trine (the blue triangle), and an incomplete, I think it's called: mystic rectangle. IP: Logged |
starchaser Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 21, 2015 05:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars: Hello, Starchaser!I will give this a try: It looks like you two share some of the traditional attraction aspects. His Mars is conjunct your moon with his Venus in sextile aspect. If birth times are accurate, his moon overlays your first house. Moon and Venus are said to represent the ideal feminine archetype in a male's chart. These placements and aspects suggest you are close to his ideal. That your Mars is also in this aspect pattern should add to the attraction. Your Venus also overlays his 5th house of romance and conjuncts his 7th house ruler. There is lots of negative interpretations for Venus conjunct Saturn, but in my experience, I like aspects to my Saturn. I have it in the 5th house as well. It's my 8th house ruler. In my opinion, this Venus/Saturn is positive, and it trines his moon suggesting stability. Actually, you fill his 5th house of romance. This is usually good for romance and fun. Uranus (your 8th house rulers) is active in this synastry so that could explain the sudden activation of this attraction. Also, it looks like transit Pluto is on your Dsc activating your 7th house, and you've just experienced your Saturn return. Transit Saturn is now probably in conjunct aspect to your 5th house sun. This could add to the becoming serious about romance and relationships. Plus, transit Uranus looks about conjunct his Venus which means it's in aspect to everything Venus is aspecting. Transit are believed to activate certain energies/experiences. I'm not too keen on aspect patterns and what they mean, but you two have a grand trine (the blue triangle), and an incomplete, I think it's called: mystic rectangle.
Ah you're great!! Thank you so much! Yeah Saturn already passed my Sun and his Vertex (his Vx conjunct my Sun) the days we found eachother again after years! Unfortunately Saturn will soon opposite my chiron,i always feel transits to my chiron..scary! Actually Uranus will conjunct his Venus and sextile his Mars the same time that it'll opposite my Mars and sextile my Moon,whatever that means! IP: Logged |
ReachingForTheStars Knowflake Posts: 393 From: second star to the right, and straight on till morning Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 21, 2015 05:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by starchaser: I've known him for years ,we were together at university but i had no love feelings back then..now i accidentally found him again ,after like 5-6 years,and fell in love with him! I'd never believe i'd feel like that for him! lol
Also, try checking the transits and your progressed chart for when you reconnected. Maybe the solar return chart too. IP: Logged |
starchaser Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 21, 2015 06:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars: Also, try checking the transits and your progressed chart for when you reconnected. Maybe the solar return chart too.
Thank you! Actually my progressed Venus conjunct my natal neptune... We reconnected like a month ago,but i dunno how he feels about me.
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ReachingForTheStars Knowflake Posts: 393 From: second star to the right, and straight on till morning Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 21, 2015 06:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by starchaser: Ah you're great!! Thank you so much! Yeah Saturn already passed my Sun and his Vertex (his Vx conjunct my Sun) the days we found eachother again after years! Unfortunately Saturn will soon opposite my chiron,i always feel transits to my chiron..scary! Actually Uranus will conjunct his Venus and sextile his Mars the same time that it'll opposite my Mars and sextile my Moon,whatever that means!
That is scary! Think positive. Hmmmm... Uranus - unexpected changes or influences related to your direction in life (10th house) that could influence your emotional state (sextile moon) and impact what you are sexually attracted to (opposite Mars). When did you reconnect? The vertex is described as a sensitive point. Check if it was actived by transit or progression. The conjunction to your sun could denote some kind of significant relationship.
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ReachingForTheStars Knowflake Posts: 393 From: second star to the right, and straight on till morning Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 21, 2015 06:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by starchaser: We reconnected like a month ago,but i dunno how he feels about me.
It looks good on paper! You activate all the attraction houses too! I've had guys that had Mars conjunct my moon, sextile my Venus, and moon in my 1st house.... They are beyond smitten! Even 8-12 years younger than me which is quite the confidence boost!! Lol IP: Logged |
starchaser Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 21, 2015 06:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
When did you reconnect? The vertex is described as a sensitive point. Check if it was actived by transit or progression. The conjunction to your sun could denote some kind of significant relationship.
