posted January 07, 2016 04:15 PM            

If you can take a look at this composite, that'd be awesome. It's kind of a weird relationship.

posted January 08, 2016 10:02 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Well readytochill
I will admit this is a bit weird.
The vertex on the descendant usually gives a feeling of unworldly connection. It can make you feel you known each other before. It can give a psychic connection especially with mercury as this chart shows. the venus/sun conjunction on the ascendant opposed to mercury gives a warm and happy attraction.
But it does get strange as the Saturn/Neptune conjunction is square to al the stuff on the ascendant axis. So instead of this great openness, there is a calculated and complex mental interaction. Then with chiron opposed to Saturn, in addition to the attractive feelings, ther I also an underlying distance. As venus/sun shows optimism and attraction ,chiron adds criticism and distance. when you have both attractive, acceptant vibrations and critical, judgmental vibrations the relationship can be bit strange. Compliments are always backhanded and every good thing has to be balance with a critical point.
With mercury square to Neptune, you never know if it truth or exaggeration.

It like two different relationship. As long as you talk bout the social sphere everything is great but when you talk about the personal sphere, blocks come up and you don’t what to think.
With Saturn conjunct Neptune, he will never let you into his real self.
As it is you have to acccept the pleasure with the pain.

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Thank you so much Todd!

You're right on about everything. We have this openness to an extent and feel like we've known each other for quite some time when we first met. We're different but have some of the same interests. For the most part, there's restriction. Lately he's been opening up a bit but I don't know if he's being sincere because him being a little vocally expressive is new to me and because he'll balance it out with some sort of critique. We've had so many problems but seem to smooth them over. It does feel like 2 different relationships like you mentioned. He has sun opposite moon and I have sun square moon. Individually, we feel like 2 different people.

I have Venus square Pluto natally and I think it makes me like pleasure and pain. I think it kinda sucks lol he's more easy going but goes with the flow.

posted January 08, 2016 12:58 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Well readytochill
I will admit this is a bit weird.
The vertex on the descendant usually gives a feeling of unworldly connection. It can make you feel you known each other before. It can give a psychic connection especially with mercury as this chart shows. the venus/sun conjunction on the ascendant opposed to mercury gives a warm and happy attraction.
But it does get strange as the Saturn/Neptune conjunction is square to al the stuff on the ascendant axis. So instead of this great openness, there is a calculated and complex mental interaction. Then with chiron opposed to Saturn, in addition to the attractive feelings, ther I also an underlying distance. As venus/sun shows optimism and attraction ,chiron adds criticism and distance. when you have both attractive, acceptant vibrations and critical, judgmental vibrations the relationship can be bit strange. Compliments are always backhanded and every good thing has to be balance with a critical point.
With mercury square to Neptune, you never know if it truth or exaggeration.

It like two different relationship. As long as you talk bout the social sphere everything is great but when you talk about the personal sphere, blocks come up and you don’t what to think.
With Saturn conjunct Neptune, he will never let you into his real self.
As it is you have to acccept the pleasure with the pain.

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posted January 08, 2016 01:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
I actually agree with all of the above. Little iffy on the opposition to MERC being as positive as all that, but I'm willing to accept the possibility.

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Hi Aubyanne!

Sometimes our communication can be Aries-like, quick and comes out mainly when we're angry but there's brutal honest truth to what we say or Libra-like, all sweet and considerate when things are going well.

posted January 08, 2016 04:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
I actually agree with all of the above. Little iffy on the opposition to MERC being as positive as all that, but I'm willing to accept the possibility.

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in keeping with a sense of two personalities to the composite, mercury opposed to venus usually enhances the emotional togetherness.

but mercury's position is a "bit iffy" because it is also square to Neptune which rarely shows a positive manifestation unless the individuals have a creative or artistic profession.

todd

posted January 09, 2016 11:43 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
in keeping with a sense of two personalities to the composite, mercury opposed to venus usually enhances the emotional togetherness.

but mercury's position is a "bit iffy" because it is also square to Neptune which rarely shows a positive manifestation unless the individuals have a creative or artistic profession.

todd

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Ive been afraid of those Neptune squares that I've never really looked them up to see how they might manifest lol I have read up on Saturn and Uranus. I could handle those but not Neptune. We're not involved in any creative or artistic profession. Thinking of places to do the dirty (lol) or incorporating it into our hobbies or playing games but making them naughty somehow is as creative as we get lol I can't tell you the plethora of ideas that come from us. Sex is a big thing in our relationship but so is respecting each other's independence and values.

Don't quote this. I felt weird typing all that lol