posted January 08, 2016 08:49 AM            

and our synastry chart:

He has venus in scorpio; I have moon in scorpio. My north node conjuncts his Venus.

Also, we have:
1 grand trine
his midpoint conj my sun
my midheaven conj his sun
my midpoint squares his sun
my part Of fortune conj his Sun
and a yod in composite. And we both have yods in our natal charts.

posted January 11, 2016 05:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
You'll need to put up a visual of the synastry in order to get much more responses. When you click on the link it just takes you to a big list of aspects and most people don't have the patience to analyze a long list like that. A picture is a thousand words.

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posted January 12, 2016 05:14 AM            

I uses a method of identifying how someone is our type using the 5th(romantic sparks), 7th (partnership and affection), and 8th (intimacy) houses, as well as the Vertex Axis (associated with connections that feel ’fated’) and the asteroid Juno (associated with committed relationships). A person matching the personality type shown by our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses will appeal to us with the style of expression they posses. And a person who has planets aspecting our 5th, 7th, and 8th house rulers will attract us with the chemistry (energy exchange) we share with them.

We have your birth time, and I can see from looking at your chart very clearly why you are attracted to him.

Starting with the 5th house you have Cancer on this house cusp, and your 5th house ruler the Moon in Scorpio is conjunct his Venus. So the romantic spark is there for you, in how he relates socially and expresses warmth and affection. The Scorpionic side to his personality excites you.

You 7th house is Virgo ruled by Mercury in Leo, and Mars in Virgo sits in your 7th house. Mars in the 7th makes you attracted to his Moon in Aries. He has no Leo or Virgo in his chart BUT… That Leo Mercury ruling you 7th house is actually square Jupiter in Taurus by 1 degree. Jupiter in your chart aspecting your 7th house ruler attracts you to Sagittarius energy in others (Jupiter rules Sagittarius). He has 4 planets in Sagittarius including Sun conjunct Jupiter! The Sag part of his personality attracts you in a 7th house way, and his Sun conjunct Jupiter being on your MC means that you respect and admire him. He also has Mars in Libra in your 7th house which adds to the attraction as well.

You have Scorpio on the 8th house, and again, his Venus in Scorpio falls into your 8th house, along with his Saturn. He also has Pluto in Scorpio tightly conjunct your 8th house cusp. This creates a hypnotic type of attraction.

Overall he presses a lot of buttons for you, and he’s your type.

Unfortunately without his birth time I can’t perform the same type of analysis from his side. If you can find out his birth time we can find out if you are his type as well. His 5th, 7th, and 8th houses will show the type of women he responds to. If your chart matches these it’s a very good sign.

What I can see is that the synastry you share with him is pretty good. Your Venus being trine his Sun/Jupiter conjunction is a very warm affectionate connection, and even if you weren’t his romantic type he’d at least like you a lot.

Your Sun is square his Venus, this adds to the affection and any potential attraction…. Only sometimes you might do things that feel kind of aggressive towards him, and he might seem to try and avoid confrontation with you at times. If you let his Sun take the lead things will go more smoothly because his Sun is trine your Venus, while your Venus is square his. Still double whammy Venus/Sun aspects tend to feel gooey and sweet even when one of them is a harsh one.

His Venus is conjunct your Moon. Again, Very warm and caring vibe here. He can sooth your feelings when your feeling down. His exact Moon degree is unknown but if it’s trine your Leo Sun this will add to the depth of the bond and attraction between you.

I notice there is a bit of an age difference between you. This can complicate things in the sense that both people need to be ready for the same things in life in order for the relationship to happen. Hopefully if you guys get together he is mature for his age.

posted January 12, 2016 05:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Hi linotte,

I uses a method of identifying how someone is our type using the 5th(romantic sparks), 7th (partnership and affection), and 8th (intimacy) houses, as well as the Vertex Axis (associated with connections that feel ’fated’) and the asteroid Juno (associated with committed relationships). A person matching the personality type shown by our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses will appeal to us with the style of expression they posses. And a person who has planets aspecting our 5th, 7th, and 8th house rulers will attract us with the chemistry (energy exchange) we share with them.

We have your birth time, and I can see from looking at your chart very clearly why you are attracted to him.

Starting with the 5th house you have Cancer on this house cusp, and your 5th house ruler the Moon in Scorpio is conjunct his Venus. So the romantic spark is there for you, in how he relates socially and expresses warmth and affection. The Scorpionic side to his personality excites you.