About a month ago! Saturn was on his Vertex then! His Vertex is 5'13 Sagittarius. IP: Logged |
ReachingForTheStars Knowflake Posts: 393 From: second star to the right, and straight on till morning Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 21, 2015 06:43 PM
Some info on that ^ fm this thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/203668.html quote:
I have a book on Karmic Loves and it says the following (i translated from italian if it sounds poorly written or ESL.)The Vertex is a theoretical point discovered by american astrologer Edward Johndro, even if it was made known my Charles Jayne, a respected american author. The ideogram symbolizes a full vase and points to our intrinsic potential that can be fully expressed - particularly if we are relating to another. This is why its analysis is important in synastry, in that it helps us understand the things we want to reach and the goals that have to do with our partner. The house in which the vertex falls in the natal chart indicates the area of life where we can best express these potentials. But whatever experience it has for us, it always has to do with “another” in order to be brought to conclusion. We must attribute the same characteristics as the 7th house, libra, venus. From a karmic point of view the vertex points to karmic reunions and can show, based on the placement of the surrounding planets, what kind of relationship we had in a past life. Generally speaking the most important aspects are the conjunction and with very tight orbs with a maximum tolerance of 3°. Conjunctions give us an idea of the type of person we are destined to meet (determined by the planet in conjunction) to best realize our relationship potential: for example if the planet is conjuncted by mercury chances are it will be a younger extremely dynamic partner to change our sentimental life, whereas if saturn is the planet involved it could be a companion who will rationalize and stabilize (offering security) the relationship through a concrete shift. But going back to the base argument Lassalle says: “the vertex reveals an orientation towards the other, a place in the chart where the success of something depends on the misactions, desires and projects of others. The vertex is reactive rather than active and should be considered a response more than an initiative. It’s the effect not the cause. Vertex shows the reaction of others towards us, to our actions, to our leaning towards them or to our creations” This allows us to understand the way in which we react to rejections, being left, to the relationship, to Us. And it is exactly in the comparison of the charts that the vertex reveals its function and usefulness. In its relationship with the planets of the partner it points to the way in which we relate the partner and above all what we most need in our partners company. It’s our greatest request for help from our partner to bring out something that we hold inside ourselves. Before getting to the analysis of the vertex it’s good to give a quick interpretation in terms of its position in the natal chart. In fact, among other things, this also tells us the type of “destined relationship” we need to live to be able to evolve to the next level emotionally and spiritually through distancing ourselves from links and conditioning that come from previous lives. Generally speaking the activation of the vertex happens with transits in conjunction with, and secondarily the square and opposition of Saturn, Chiron and Uranus. Saturn transits point to the possibility of having to sacrifice something that we consider important in our life because it turns out to be the greatest obstacle to finding (or refinding) our twin soul. The meeting presented in this transit at the beginning seems difficult. It makes us nervous, misunderstood, we have the feeling to have made a huge mistake but then with time we understand that these feelings are no more than defenses and that our sentimental life can now truly go forward towards long lasting solidity and resolution of deep conflicts that go back to past lives. Chiron in aspect to the vertex brings into our lives someone or something that teaches us to positively see and learn from prior experiences to avoid the same mistakes, to see old wounds that we probably bring forward from many lives. Lastly Uranus transits bring waves of chance and help pull out, usually in an excessive manner, the relationship potential of the vertex allowing us to give a new focus to our sentimental lives, thanks in part to a meeting of a partner who’s uninhibited (according to our standard relationship definitions), capable of going past old forms and habits that have accumulated over several lives making an emotional, mental and relational rebirth. Vertex in the 5th house: Generally in this position the individual lives a full emotional life and tends to give a lot of space to passion. It might be that all of a sudden in this person’s life a partner can completely change your existence pushing you towards extremes. The person with this position of the vertex doesn’t resist even one hour of love and doesn’t shy away from the possible emotional risks that come along. A more calm and balanced approach, and even the possibility to find the twin soul can come through a saturn vertex conjunction transit.
