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Journey_of_Gemini
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posted January 26, 2016 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Journey_of_Gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I'm new to astrology and I've been trying to read my chart as best as I can but how do I apply everything together? If anyone could help me read my chart I'd greatly appreciate it. Also, what in my chart tells me what I need in love? I also noticed I have a Venus/Uranus square I'm kind of skeptical if I really do have it because I really don't "feel"or relate to it. I actually love closeness in relationships and have no commitment problems. If someone can offer me an interpretation of this and my chart as a whole as well I'd appercepte it greatly. Thank you

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posted January 26, 2016 11:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Journey_of_Gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My chart without asteroids.

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posted January 28, 2016 01:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Someone with Sun around your vertex/DSC: Libra
Moon in Pisces or Virgo
Venus in late Taurus conj your Sun or in late Aquarius
and fixed Mars
that square is wide, but it's the closest aspect to your Venus
your Venus is considered peregrine by Noel Tyl

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posted January 28, 2016 03:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the Moon might be important here as well.

Moon opp Vertex.
Also Venus is conjunct the SN - 3º degrees but still.


Do you have a lot of moon-influence people around you? Like Cancers or Moon/ASC people

I found this interesting. Might be worth researching

Plus you definitivelly need someone who can respect your freedom. With those strong Uranus and Pluto you have...plus the fiery Aries Moon


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posted January 29, 2016 10:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Journey_of_Gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Someone with Sun around your vertex/DSC: Libra
Moon in Pisces or Virgo
Venus in late Taurus conj your Sun or in late Aquarius
and fixed Mars
that square is wide, but it's the closest aspect to your Venus
your Venus is considered peregrine by Noel Tyl


Thank you Question: Are you suggesting moon in Pisces/Virgo because my moon is in the 12th? Would someone who had their moon in the 6 or 12thH be similar ? And "Your Venus is considered peregrine by Noel Tyl." do you mind elaborating?

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posted January 29, 2016 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Journey_of_Gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Soltze:
I think the Moon might be important here as well.

Moon opp Vertex.
Also Venus is conjunct the SN - 3º degrees but still.


Do you have a lot of moon-influence people around you? Like Cancers or Moon/ASC people

I found this interesting. Might be worth researching

Plus you definitivelly need someone who can respect your freedom. With those strong Uranus and Pluto you have...plus the fiery Aries Moon



Interesting...thank you! And yes!!!!!! recently I noticed a good handful of my friends have cancer ascendants, my first love/ex was a moon in cancer (Capricorn sun) as well. I always wondered about the connection because I don't really like cancers because they can be so passive. Why do you ask?????

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posted January 29, 2016 07:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Because anything on the Antivertex-Vertex axis means the kind of people that will show up.

Cancer being ruled by the moon. It just crossed my mind instantly.

Maybe karmically you help those cancer people be more active or you help them solve problems. Off course it doesn't mean you like the process as it happens

People with 4th house stellium could be another hypothesis but a more far-fetched one.

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posted January 30, 2016 05:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Soltze:
Because anything on the Antivertex-Vertex axis means the kind of people that will show up.

Cancer being ruled by the moon. It just crossed my mind instantly.

Maybe karmically you help those cancer people be more active or you help them solve problems. Off course it doesn't mean you like the process as it happens

People with 4th house stellium could be another hypothesis but a more far-fetched one.


Are you refering to her having Moon in Aries conjunct her Antivertex Axis?

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posted January 30, 2016 06:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Journey_of_Gemini: Interesting...thank you! And yes!!!!!! recently I noticed a good handful of my friends have cancer ascendants, my first love/ex was a moon in cancer (Capricorn sun) as well. I always wondered about the connection because I don't really like cancers because they can be so passive. Why do you ask?????

You have late Cancer on the 5th house cusp of 'romantic sparks' so you might often find yourself attracted to those with a Cancer influence. Especially so with the Moon conjunct your Antivertex (point of fateful encounters that are suspected or hoped for).

However, you say you don't like the passivity of the typical Cancer, and this would make sense because the Moon in your chart which rules Cancer, and your 5th house cusp, falls into fiery sign of Aries. You like the sensitivity of Cancer mixed in with the directness and enthusiasm of Aries.

Interestingly, the asteroid Juno in your chart is in the sign Capricorn. The asteroid Juno is said to rule partners/spouses, and our relationship preferences. To me this explains why you were drawn to your partner's Cap Sun.

Most charts show the potential to be attracted to a variety of signs. How this manifests depends on who we happen to meet, and what situations arise in life.

For example, there are three houses in the chart associated with relationships.

