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Kerosene
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posted February 08, 2014 04:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Like exact too.
What is you experience with this?
Like idk I'm the mars but Im not really attracted to venus that much.

We're more like friends but when we met it was all about us hooking up or so that's what everyone around us was wanting but there was no chemistry as such.
So I guess it's not as intense as the conjunction because every time I meet an aries venus Im all over them most of the time.
but Im happy were friends but I assumed this would be explosive in synastry.

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posted February 08, 2014 04:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree. Opposition most likely makes you wary of a person. I had mars conjunct venus with someone and just being in the street was a problem because we would want to tear off eachothers clothes. I guess its different.


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Kerosene
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posted February 08, 2014 05:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
YESSSSSS
I am a bit wary because I don't want to be in a situation where I have to turn this person down directly.
However they are a libra sun so maybe I can be less wary but they do have scorpio mars trine saturn.
So Im not sure.
Honestly I really do enjoy the company.

I think venus has gotten I want to be friends only so were like slowly being more affectionate..because it can't be misconstrued as being flirty or inviting.

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theunknown
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posted February 08, 2014 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Kerosene
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posted February 08, 2014 05:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
had mars conjunct venus with someone and just being in the street was a problem because we would want to tear off eachothers clothes.



YAAAAAAAAAAAAS.

Exactly you probably went under the boardwalk or something idk.

Venus conjunct Mars is where class and self-respect goes to die -__-
But it's just so right

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posted February 08, 2014 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had it with my best/friend growing up. Her Venus opposite my Mars and both are afflicted by only one planet, Pluto. Otherwise unaspected though mine is supposedly square sun but the orb sooo wide, like, ten degrees, so I don't really count it.
We were best friends and jealous of each other's other friendships. Lots and lots of competition between us over friends and we even got into a fight once which she instigated over me calling another girl a ***** . It was so stupid. Really, she was mad because I had a new friend and since I was a latchkey kid, I would go to her house after school. She couldn't stand it and she eventually managed to break up the friendship between me and the other girl.
This particular combination has sooo much jealousy but we also were each other's best friends and would go to each others birthday parties and were together all the time so it's very strong as far as companionship goes.

Maybe there's only jealousy because of Pluto?

This was when we were kids and through our early twenties. Eventually I stopped talking to her and now I go out of my way to avoid her at all costs because of the jealousy and bs. I got fed up with it.

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posted February 08, 2014 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for summerlite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thought this is an attraction aspect.
Guess not...

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Kerosene
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posted February 08, 2014 05:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
idk synastry aspects a lot different when it's initially platonic.
So with friends it can be annoying
Like squares can be so hot in romantic synastry but it can just be so annoying with anyone else like your boss or parent.

I have venus conjunct mars with my mother- We just really open with each other, in that our passions and desires are similar.

Like we also have Venus square pluto and I get so annoyed when she's being too intrusive.
LIKE LEAVE ME ALONE pls.
but maybe with someone I was attracted to I would be really into it.

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posted February 08, 2014 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My friend and I spent something like 75% of our time together and now no time together ever. That's the nature of oppositions, I guess. *shrugs*

Maybe if you have it with someone with Mars or Venus in a better situation, like with some trines, the outcome is better? There is definite strong attraction and me and my friend went everywhere together and that was fun. They called us the Bobsy Twins because we were together so often.
All in all, this aspect can be really great for two people who spend a lot of time together, like lets say people who are partners in work, like cops or truck drivers or something. They enjoy being in each other's company.

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Kerosene
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posted February 08, 2014 05:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just said your situation was platonic so idk lol.
Hmm Well were you sexually attracted to your friend?

because you're willing to do a lot more things with someone you desire.

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posted February 08, 2014 05:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
I just said your situation was platonic so idk lol.
Hmm Well were you sexually attracted to your friend?


