posted January 13, 2016 08:12 AM            

I'm the libra rising with the inner chart.
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posted January 13, 2016 07:39 PM            

I'm so sorry that it happens under these painful circumstances!

But such a constellation is very rare.
My guess would be that you will not manage to avoid each other...and maybe after some time your partners will understand that.

posted January 13, 2016 09:52 PM            

That's a DW haven!

posted January 14, 2016 05:35 AM            

Here’s our aspect chart for the synastry. I'm down and he's across - I think!

posted January 14, 2016 07:35 AM            

It's kind of like, "people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones". I'm not innocent myself.

I'm not being judgemental when I say this: you're focused on you and him to the point that other things get blurred out. Where other people become obstacles, rather than people with feelings. (I know this from experience)
Not to say 100% that you're discarding others but simply that you're losing focus.

So do this please. Spend a day, a few moments, a few days, a little each day. When you're alone and when you're with them. Clear your mind and widen your view. Remove yourself mentally and put yourself in the shoes of his wife and your bf. Think about the value of feelings and respect for them.
Is it worth causing hurt/anger/pain to two other people?
From what you say, neither his wife or your bf have done anything wrong to deserve to have their worlds rocked like that.

posted January 14, 2016 07:50 AM            

Do you have any idea if his mom indicated his birth time was fairly accurate? Like within an hour or two?

posted January 14, 2016 03:54 PM            

When you go to astro. com, click on the "additional tables" and post the aspects grid. I'd really like to see the declinations.

posted January 20, 2016 12:20 PM            

synastry with astroids
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synastry aspects grid (i'm 8th house sun/ 1st house moon)
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composite with asteroids

posted January 20, 2016 02:50 PM            

My guess is that your composite sun/moon conjunction is most likely in your 1st (quite possibly conjunct your ASC) which pushes your Isis/Osiris into the late 1st/2nd house of soulmates. It also then pushes your composite saturn into your 12th which would make much more sense. And I have some speculations about your composite Union then sitting in your 11th house.

posted January 20, 2016 03:20 PM            

though I can't get rid of the feeling you are playing with fire by even eliciting more input.
Saturn is square to pluto which shows no matter how ethereal and idelkas6ic your feelings, he is cold and will not reciprocate this level of sensitivity. Saturn square to pluto is dark and distance . the selfishness precludes emotional intimacy.
that you images of marriage are futile is shown by the Saturn/pluto midpoint conjunct Jupiter.

the midpoint of the mars/Venus square is at 25scorp17 and square Osiris, with eros opposed to isis.so there may be a deep spiritual sensation of bringing forth new individual destinies through the molting of relationships.

I can only wonder if you have doubled whammed in the past.

todd

posted January 21, 2016 07:12 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
looking at the composite mars is conjunct to pluto and square to the venus/node conjunction. this is a intense sexual and emotional psychic connection.but you are aware already of the destructive nature shown by the mars/pluto conjunction. it really would destroy your life if anything came of this because thought the venus node shows exalted inspired love, the mars/pluto is purely instinctual and nothing good could ever come from this
todd

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Hmmmm, I respectfully disagree on this one: yes, Mars/pluto CAN be destructive, but you have to look at it in the context of the individual chart. First, the conjunction is in the sign of Libra and most likely in their 3rd house of communication. I do think there could be heated argurements/fights here, but Libra is also the sign of balance so it could be about learning to balance their communication between eachother. Second, my gut tells me Mars actually rules their MC and thus Pluto would rule their 5th. So looking at the conjunct house rulers, I would say you're looking at a extrmely sexual, romantic..possibly even very creative future between them. They also could be destined to have children together since chidren are represented in the 5th house.

posted January 21, 2016 07:24 AM            

thank you so much once again.

declinations

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synastry with alma included

posted January 21, 2016 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
^^ yeah but as OP mentioned, she doesn't have his exact TOB so most likely the composite ASC is off. Therefore there's good chance jupiter isn't on the ASC, although I do feel it still probably sits in their 1st which is nice . However, that being said, I do definitely see the potential for marriage here, but I see it with the composite Juno on 26Sag opposite saturn which we know is the karmic planet. And even if the angles are a little bit off, juno most likely still sits in their composite 5th house of romance. Also, I keep going back to that saturn square neptune in the synastry. That's more of an indication to me this relationship has to come together, for better or worse. They have unfinished business to take care of.

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Off topic, but would a Saturn/Neptune conjunction work the same way? Or does it have to be the square?