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starchaser Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 21, 2015 06:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars: It looks good on paper! You activate all the attraction houses too! I've had guys that had Mars conjunct my moon, sextile my Venus, and moon in my 1st house.... They are beyond smitten! Even 8-12 years younger than me which is quite the confidence boost!! Lol
LOL cool!!! I hope he feels the same! Well his venus opposite my mars,the sextile is between his Venus and my Moon (actually it's a double whammy, sextile and trine) his mars doesn't aspect my Venus,unfortunately.Is he supposed to be shy,with cancer moon and ascendant? IP: Logged |
starchaser Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 21, 2015 06:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars: Some info on that ^ fm this thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/203668.html
Wow! Very interesting! Thank you so much!!! IP: Logged |
ReachingForTheStars Knowflake Posts: 393 From: second star to the right, and straight on till morning Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 21, 2015 06:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by starchaser: LOL cool!!! I hope he feels the same! Well his venus opposite my mars,the sextile is between his Venus and my Moon (actually it's a double whammy, sextile and trine) his mars doesn't aspect my Venus,unfortunately.Is he supposed to be shy,with cancer moon and ascendant?
His Mars may not aspect your Venus, but your Venus aspects that co-ruler of his 8th house, that could be even hotter. Like I said, <3 those Saturn aspects!! My husband is a cancer rising, but an Aries moon, he's not shy. With moon on his ASC, he may be emotionally expressive and exhibit some Aries qualities. IP: Logged |
starchaser Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 21, 2015 07:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars: His Mars may not aspect your Venus, but your Venus aspects that co-ruler of his 8th house, that could be even hotter. Like I said, <3 those Saturn aspects!! My husband is a cancer rising, but an Aries moon, he's not shy. With moon on his ASC, he may be emotionally expressive and exhibit some Aries qualities.
Ohh i understand now! Aww thank you so so much! I prefer saturn to no saturn too! I'm cancer rising too with moon in gemini [12th house..] and i'm kinda shy,hate doing the first real step! Maybe it's a 12th house matter? He has mars in 12th house! IP: Logged |
ReachingForTheStars Knowflake Posts: 393 From: second star to the right, and straight on till morning Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 21, 2015 07:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by starchaser: Ohh i understand now! Aww thank you so so much! I prefer saturn to no saturn too! I'm cancer rising too with moon in gemini [12th house..] and i'm kinda shy,hate doing the first real step! Maybe it's a 12th house matter? He has mars in 12th house!
Another interpretation could be that he seeks an emotionally expressive mate. I noticed the 12th house moon (chart ruler), and thought that could contribute to those unexpected feelings that seemed to creep up out of nowhere. I'm a Gemini sun conjunct my ASC. My chart ruler is in the 12th house as well, and I'm not the typical gem. That could be something to explore more. You're probably very intuitive. IP: Logged |
starchaser Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 21, 2015 08:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars: Another interpretation could be that he seeks an emotionally expressive mate. I noticed the 12th house moon (chart ruler), and thought that could contribute to those unexpected feelings that seemed to creep up out of nowhere. I'm a Gemini sun conjunct my ASC. My chart ruler is in the 12th house as well, and I'm not the typical gem. That could be something to explore more. You're probably very intuitive.