You 7th house is Virgo ruled by Mercury in Leo, and Mars in Virgo sits in your 7th house. Mars in the 7th makes you attracted to his Moon in Aries. He has no Leo or Virgo in his chart BUT… That Leo Mercury ruling you 7th house is actually square Jupiter in Taurus by 1 degree. Jupiter in your chart aspecting your 7th house ruler attracts you to Sagittarius energy in others (Jupiter rules Sagittarius). He has 4 planets in Sagittarius including Sun conjunct Jupiter! The Sag part of his personality attracts you in a 7th house way, and his Sun conjunct Jupiter being on your MC means that you respect and admire him. He also has Mars in Libra in your 7th house which adds to the attraction as well.

You have Scorpio on the 8th house, and again, his Venus in Scorpio falls into your 8th house, along with his Saturn. He also has Pluto in Scorpio tightly conjunct your 8th house cusp. This creates a hypnotic type of attraction.

Overall he presses a lot of buttons for you, and he’s your type.

Unfortunately without his birth time I can’t perform the same type of analysis from his side. If you can find out his birth time we can find out if you are his type as well. His 5th, 7th, and 8th houses will show the type of women he responds to. If your chart matches these it’s a very good sign.

What I can see is that the synastry you share with him is pretty good. Your Venus being trine his Sun/Jupiter conjunction is a very warm affectionate connection, and even if you weren’t his romantic type he’d at least like you a lot.

Your Sun is square his Venus, this adds to the affection and any potential attraction…. Only sometimes you might do things that feel kind of aggressive towards him, and he might seem to try and avoid confrontation with you at times. If you let his Sun take the lead things will go more smoothly because his Sun is trine your Venus, while your Venus is square his. Still double whammy Venus/Sun aspects tend to feel gooey and sweet even when one of them is a harsh one.

His Venus is conjunct your Moon. Again, Very warm and caring vibe here. He can sooth your feelings when your feeling down. His exact Moon degree is unknown but if it’s trine your Leo Sun this will add to the depth of the bond and attraction between you.

I notice there is a bit of an age difference between you. This can complicate things in the sense that both people need to be ready for the same things in life in order for the relationship to happen. Hopefully if you guys get together he is mature for his age.

Let us know if you can find out his birth time. The interplanetary aspects are promising, but that only turns romantic if both people are each other’s type, which is what the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses show.

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posted January 12, 2016 06:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Hi linotte,

I uses a method of identifying how someone is our type using the 5th(romantic sparks), 7th (partnership and affection), and 8th (intimacy) houses, as well as the Vertex Axis (associated with connections that feel ’fated’) and the asteroid Juno (associated with committed relationships). A person matching the personality type shown by our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses will appeal to us with the style of expression they posses. And a person who has planets aspecting our 5th, 7th, and 8th house rulers will attract us with the chemistry (energy exchange) we share with them.

We have your birth time, and I can see from looking at your chart very clearly why you are attracted to him.

Starting with the 5th house you have Cancer on this house cusp, and your 5th house ruler the Moon in Scorpio is conjunct his Venus. So the romantic spark is there for you, in how he relates socially and expresses warmth and affection. The Scorpionic side to his personality excites you.

You 7th house is Virgo ruled by Mercury in Leo, and Mars in Virgo sits in your 7th house. Mars in the 7th makes you attracted to his Moon in Aries. He has no Leo or Virgo in his chart BUT… That Leo Mercury ruling you 7th house is actually square Jupiter in Taurus by 1 degree. Jupiter in your chart aspecting your 7th house ruler attracts you to Sagittarius energy in others (Jupiter rules Sagittarius). He has 4 planets in Sagittarius including Sun conjunct Jupiter! The Sag part of his personality attracts you in a 7th house way, and his Sun conjunct Jupiter being on your MC means that you respect and admire him. He also has Mars in Libra in your 7th house which adds to the attraction as well.

You have Scorpio on the 8th house, and again, his Venus in Scorpio falls into your 8th house, along with his Saturn. He also has Pluto in Scorpio tightly conjunct your 8th house cusp. This creates a hypnotic type of attraction.

Overall he presses a lot of buttons for you, and he’s your type.

Unfortunately without his birth time I can’t perform the same type of analysis from his side. If you can find out his birth time we can find out if you are his type as well. His 5th, 7th, and 8th houses will show the type of women he responds to. If your chart matches these it’s a very good sign.