The 5th house is about 'romantic sparks' (this I've already mentioned), and shows you could be attracted to the signs Cancer and Aries. And possibly Leo too, because much of the sign Leo falls into the 5th house, and your Mars (a planet of masculinity) is also in the sign Leo. However Mars is in the 6th house (house of work/chores, and health), so you may also like a practical and hardworking guy as well as someone who has charisma.

The 7th house is about 'affection and partnership/marriage'. You have Libra on the 7th house ruled by Venus in Taurus. This means the signs Taurus and Libra can attract you as well. In the case of Libra, your Vertex (point of unexpected fateful events) falls at 5 degrees Libra, and so planets here can lead to important changes in your life.

The 8th house is about 'private intimacy, and sharing personal issues/stuff/resources' in a relationship. The sign Scorpio is on your 8th house cusp ruled by Pluto also in Scorpio in the 8th house. Jupiter in Sagittarius is also in the 8th house. This could attract you to the signs Scorpio and Sagittarius, especially Scorpio because this is the most dominant influence.

That means that the signs most likely to attract you are... Cancer, Aries, Leo, Libra, Taurus, Scorpio, Sagittarius, and Capricorn (because of Juno).

This is more then half the zodiac!! So while you are likely to be attracted to all of these signs in different ways, there is obviously more to attraction then someone having the right signs in their chart.

And there is! The answer often lies in house ruler synastry. Moon rules the 5th house, Venus rules the 7th house, and Pluto and Mars co-rule the 8th house in your chart. A member of the opposite sex that has a lot of the above mentioned signs in their chart, and who also makes strong synastry aspects to your Moon, Venus, Pluto, and Mars, is very likely to attract you. They would stimulate within you the feelings associated with romantic sparks, affection, or intimacy (depending on which house ruler they aspect).

That's pretty much the secret to figuring out how someone is your type. They have the right signs strong in their chart, while also aspecting your relationship house rulers. It helps if you share a yin/yang aspect with them too, like Mars/Venus, Sun/Moon, and so on. These aspects add physical attraction.

There's a variety of different ways that someone could be your type when you follow the previously mentioned guidelines. So who you end up with within the parameters of those guidelines pretty much depends on who you happen to meet, or what you karmic fate happens to be. All I know is, that when you compare you partner's chart to your relationship houses and house rulers, that attraction will most likely make a lot of sense astrologically. When you use the above guidelines you can clearly see what pulled you in, and also what pulled them towards you.

Oh, and when I talk about synastry aspects, I think to really feel the effect they need to be very tight. Like hopefully within 3 degrees of orb, 5 degrees apart at most.

For instance, you mentioned that you have a Venus/Uranus square. But the orb is an entire 8 degrees apart! It's not a very tight aspect in your chart so I wouldn't worry about it. Your Taurus Venus would attract you to security and stability with out conflict for sure. You do have a nice tight Uranus/Sun trine though (2 degrees apart) which is more about your individuality then relationships.

When analyzing synastry use tight orbs especially if you're new. It helps avoid confusion. The closest aspects are the most important ones anyway.

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posted February 02, 2016 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Journey_of_Gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
[b] You have late Cancer on the 5th house cusp of 'romantic sparks' so you might often find yourself attracted to those with a Cancer influence. Especially so with the Moon conjunct your Antivertex (point of fateful encounters that are suspected or hoped for).

However, you say you don't like the passivity of the typical Cancer, and this would make sense because the Moon in your chart which rules Cancer, and your 5th house cusp, falls into fiery sign of Aries. You like the sensitivity of Cancer mixed in with the directness and enthusiasm of Aries.

Interestingly, the asteroid Juno in your chart is in the sign Capricorn. The asteroid Juno is said to rule partners/spouses, and our relationship preferences. To me this explains why you were drawn to your partner's Cap Sun.

Most charts show the potential to be attracted to a variety of signs. How this manifests depends on who we happen to meet, and what situations arise in life.

For example, there are three houses in the chart associated with relationships.

The 5th house is about 'romantic sparks' (this I've already mentioned), and shows you could be attracted to the signs Cancer and Aries. And possibly Leo too, because much of the sign Leo falls into the 5th house, and your Mars (a planet of masculinity) is also in the sign Leo. However Mars is in the 6th house (house of work/chores, and health), so you may also like a practical and hardworking guy as well as someone who has charisma.

The 7th house is about 'affection and partnership/marriage'. You have Libra on the 7th house ruled by Venus in Taurus. This means the signs Taurus and Libra can attract you as well. In the case of Libra, your Vertex (point of unexpected fateful events) falls at 5 degrees Libra, and so planets here can lead to important changes in your life.

