posted January 20, 2016 12:59 AM            

I believe it's the moon person who feels the effects of moon/Pluto the most. I have it in synastry with my older brother and my sister's boyfriend, I doubt either think about me obsessively. Lol.

posted January 25, 2016 12:52 PM            

I think it depends how plutonian the pluto is. The plutonian would prob like it, but the non-plutonian might think it's a draining energy.

Although I have sun/mercury/pluto hard aspect and venus/pluto soft aspect, it's not a comfortable feeling to have someone's moon on my pluto.

In my previous moon/pluto relationship I was the moon and I didn't like the intensity. I could easily bring out the intensity of the pluto unconsciously, like the pluto (if not plutonian) had never felt he had it. He once confessed that he never had those feelings in his previous relationship. We had moon/pluto in synastry and composite hard aspect.

posted January 26, 2016 06:13 AM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:

I think it depends how plutonian the pluto is. The plutonian would prob like it, but the non-plutonian might think it's a draining energy.

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^ This.

I've been both moon and pluto in relationships. Natally, I'm very Plutonian, with a dash of Neptune. So, deep, obsessive feelings are my comfort zone.

I think Pluto does, subconsciously or not, have the 'upper hand', initially at least. It's almost too easy to get under the Moon person's skin. Don't even need to try to extract confessions, it all comes tumbling out.

Here's where the Moon's role is crucial - if Moony gets wind of how precious they are to Pluto, they can power-play them right back. **this is where the emotionally destructive cycle begins**

However, if they can sidestep that and use the connection constructively - then, Moon can be equally comforting to Pluto and the depth of their mutual bond is unparalleled. They'll be very protective of each other, esp each other's feelings. I could go on for ages - but you're not looking for the romantic angle here.

In a professional context, we have to interpret it slightly differently. If your boss is someone you trust, then you will find great solace in confiding in him/her. They'll be compassionate about it, and may even look out for you as far as your 'problem areas' are concerned. For instance, let's say you work at the zoo. But you're terrified of monkeys, cause you were bitten by one when you were 5. You Pluto boss will understand. He'll take care to never put you in charge of the monkey cages so you always feel safe at work. (Forgive the bizarreness of the example - just trying to illustrate a point ).