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Julz87
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posted December 29, 2015 07:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Julz87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How can I better understand him?
I can't read these without being biased so..if anyone can help me interpret these it would be awesome!

Thank you!

He is on the inside and I'm on the outside.

His Natal.


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DopGang
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posted December 29, 2015 10:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With only glancing (because I'm not the best at this).
Also, I'm not trying to assume anything with your relationship and how it functions.
With that....

I'd say allow your son to be as expressive with his emotions as need be. Try not to get him to bottle anything up but rather to express emotion more constructively. Try not to make him feel strange about it.
I notice his Venus/mars square his moon. He may feel that he is unlovable. He may be hard on himself. He may also have a bit of a temper sometimes.

Patience and love I think are very key here.
Which can be said in many cases. Both of you acknowledging that you have different ways of expression and that neither is wrong will really help I think.

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llewsacm
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posted December 29, 2015 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is just so wonderful to see someone trying to learn more about their child and how to better relate. I do the same thing with my children in trying to evaluate their charts, even though they are still young.

How do you want to help him? Is he more of an emotional guy with those water placements? It looks as if there should be an opportunity for easy flow of communication from you to his emotional side with mercury and moon, but his mercury is showing some challenges to your venus and moon, which might cause for him to be perhaps a bit withdrawn with his words. That's first look anyway.

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Julz87
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posted December 29, 2015 06:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Julz87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DopGang:
With only glancing (because I'm not the best at this).
Also, I'm not trying to assume anything with your relationship and how it functions.
With that....

I'd say allow your son to be as expressive with his emotions as need be. Try not to get him to bottle anything up but rather to express emotion more constructively. Try not to make him feel strange about it.
I notice his Venus/mars square his moon. He may feel that he is unlovable. He may be hard on himself. He may also have a bit of a temper sometimes.

Patience and love I think are very key here.
Which can be said in many cases. Both of you acknowledging that you have different ways of expression and that neither is wrong will really help I think.


Agree, he is very expressive with his emotions - will tell me immediately when something is bothering him and will also ask me from time to time "how are YOU feeling? You feeling happy?" XD I'm just trying to understand that Pisces Moon :/ he is moody. His feelings tend to get hurt quite often I'm trying to rub some of my Capricorn Moon on to him just so things can be easier for him in the long run.

"I notice his Venus/mars square his moon. He may feel that he is unlovable." - this struck out to me though - from time to time he asks me "I'm your baby right?" "You love me right?" it breaks my heart idk where he gets the urge to ask those questions :/ I'm trying my best though to help him through that, I can't help but feel it may be his school thats making him feel this way, he sometimes says he is unhappy at his school.

Also from what I'v noticed that water moon and venus/mars conjunction he tends to attract a lot of the girls in his class but gets annoyed quickly from what I've observed from afar. I remember someone ask if the venus/mars conjunction attract people easily I say it does. Though I don't think he is comfortable with that for now,maybe as he gets older.

As far as patience goes I agree, he lacks it he is 6

Thanks, DopGang.

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Julz87
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posted December 29, 2015 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Julz87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by llewsacm:
This is just so wonderful to see someone trying to learn more about their child and how to better relate. I do the same thing with my children in trying to evaluate their charts, even though they are still young.

How do you want to help him? Is he more of an emotional guy with those water placements? It looks as if there should be an opportunity for easy flow of communication from you to his emotional side with mercury and moon, but his mercury is showing some challenges to your venus and moon, which might cause for him to be perhaps a bit withdrawn with his words. That's first look anyway.


I want to help him in a way that it won't be so easy fro strangers to easily hurt his feelings. He tends to shut off quickly when someone is mean or mistreats him as opposed to other kids that I've seen that brush it off :/

I sometimes think my Cap Moon is a bit harsh on him I just hope he can find a way to shield himself and not let people easily hurt him. And yes he is very verbal with me in regards to how he is feeling - he talks non stop with me - hasn't withdrawn so far I hope it stays that way I'll definitely keep that in mind though so he won't shut off as time progresses.

"I do the same thing with my children in trying to evaluate their charts, even though they are still young."

Mhmm, yep, just trying to help them have a smooth sailing or as much as one can help..specially those squares :/

I'm trying to understand what my Vertex conjunct his DC may mean or how that will play out - he definitely caused big changes in me though that's for sure.

Thanks, llewsacm

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llewsacm
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posted December 30, 2015 12:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I want to help him in a way that it won't be so easy fro strangers to easily hurt his feelings. He tends to shut off quickly when someone is mean or mistreats him as opposed to other kids that I've seen that brush it off :/

Ok, so your sun and Venus illuminate his outward personality in synastry. Your words of encouragement should do wonders for this kid. You know where he is weak, and encouraging him to feel stronger about this weaknesses is key here...imo. I think he may feel stronger with your words and support, placing stronger value on them compared to the outside world. Its only a natural role for a mother, no?

I will add that I am touched by your concern to add peace to his life. Kids are so worth the love we give. They look up to us as parents.

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