The 8th house is about 'private intimacy, and sharing personal issues/stuff/resources' in a relationship. The sign Scorpio is on your 8th house cusp ruled by Pluto also in Scorpio in the 8th house. Jupiter in Sagittarius is also in the 8th house. This could attract you to the signs Scorpio and Sagittarius, especially Scorpio because this is the most dominant influence.

That means that the signs most likely to attract you are... Cancer, Aries, Leo, Libra, Taurus, Scorpio, Sagittarius, and Capricorn (because of Juno).

This is more then half the zodiac!! So while you are likely to be attracted to all of these signs in different ways, there is obviously more to attraction then someone having the right signs in their chart.

And there is! The answer often lies in house ruler synastry. Moon rules the 5th house, Venus rules the 7th house, and Pluto and Mars co-rule the 8th house in your chart. A member of the opposite sex that has a lot of the above mentioned signs in their chart, and who also makes strong synastry aspects to your Moon, Venus, Pluto, and Mars, is very likely to attract you. They would stimulate within you the feelings associated with romantic sparks, affection, or intimacy (depending on which house ruler they aspect).

That's pretty much the secret to figuring out how someone is your type. They have the right signs strong in their chart, while also aspecting your relationship house rulers. It helps if you share a yin/yang aspect with them too, like Mars/Venus, Sun/Moon, and so on. These aspects add physical attraction.

There's a variety of different ways that someone could be your type when you follow the previously mentioned guidelines. So who you end up with within the parameters of those guidelines pretty much depends on who you happen to meet, or what you karmic fate happens to be. All I know is, that when you compare you partner's chart to your relationship houses and house rulers, that attraction will most likely make a lot of sense astrologically. When you use the above guidelines you can clearly see what pulled you in, and also what pulled them towards you.

Oh, and when I talk about synastry aspects, I think to really feel the effect they need to be very tight. Like hopefully within 3 degrees of orb, 5 degrees apart at most.

For instance, you mentioned that you have a Venus/Uranus square. But the orb is an entire 8 degrees apart! It's not a very tight aspect in your chart so I wouldn't worry about it. Your Taurus Venus would attract you to security and stability with out conflict for sure. You do have a nice tight Uranus/Sun trine though (2 degrees apart) which is more about your individuality then relationships.

When analyzing synastry use tight orbs especially if you're new. It helps avoid confusion. The closest aspects are the most important ones anyway.


Thank you so much I really appreciate your answer. A lot of things are beginning to make sense. Considering the fact ALL of my closest friends are fire signs. You're completely right about my Mars in the 6th I think this is why I attract/attracted to soooo Virgos as well, I'm really big on security in my relationships. I did forget to mention my soon to be ex significant other (lol) is a Virgo WITH cancer Mars. I always wondered why I had this weird connection with cancers even though I thought I wasn't compatible with that energy. The purpose of this entire thread for me was to see what I need to look for in my next relationship because I'm really thinking about ending the one I'm in now (kinda undecided right now) and I really need some advice on thAt before I start to take the information you gave me and apply it. Do you mind (or anyone else) if I post our charts and get some advice please?

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posted February 02, 2016 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Journey_of_Gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone else mind looking at my s.o and I's charts?????? Part of me wants to hold on then the other part of my wants to just walk away completely. Please and thank you

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posted February 03, 2016 01:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jadave     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was looking at your chart and..

I notice a few exact conjunctions between yours and My chart..

My SN to your VERTEX exact
My MC to your Moon (1degree)
My pluto to your NN exact
My moon to your pluto exact
My VERTEX to your Jupiter exact
My jupiter to your saturn (1degree)
My DC to your neptune (2degree)
My chiron to your mercury exact

And a couple wider aspects

My AC to your vesta (3degree)
My sun to your vesta (4degree)
My Venus to your mars (8degre)
my venus trine your venus (1degree)
My moon opp your sun (3deg)
My mercury trine your moon (1degree)

Wonder what this means
...

Oh yea i am a cancer too

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posted February 03, 2016 09:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Journey_of_Gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by jadave:
I was looking at your chart and..

I notice a few exact conjunctions between yours and My chart..

My SN to your VERTEX exact
My MC to your Moon (1degree)
My pluto to your NN exact
My moon to your pluto exact
My VERTEX to your Jupiter exact
My jupiter to your saturn (1degree)
My DC to your neptune (2degree)
My chiron to your mercury exact

And a couple wider aspects

My AC to your vesta (3degree)
My sun to your vesta (4degree)
My Venus to your mars (8degre)
my venus trine your venus (1degree)
My moon opp your sun (3deg)
My mercury trine your moon (1degree)

Wonder what this means
...

Oh yea i am a cancer too


Interesting! Post your chart please.

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posted February 03, 2016 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jadave     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry i tried, but i don't know how

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