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Topic: My venus oppestion my pluto, and had enough of my intense feelings?
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Loveher
Newflake Posts: 8
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Registered: Nov 2015
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posted January 28, 2016 06:04 PM
  
So what to do when you have this placment, i want to be cool about flirtibg dating, but i get intense attached easily, which made women play with my emotions or worse run away, im too deep toward these stuff and cant take it causally its you arr totally in my life or out of my life totally love you or totally hate you, my moon also conjunct my pluto in scorip, what should i do? I want to relax but i cant?IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 61955
From: Saturn next to Charmaine
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 29, 2016 10:42 AM
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Loveher
Newflake Posts: 8
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Registered: Nov 2015
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posted January 29, 2016 07:57 PM
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Soltze
Knowflake Posts: 1137
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Registered: Mar 2015
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posted January 29, 2016 08:08 PM
You need to impose rules to yourself. Like don't be impulsive. If you feel like sending another text, calling again....whatever. Take a deep breath first.Fight anxiety with logic. No matter how many times you need to conteract any "crazy toughts" like " She doesn't like me anymore"..."She's becoming an enemy" etc. It's interesting what you describe. With oppositions the person's atitude tends to swing between two poles.
When you act like Venus you feel manipulated...when you act like Pluto people get scared by the intensity. If you keep things clear and avoid misunderstandings you can act like Venus without feeling tricked.
A good use of Pluto could be using your observing powers to prepare nice things that will make the other see how much you care without bringing out the nasty/stalker side of Pluto. I have Moon/Pluto in Scorpio too. So I know what you're talking about but they make a trine to Venus. A close friend of mine has a Venus/Pluto opposition too and I saw her doing the same mistakes in love again and again...but she was an Aries. She couldn't be convinced to do otherwise lol.
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Loveher
Newflake Posts: 8
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Registered: Nov 2015
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posted January 30, 2016 09:38 AM
Lol im aries too. What you said is right !IP: Logged |
mir
Knowflake Posts: 2245
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Registered: May 2009
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posted January 31, 2016 04:51 PM
My sis also an Aries with Aries-Venus opposite Pluto. She found herself a Pisces-guy with also a (same sign) Venus/Pluto opposition. It seems to work for more than 15 years now but once in a while I still notice some obsessive traits towards him.
There is however a setback currently. They aren't speaking with each other since new years eve while on Christmas day they were horsing around like teenagers in love. Ow and she has a Scorp-Moon too, conjunct Asc/NN. IP: Logged |
Loveher
Newflake Posts: 8
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Registered: Nov 2015
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posted February 08, 2016 04:41 AM
I do the same too with my exs, ups and downs lol totally flirting or totally ignoring each other, the only good thing is its hard to forget someone deep as us, my exs never get over me, but its a curse since i never really fell in love, or had a long term relationship.IP: Logged |
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