Actually this has never happened to me before! When i see somebody as a friend ,i always see him as a friend! So that's quite weird for me! To start having love feelings after years? Wow! Maybe i apreciate people differently now! What degree is your sun? I have a grand trine in air signs and in the water houses! It's a kite actually! I am intuitive in dreams,they usually come accurately true! Also i'm a psychiatrist in specialization IP: Logged |
ReachingForTheStars Knowflake Posts: 393 From: second star to the right, and straight on till morning Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 21, 2015 08:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by starchaser: Actually this has never happened to me before! When i see somebody as a friend ,i always see him as a friend! So that's quite weird for me! To start having love feelings after years? Wow! Maybe i apreciate people differently now! What degree is your sun? I have a grand trine in air signs and in the water houses! It's a kite actually! I am intuitive in dreams,they usually come accurately true! Also i'm a psychiatrist in specialization
I know what you mean! It's one of those things that make you sit up and question everything you thought you knew!! It is pretty perplexing seeing the synastry. He does overlay a lot into your 11th house which explains the friendship, but it looks more complex than that. Maybe it's something that needed to be activated by transit or progression. There are lots of theories on timing or synchronicities in astrology especially for those that practice Vedic astrology. A psychiatrist! I find that pretty fantastic!! You have Chiron in the 12th house (I have this too), that's so fitting. That was my dream job, but I couldn't pursue it for reasons that no longer apply. Of course my cappy moon settled into a business degree, but I managed to get a behavioral bent out of it ( behavioral economics/finance )!! My sun/ASC looks as if it crosses that kite! ASC @ 16 gem, sun @17 degrees, Saturn @ 15 Libra. Mercury at 7 gem. I just noticed your friend has a gem sun! As a sun, I love gem moons. We may also have nodal contacts: my NN @ 13 cancer, Venus @ 10 Taurus. Edit: actually I have a 4th house Mars in libra too! It trines my Mercury. I just lack aqua placements for any major aspect patterns. IP: Logged |
starchaser Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 22, 2015 07:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars: I know what you mean! It's one of those things that make you sit up and question everything you thought you knew!! It is pretty perplexing seeing the synastry. He does overlay a lot into your 11th house which explains the friendship, but it looks more complex than that. Maybe it's something that needed to be activated by transit or progression. There are lots of theories on timing or synchronicities in astrology especially for those that practice Vedic astrology. A psychiatrist! I find that pretty fantastic!! You have Chiron in the 12th house (I have this too), that's so fitting. That was my dream job, but I couldn't pursue it for reasons that no longer apply. Of course my cappy moon settled into a business degree, but I managed to get a behavioral bent out of it ( behavioral economics/finance )!! My sun/ASC looks as if it crosses that kite! ASC @ 16 gem, sun @17 degrees, Saturn @ 15 Libra. Mercury at 7 gem. I just noticed your friend has a gem sun! As a sun, I love gem moons. We may also have nodal contacts: my NN @ 13 cancer, Venus @ 10 Taurus. Edit: actually I have a 4th house Mars in libra too! It trines my Mercury. I just lack aqua placements for any major aspect patterns.
WOW my ascendant is 13'29 cancer so it conjuncts your NN!!!!! My moon is 19'35 gemini conjuncting your sun/ascendant,my sun 6'26 sagittarius and mercury is 6'52 sagittarius opposite your mercury (his sun opposite my sun/mercury and my saturn 1'23 sagittarius) I have pisces MC which i've heard also fits psychiatry!? IP: Logged |
starchaser Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 22, 2015 07:57 AM
That's my natal chart And that's his! IP: Logged |
ReachingForTheStars Knowflake Posts: 393 From: second star to the right, and straight on till morning Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 22, 2015 03:42 PM
Veeeery Interesting! I will show you my charts for comparison. Me: My husband: (look @ that… 19 Cancer rising!) My moon t-squares that big moon/Libra opposition. It's been hard for me trying to balance those energies. Have you seen these threads: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000093.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000137.html In the second thread Leeloo tells me that my ideal partner could have venus in Aries opposite my mars. I assume she tells me this because it completes that mystic rectangle (or maybe some other configuration). This seems true for you too. Somewhere in the thread, Leeloo says, it doesn’t necessarily have to be venus, it can be moon since it’s the same gender, so mars and sun are also kinda interchangeable as well. For your friend, your mars completes the kite. Your sag planets complete a boomerang with his Yod. Also interesting, I knew my husband since we were kids, but I was never attracted to him. I still don’t know if I am. LoL. We were married young (which is a 7th house moon thing). I always wonder if it wasn’t the right time. I like to apply Vedic techniques to my western chart. There are all kinds of theories about finding the right mate. Here’s a quote from this thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum38/HTML/000061.html quote: Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell: Ok so it was none other than THE Kapiel Raj. You will have to pay 😊 and he'll say something annoying in an email like, If you don't hear from me in a month, send me an email . He's definitely busy.Anyway I got the career and marriage consultation. He replies a month later with the career consultation only and says he wants to do the marriage consultation but feels like I'm already married so he needs details before proceeding, because of karma... Well technically I was married to two men at the time (long, interesting story), so one point for Mr. Raj, or two in my case I guess. He's testing theories so some things about my chart made him ask specific questions about age 19 (when I got married the first time), age 20 (the birth of my first child), age 24 (I left the country to live abroad for a year), age 27 (the birth of my last child), and I can't remember if he asked about 28 or not... Anyway his questions about the events in those years were either accurate or very close. I sent him a reply about my relationship status and he got back to me in an hour with my marriage consultation, thanking me for my responses. He said that because of my Asc which is Cancer in Vedic, I was doomed with the Cancer Asc curse pretty much guarantying that if you try to get married before 35, marriage will fail. You may even marry the right person for you, but before 35, it will fail, he said. I could see this applying to my first husband who still loves me very much, but not my second husband. He tells me that there is someone new this year, and Jupiter and Saturn permit marriage next year... He also gives you TONS of learning and reading material, and I bet people already pretty well versed in Vedic could benefit a lot from it. I could learn too, but it's so lonely studying alone...☹ So there you go. 😊
This makes me wonder about timing. Maybe the answer to the unexpected attraction is related to these concepts!
