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posted January 22, 2016 03:31 PM            

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I know that a natal chart is only "possibilities" but say the chart of someone you're dating has MULTIPLE "classic" markers for divorce (according to various sources)...would you be optimistic for the future???

Especially when this person holds traditional values and touts only wanting to get married "one time" etc. etc. would you believe them?

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posted January 22, 2016 04:38 PM            

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Please list divorce markers?

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posted January 22, 2016 05:05 PM            

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Or 'multiple marriages' in other words...the aspects I`ve read about in this man`s chart in particular:

Gemini Venus (ruler of 7th) opp. Neptune

Jupiter in 7th

Libra Mars - Saturn - Pluto conjunct in 7th

Taurus Moon quincunx Saturn (if you count that)

Can you say...relationship difficulty at least??? lol

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posted January 22, 2016 06:04 PM            

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Yes, after all, we're just dating.

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posted January 22, 2016 08:23 PM            

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The 7H stellium is very stabilizing, along with the Taurus moon.

This person is...a Dog?

Dogs are the most loyal Chinese sign.

I don't see any red flags, aside from Venus-Neptune, but the opposition isn't as bad as the square. And even the square tends to normalize as the person gets older...they just learn the hard way.

Of course I haven't seen the whole chart...but if you really like the person, how much does the chart really matter?

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posted January 22, 2016 10:58 PM            

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Yes I would. If I am really into a guy and he wants me too, I go for it period and enjoy it while it lasts. Real good chemistry that is reciprocal between two people who are willing to act on it, it's very hard to come by.

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posted January 22, 2016 11:01 PM            

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Have fun you only live once and are young once..we think too much, we fear too much, go create memories you can look back on. Life is short. God I am 32 and sound like such an old woman, like if I am 80 with grandkids!

I feel very young and so old at the same time! I wonder if I am going to die young at times. Nah! LOL many people to help/love, places to see, and mountains to explore/climb/enjoy.

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posted January 22, 2016 11:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
The 7H stellium is very stabilizing, along with the Taurus moon.

This person is...a Dog?

Dogs are the most loyal Chinese sign.

I don't see any red flags, aside from Venus-Neptune, but the opposition isn't as bad as the square. And even the square tends to normalize as the person gets older...they just learn the hard way.

Of course I haven't seen the whole chart...but if you really like the person, how much does the chart really matter?

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I'm a Dog and I have a square between Venus-Neptune.
I couldn't even think about cheating on my partner.

But I agree that if you really like the person, you shouldn't use their chart as an excuse not to date them. Life is too short

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posted January 22, 2016 11:09 PM            

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Oops, double post

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posted January 23, 2016 12:15 AM            

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Well I have a Gemini Dsc with Jupiter in the 7th house, and 7th house ruler in Sagittarus.

I actually have a very conservative attitude towards marriage and relationships, and once I get married I fully intend to stay that way 'until death do us part' sort of thing.

However, I've got Saturn in Virgo in an exact sextile to Jupiter in my 7th house. Saturn also trines Venus in my chart, although Jupiter opposes Venus.

I certainly some of the so called 'bad' stuff, but I also have some compensating markers.

About Jupiter...

Some people tend to forget that while Jupiter can be about freedom and adventure, Jupiter can also be about sticking to a code of honor, and having faith. I think this is what Jupiter in the 7th means in my chart. I tend to be rather opinionated about the having the integrity it takes to keep your vows (marriage wise). The world is full of so many people, there's always a chance that some new person may look attractive to you. But that doesn't mean you need to actually act on all those inclinations. As human beings we're gifted with some rational thought and self-control. And if we don't commit we'll never have relationship of depth and lasting value, we'd just be chasing new opportunities all the time. That would seem so sad and empty to me. Commitment, and quality over quantity, are worth it in my book. It probably helps that I have a Capricorn Sun and Cancer Moon to go with my Sagittarius stellium.

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posted January 23, 2016 01:46 AM            

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"Jupiter can also be about sticking to a code of honor" VERY TRUE! Jupiter people can feel super guilty if they don't stick to that code they feel they should uphold.

OMG and you have cap in sun and moon in cancer, you are definitely the faithful type, that MORE than helps pleaseee haha! Those two placements in combo with your jupiter in the 7th; you were born to get married and have a family till death do us part. If you get married more than once either he initiated the divorce or died or was abusive IMO.

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posted January 23, 2016 04:58 AM            

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Just give it a try. I dated two people who had Uranus in the 7th. That's much worse...both where divorced already of course.

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posted January 23, 2016 05:05 AM            

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Yes if I were single and interested. No problem, coz I have plenty of such markers in my own chart. After all there are many ways energies can manifest. And I have many of the supposedly "stable" markers too.

"Jupiter can also be about sticking to a code of honor, and having faith."

My 7th house jupiter nods in agreement.

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posted January 23, 2016 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Soltze:
Just give it a try. I dated two people who had Uranus in the 7th. That's much worse...both where divorced already of course.

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Uhhh my husband has Mars and Uranus conjunct his DC squaring Venus and sextiling Jupiter. We have been together for 9 years in March and he has never wanted to break up; he is very committed. He has DC in Scorpio with sun in Libra and moon in cancer. He has the Capricorn duad of sun in Libra! and has sun conjunct Saturn in Libra.

In composite we have Uranus conjunct MC semisextile Jupiter in Libra and square Venus.

So yes we are a living example as to why OP should go for it unless her instincts and observations of him strongly are telling her not to but not bc of astrological aspects especially isolated without looking deeply at the entire chart including duads.

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posted January 23, 2016 04:38 PM            

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A guy with Aquarius Mars in 11th house. Is that alone a divorce marker? Don't know anyone with Aquarius Mars, let alone in its 11th house..so can't comment on it.

hypatia238,

I've heard Dsc in Scorpio don't divorce. Fixed sign.

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posted January 23, 2016 05:10 PM            

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Lol yes I would. Dating a Gemini ascendant with Jupiter/Uranus conjunct his descendant and Juno square his ascendant. I don't think that's exactly a divorce marker though, apparently squares to the ascendant act like squares to the node in that you HAVE to deal with em. Bwahaha...

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