What I can see is that the synastry you share with him is pretty good. Your Venus being trine his Sun/Jupiter conjunction is a very warm affectionate connection, and even if you weren’t his romantic type he’d at least like you a lot.

Your Sun is square his Venus, this adds to the affection and any potential attraction…. Only sometimes you might do things that feel kind of aggressive towards him, and he might seem to try and avoid confrontation with you at times. If you let his Sun take the lead things will go more smoothly because his Sun is trine your Venus, while your Venus is square his. Still double whammy Venus/Sun aspects tend to feel gooey and sweet even when one of them is a harsh one.

His Venus is conjunct your Moon. Again, Very warm and caring vibe here. He can sooth your feelings when your feeling down. His exact Moon degree is unknown but if it’s trine your Leo Sun this will add to the depth of the bond and attraction between you.

I notice there is a bit of an age difference between you. This can complicate things in the sense that both people need to be ready for the same things in life in order for the relationship to happen. Hopefully if you guys get together he is mature for his age.

Let us know if you can find out his birth time. The interplanetary aspects are promising, but that only turns romantic if both people are each other’s type, which is what the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses show.

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That is so helpful thank you! Unfortunately I have no way of finding out the time he is born... I really wish. At least now I know why I am so attracted to him though!
RE his Juno:
Juno trine Mercury
Juno trine Venus
Juno conjunction Lilith
Juno conjunction Chiron
My Juno squares his Sun, Jupiter and Neptune.

posted January 12, 2016 02:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Spongebob:

If the rulers aren't well aspected, but the other person dumps planets into those houses, is it okay then?

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With the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses it's an either/or thing. People aspecting the rulers of these houses can really attract us, but so can the other person putting planets in these houses.

posted January 12, 2016 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by linotte:
That is so helpful thank you! Unfortunately I have no way of finding out the time he is born... I really wish. At least now I know why I am so attracted to him though!
RE his Juno:
Juno trine Mercury
Juno trine Venus
Juno conjunction Lilith
Juno conjunction Chiron
My Juno squares his Sun, Jupiter and Neptune.

If my planets do not aspect his houses, could he still feel attraction based on planets synastry? Or would it just be friendship?
RE age, yes, that may be a/the problem.

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Interplanetary aspects only show part of the attraction. Interplanetary aspects show how the different parts of our personality clash or harmonize with another. It can also show potential for physical attraction if there are aspects such as Venus/Mars, Sun/Moon, Sun/Venus, and Sun/Mars. These types of attraction interplanetary aspects show if a person is likely to consider us good looking/aesthetically pleasing in general as a member of the opposite sex.

But as we all know, being considered nice looking by the other person is not enough. We also need to be their 'type'. We need to be able to press certain buttons for them so that they'll for in love with us specifically, and not just consider us another attractive member of the opposite sex in general.

When someone activates our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses, this is what presses the buttons that make us 'fall in love' with them, and see them as a good partner choice for us in particular. The world is full of people that appear nice looking to us for one reason or another. These are the people we have good attraction interplanetary synastry with. As mentioned before, we don't fall for everyone who we think of as nice looking though, only special ones who have that extra something that plays on our heart strings... That's what happens when someone effects our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses. There are a variety of ways to do this though.

posted January 13, 2016 06:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Interplanetary aspects only show part of the attraction. Interplanetary aspects show how the different parts of our personality clash or harmonize with another. It can also show potential for physical attraction if there are aspects such as Venus/Mars, Sun/Moon, Sun/Venus, and Sun/Mars. These types of attraction interplanetary aspects show if a person is likely to consider us good looking/aesthetically pleasing in general as a member of the opposite sex.

But as we all know, being considered nice looking by the other person is not enough. We also need to be their 'type'. We need to be able to press certain buttons for them so that they'll for in love with us specifically, and not just consider us another attractive member of the opposite sex in general.

When someone activates our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses, this is what presses the buttons that make us 'fall in love' with them, and see them as a good partner choice for us in particular. The world is full of people that appear nice looking to us for one reason or another. These are the people we have good attraction interplanetary synastry with. As mentioned before, we don't fall for everyone who we think of as nice looking though, only special ones who have that extra something that plays on our heart strings... That's what happens when someone effects our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses. There are a variety of ways to do this though.

Looking at the synastry you share with the guy in question, I can see that he is likely to view you as an attractive women in general. The planet Venus is strongly aspected in synastry. But you looking nice to him doesn't mean he'll also fall in love with you, or consider you a suitable partner. That part comes with the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses stuff in synastry. All I can tell from the interplanetary synastry that you share so far, is that the two of you likely like each other quite a bit, and consider other attractive as a person overall. The deeper personality based attraction that's required to fall in love remains a mystery from his side without his birthtime. Since we have your birthtime it's been possible to tell how he is your type specifically.