Nope, I was scared of anything like that at the time. I was just not independent at all which was my problem and with moon opposite Neptune, I felt really happy and in tune with another person, so I became psychologically dependent. This can happen with Libra stelliums. I am much better about standing on my own now.
Our friendship was platonic.
I can still get into that mindset and was for a while but now I am trying to regain balance and distance myself.
I dislike the feeling of being addicted to someone psychologically and I know I can become that way if I don't watch it.

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Kerosene
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posted February 08, 2014 05:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Its weird because I like squares more than oppositions.
Even thou oppositions are suppose to be more positive.

Does anyone else not get signs opposite from your placements?

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posted February 08, 2014 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She has Venus in Gemini (in ninth house) and that's how she broke up my friendships with others, through words. She would talk to them and get them not to like me because she wanted to be my only friend.
I had one good friend I made in my late teens. When she couldn't break up my friendship with her, she started saying negative things about us, like, "just talk to them both and be totally confused," treating us like we were both brain-dead or something. It was so obvious she didn't like us being friends.
To be fair, once I did break up a friendship she had only because I wanted to be friends with her friend and didn't want her to break up my friendship with the other girl. I used Gemini tactics then because Mars is in the third house in my chart and managed to break up their friendship by talking to other person and convincing her to hang out with me.

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posted February 10, 2014 11:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My experience, most the times when squares and oppositions stirred an attraction were when the planets are in their domicile e.g: Venus in Taurus opposite Pluto in Scorpio. Or Venus in Taurus square sun in Leo. The effect is intensified I guess, a hint of DW if that makes sense.
But any opposition to my sun coming from libra, I run, run and then run.
Run a little longer.
And run.

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Kerosene
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posted February 11, 2014 12:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But it's weird because venus-mars are domicile...
I mean they are attractive maybe just not my type.
Sun mercury venus and NN are in libra.


I dated someone with libra sun opp my mars...
but I honestly found them REALLLLYYYY physically attractive...
But but libra was in the 8th house and scorpio moon was in the 8th house too, plus mars in aries inconjunct scorpio moon..
Sooo yeahh not your typical libra. There was more oomph.

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posted February 11, 2014 12:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My first long term - and only lol- boyfriend was a Scorpio, had his sun-mars conjunction opposite my Venus, making a grand cross to my t-square. His Venus and Jupiter fell in my 7H. The only thing that kept the relationship alive was the emotional bond, not the physical part. It was tame somehow, more emotional and spiritual than anything. Not bad, but now I have known better physical chemistry!
My current partner also create a grand cross and his moon falls in my 7H, but my attraction to him is beyond logic. The universe works in mysterious ways ...

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Kerosene
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posted February 11, 2014 12:55 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OMg but i get that sun oppositon though.

I have the craziest experiences with sags suns...
I can't even begin.

though I admit to enjoying some of that chaos and disfunction

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posted February 11, 2014 01:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Who doesn't love sags? 😁 for me sags and gems are so similar. I would say the most in sync opposite signs. But aries libra?! So much contrast it's like black and white.

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posted February 11, 2014 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay my iPhone screen is splitting into two and duplicating posts.

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Kerosene
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posted February 11, 2014 01:18 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So is mine 0_o....
retro merc...

bad seeds of the sag persuasion are insaneeeee.
They have not inhibitions at all..
Even worse than mean scorpios...

Even when I'm bad I'm not very dangerous..

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posted February 03, 2016 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoPILL     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
is it possible in one synastry to have
venus opp venus
venus opp mars
venus squ mars
mars squ mars
what do these do between two people?

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Randall
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posted February 03, 2016 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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VirgoPILL
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posted February 04, 2016 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoPILL     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
could you please help as to how can i splice together these 4 aspects and get a general idea how these 2 people would do together on venus-mars front? too much energy in one place which burns out quickly or because there's no soft aspect the two would not even look at each other as potential lovers but rather enemies?

thank you in anticipation!

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posted February 05, 2016 03:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoPILL     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump

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VirgoPILL
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posted February 05, 2016 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoPILL     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hm, bumpy?


venus opp venus
venus opp mars
venus squ mars
mars squ mars

all together

in synastry

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