posted January 17, 2016 09:25 PM            

Mostly between boyfriend and girlfriend or something. His Saturn.

I would like to think that is not all bad!

I ask it because I realize I have this with someone I'm attracted to.
His got Sun opposite Saturn natal so his Sun also opp. my Mercury. His Pluto square my Mercury. His Chiron Opp. my Mercury.

His Mercury opp. my Venus, conj my Mars and trine my Jupiter. Square my NN and ascendant. And opp. my MC. His Mercury is in Leo and my Saturn in Pisces, aspecting but I don't know the name of it, I guess something with Q, haha, sorry.
His Sun and Mercury falls in my 4th house.

I honestly don't know what to think. I wanna be optimistic, lol.

posted January 18, 2016 03:07 PM            

So far we don't have major issue when it comes to communication. I can only speak from my side of the story but I feel I can misinterpret what he means easily if I am not paying attention. When that happens, he sees I'm not getting it so he patiently explains until I fully understand.

posted January 18, 2016 03:55 PM            

I have mercury square saturn with a guy I am interested in right now. He's Mercury and I'm Saturn, and he feels that I am constantly belittling and berating his thoughts. I'm working on it...

In my relationships I've found that the Saturn person becomes more tolerant/less scared and the Mercury person becomes more careful about what they say.

posted January 18, 2016 10:52 PM            

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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
My bf has Saturn conjunct Mercury in his natal and since we are born in the same year, we have Saturn conjunct also. I have Saturn square Mercury in my natal so that makes our Mercuries in square.

So far we don't have major issue when it comes to communication. I can only speak from my side of the story but I feel I can misinterpret what he means easily if I am not paying attention. When that happens, he sees I'm not getting it so he patiently explains until I fully understand.

With any relationships that involves Saturn, maturity, patience, and understanding help a lot!

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posted January 18, 2016 10:53 PM            

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Originally posted by scropiojunkie85:
My bestfriend has her saturn square my Mercury and she is constantly criticizing/hurt by the things that I say. It took some time to figure out but it has made our bond stronger.

I have mercury square saturn with a guy I am interested in right now. He's Mercury and I'm Saturn, and he feels that I am constantly belittling and berating his thoughts. I'm working on it...

In my relationships I've found that the Saturn person becomes more tolerant/less scared and the Mercury person becomes more careful about what they say.

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posted January 20, 2016 01:02 PM            

I feel like I need to be careful of what I say sometimes. Like I need to think my words through before expressing myself. Some of our communication (on my part) has rocked the boat for us. So, I do feel a lot of censorship on my part. Like I worry sometimes that I'm not going to say something right. It's strange.

They say that Saturn can be critical. He's never been verbally critical or put me down, ever. I feel I am hard on myself.