posted January 10, 2016 09:37 AM            

I'm new to astrology and only have a very basic understanding. Don't know the first thing about synastry.

What do you guys see? Can you maybe help me shed some light here?

The two natal charts from astro.com are posted further down in the thread. I don't know his TOB.

synastry with wrong TOB for him (if it helps?):

posted January 11, 2016 05:22 AM            

Welcome to LL!

I'm really sorry you didn't get any replies yet.
I promise I will look at this and give you my feedback.
But could you please post the charts from www.astro.com? They are much easier to read, and astro.com is also more accurate and reliable.

posted January 11, 2016 06:20 AM            

here they are from astro (only natal charts - they won't generate synastry or composite, when I don't know his TOB?)

Him:

posted January 11, 2016 04:08 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Lyzet:
Anyone?

Is it possible to make synastry and composite charts at astro.com with a sort of John Doe TOB?

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Yes, totally possible. You just have to exclude house placements.

posted January 11, 2016 11:03 PM            

I would love to be all sunshine and rainbows - and tell you nice things, because I can see you are excited about this guy, but I have to be honest with you... and I find the connection between you difficult.

I wouldn't say it's extremely challenging, but there are some issues.

First of all - I'm not one to care about the age gap, because I basically think "age is a number" for anyone 18+.
However, considering your particular placements... I'm not sure that this could work out as a romantic relationship or a fling.

There is definitely an attraction, which I believe would be mutual - so that's a nice thing to have. There can be flirting between you and friendly banter.
But I'm just not sure that this will take off.. or become more serious than that.

I'm saying this because... first of all - His Aquarius Venus retrograde.. is a difficult position for Venus.
At his age - (since he is young).. and having such a complex Venus placement (which is also square his Moon sign) - he won't be an easy guy to date, for *any* woman.
This isn't just about you. This is about any woman under the Sun who comes in contact with him.

He definitely has some pretty *big* problems and hang-ups romantically, that are not easy to resolve - and it might take him a long time - or a few more years at least - to get some control in this area of his life and feel a sense of balance.

Due to the Moon/Venus square.. and the fact that Venus is moving backwards/retrograde... He can be both indecisive and send highly mixed signals. It's likely that his ex gfs would tell you - that he drove them up a wall with the flip-flopping.
He is also never completely sure whether he wants a mere friendship, or something more than that.

You, on the other hand.. having signifiant placements in Libra and Scorpio and also being female - you seem to have a MUCH better handle on "how to have a healthy and loving relationship with another human".
Having friendships and relationships.. getting close to another person... is not something that is all that challenging for *you*. Or, at least - by contrast to him... you are much more approachable, much more loving and much more open.

In a sense I could see how - getting closer to you - would be a good experience for him.. because there is a lot that he could learn from you, and the way in with which you interact with other people, and get close - and develop a bond - over time...

He does not know "how to" get close.. He does not understand the watery depths of your Scorpio Venus...
For instance, the concept of "making love" is something he read about once in a book somewhere.. and it likely went in one ear and out the other.

He can be poetic though... He might have a "way with words".. and he might seem deceptively romantic on a surface level - but don't be fooled... because you are a *much* deeper person than he is on an emotional level. His pretty words can truly be *just* words.

While I do feel you might be good for him... I can't say that I feel the same way vice versa...

At the end of a relationship with him... in my opinion - you would feel grateful for being able to feel - As strange as that may sound...

You would actually think to yourself.. "Wow.. I'm so blessed to be able to *feel* and to have a heart.. because there exist tin-men in this world, with hearts made of stone - who do not have this amazing ability". And you would end it feeling sorry for him... and moving forward.

I think you would be happiest in this situation - if you kept it at a more surface, flirting, friendship.. sort of level... rather than trying to turn it into something deeper.

I also think that - for you - this is more like a crush.. My gut feeling is that you find him physically attractive and particularly good looking. Because I can't imagine (based on the synastry) that you would be very drawn to him.. if he was average looking...

I am saying this purely based on the info I have though.
With a correct time of birth - you can see how the individuals angles match... and also the Vertex axis.
If this is deeper than a mere attraction - if it's a soulmate connection or a past-life connection... the angles would tell that story imo
But from what I am seeing here.... I'm just giving you my honest two cents.

posted January 12, 2016 07:12 PM            

He can be very consistent in his 'image' and the way he comes across to people. He can seem like the kind of person anyone would like (from afar!)... and anyone would easily befriend him on a detached/acquaintance level.
But he doesn't really know how to get closer than that.

Being 18, maybe he hasn't had many (or any!) proper relationships... But in romantic relationships in general - women can have a lot of problems with him - in my opinion.

Even if you are slow to trust - you do have an emotional core.. and you have a desire to get close to another person.. It's part of being "human".
But this desire is something this guy might not have... or not "yet" anyway (until he learns to understand himself).
And when you see this coldness in him - as I said... it might feel like you are talking to the Tin man in the Wizard of Oz.

posted January 13, 2016 05:25 AM            

I tend to obsess a bit when I like someone But all the glitter is most in my mind I'm sure. I read that some of his aspects might mean he felt some kind of restriction growing up - maybe he wasn't "allowed" to be very emotive or look-at-me or maybe his parents (or just mom) constricted him in a prominent way? Again, I'm not able to put put things together very well.

I'm not sure I'm very dissuaded by the prospect of hardship as such - I think I enjoy some claws and teeth as long as there is reconciliation on the other side. But the whole tin-man idea does sound extremely unappealing, I must say!

I tried interpreting the composite yesterday and (probably very unholistically) and came up with:
a trapeze and a yod - which I think means a lot to overcome. Saturn sextile jupiter (making dreams become a reality - working to bring ideas to life - longterm prospects) square moon trine pluto/sun (accepting eachother for what we are, supporting each other and sexual attraction/need to be together but with possible power struggles and violence?) - and since these "two" are squaring, not being able (or having to work at) bringing these two sides of the relationsship together.
The yod is pretty mystical to me... it is a challenging formation? that also might mean something is fated? The two communicating planets saturn and venus trying to work with their apex the moon, but it is difficult? Working hard to accomplish what you desire - through feelings, which is difficult?

Overall - a willingness to work at it, but a good deal of things to overcome. uprooting all of the other persons problems - so it might get ugly, but might be very transformative. On the other hand it seems like it might just be a good business prospect. I might be mixing things with things I read earlier - it's all pretty blurry in my mind, that's the problem with not having astrology on your backbone

Anyways - it's really helpful also learning-wise. Since I'm so motivated to look at it myself (stumpling about) and then having another's, more overall, perspective to compare it with.