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posted December 22, 2015 03:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by starchaser: I have pisces MC which i've heard also fits psychiatry!?
Yes! I've read this too! I have a Pisces MC as well. IP: Logged |
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posted December 27, 2015 01:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars: Veeeery Interesting! I will show you my charts for comparison. Me: My husband: (look @ that… 19 Cancer rising!) My moon t-squares that big moon/Libra opposition. It's been hard for me trying to balance those energies. Have you seen these threads: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000093.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000137.html In the second thread Leeloo tells me that my ideal partner could have venus in Aries opposite my mars. I assume she tells me this because it completes that mystic rectangle (or maybe some other configuration). This seems true for you too. Somewhere in the thread, Leeloo says, it doesn’t necessarily have to be venus, it can be moon since it’s the same gender, so mars and sun are also kinda interchangeable as well. For your friend, your mars completes the kite. Your sag planets complete a boomerang with his Yod. Also interesting, I knew my husband since we were kids, but I was never attracted to him. I still don’t know if I am. LoL. We were married young (which is a 7th house moon thing). I always wonder if it wasn’t the right time. I like to apply Vedic techniques to my western chart. There are all kinds of theories about finding the right mate. Here’s a quote from this thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum38/HTML/000061.html [QUOTE]Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell: [b] Ok so it was none other than THE Kapiel Raj. You will have to pay 😊 and he'll say something annoying in an email like, If you don't hear from me in a month, send me an email . He's definitely busy. Anyway I got the career and marriage consultation. He replies a month later with the career consultation only and says he wants to do the marriage consultation but feels like I'm already married so he needs details before proceeding, because of karma... Well technically I was married to two men at the time (long, interesting story), so one point for Mr. Raj, or two in my case I guess. He's testing theories so some things about my chart made him ask specific questions about age 19 (when I got married the first time), age 20 (the birth of my first child), age 24 (I left the country to live abroad for a year), age 27 (the birth of my last child), and I can't remember if he asked about 28 or not... Anyway his questions about the events in those years were either accurate or very close. I sent him a reply about my relationship status and he got back to me in an hour with my marriage consultation, thanking me for my responses. He said that because of my Asc which is Cancer in Vedic, I was doomed with the Cancer Asc curse pretty much guarantying that if you try to get married before 35, marriage will fail. You may even marry the right person for you, but before 35, it will fail, he said. I could see this applying to my first husband who still loves me very much, but not my second husband. He tells me that there is someone new this year, and Jupiter and Saturn permit marriage next year... He also gives you TONS of learning and reading material, and I bet people already pretty well versed in Vedic could benefit a lot from it. I could learn too, but it's so lonely studying alone...☹ So there you go. 😊
This makes me wonder about timing. Maybe the answer to the unexpected attraction is related to these concepts! [/B][/QUOTE]Wow!!!!! Very interesting,indeed! Thank you so much!!! Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year!!!! IP: Logged |
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posted December 27, 2015 02:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars: Yes! I've read this too! I have a Pisces MC as well.
Cool! How does it play out for you? IP: Logged |
starchaser Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 31, 2015 02:30 PM
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