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posted January 14, 2016 07:39 AM            

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Originally posted by fiola:
Hi linotte, first i want to ask you is the birth-time correct for him (his ascendant really is capricorn ?) so that we'd be able to do house layouts.
now here are the things that i first saw in the synastry chart :
Grand trine involving : his uranus cnj your neptune, his moon, your sun and saturn.
if one of those planets i activated, it activates the others, and since they are harmonious, i'd say its a good sign.
now both his sun and moon are fire, his sun is conjunct jupiter which gives him a happy-go-lucky tendence, and while your sun is a leo (fire too), its conjunct saturn, which has to do more with maturity and hates recklessness (it doesnt do well with jupiter, so you're not really on the same wavelengh) your moon is conjunct his saturn though, you may feel that he restricts your emotions in some way, but you may be able to deal with this aspect positively due to your natal sun conjunct your natal saturn.
watch out from your uranus conjunct his pluto, very tricky one, and your jupiter conjunct his chiron, you might want to jump throuh all hoops to heal him, and it will wear you down.

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posted January 14, 2016 12:58 PM            

Now back to basic synastry, you both have stelliums in fire signs, he has jupiter (ruler of the sun) exactly cnj sun, this is a very important thing to note, althought you won't be able to see it all the time, the energy is there, always present, so you'd do well to aknowledge it or i will backfire on you, he has a non dying desire for adventure, philosophy, higher education and/or long journeys; uranus gives him a streak of geniusy, but it also makes him unpredictable; as for neptune, it gives creativity and imagination, but it also is a planet of illusions and deception.

These all combine to form who he is as a person, understand this stellium and you have found a major key to understand his personality.

posted January 15, 2016 05:21 AM            

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Originally posted by fiola:
Ah, I see, a time of birth would help you see in which areas of life you would affect him in, some houses are more benefic for romantic unions, while others encourage friendliness or professionalism. You still are capable of extracting information more in depth, first off, learn the basics of your dynamism, once you're settled add some asteroids to the mix.

Now back to basic synastry, you both have stelliums in fire signs, he has jupiter (ruler of the sun) exactly cnj sun, this is a very important thing to note, althought you won't be able to see it all the time, the energy is there, always present, so you'd do well to aknowledge it or i will backfire on you, he has a non dying desire for adventure, philosophy, higher education and/or long journeys; uranus gives him a streak of geniusy, but it also makes him unpredictable; as for neptune, it gives creativity and imagination, but it also is a planet of illusions and deception.

These all combine to form who he is as a person, understand this stellium and you have found a major key to understand his personality.

Now how do you affect him ?
Your venus is trining is sun/jupiter with a tight orb (2°) it shows that he feels loved and admired.
Your sun and his uranus are a tight trine, now i'm weary of uranus wherever i find it, it gives an edge of unexpectedness, things that comes and goes out of the blue, so even though i found articles stating that its a good aspect (depending on how much freedom you're willing to give one another) i still dread it.

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posted January 15, 2016 10:26 AM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Are the birth times accurate?

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posted January 15, 2016 11:55 AM            

How he gets what he wants (shows his interest) is his mars, here its conjunct your pluto (both rulers of your respective moons!), very hot, very sexy and explosive aspect, definetly not for the faint hearted, your moon is scorpio so that doesnt scare you, neither is his aries moon.

His moon (emotional needs) is trine your sun (very promissing aspect) and your neptune (neptune is the higher octave of the moon, this aspect shows empathy towards one another).

posted January 15, 2016 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by fiola:
There's still informations you can find only through aspects, and he doesn's seem to be passively accepting your feelings, see, his venus (affection, also how he wants to be loved) is conjunct your moon, this aspect brings sweetness, tenderness, affection and caring.

How he gets what he wants (shows his interest) is his mars, here its conjunct your pluto (both rulers of your respective moons!), very hot, very sexy and explosive aspect, definetly not for the faint hearted, your moon is scorpio so that doesnt scare you, neither is his aries moon.

His moon (emotional needs) is trine your sun (very promissing aspect) and your neptune (neptune is the higher octave of the moon, this aspect shows empathy towards one another).

Remember this here is only the positive side, but there are a whole bunch of other aspects you should keep in mind.

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