posted February 04, 2016 09:25 AM            

So I know this guy who is a childhood friend of my best friend , and we've hung out plenty of times before with other people but never just the too of us. I actually thought he didn't like when I came around cuz he was really quiet and didn't really talk or engage with me much but I always thought he was cute. However, my bff told me he was on the phone with her and randomly brought my name up saying how much he is into me and thinks Im attractive! When she told me my initial reaction was "really?! But why me ?"so without my permission she told him I secretly like him too!

He was like "huh!? Really! How come she never told me?" "Why me? What does she like about me"? & "I usually can tell when a girl likes me but I can't really read her". It stood out to be that we both had the same reaction to finding out the other person was interested: "really?! But why me?!" Lol!

Soooo can you please go over our synastry and tell me same much at you can to answer both of our questions of "Why?" Thnk u!🙂

posted February 06, 2016 06:10 PM            

you venus was squared by the noadal axis in late feb ..23th. so in this time you were giving very attractive vibrations. I suspect that there are other guys in the "milieu" around you.
as to this guy, I ran a midpoint composite for your relationship with this guy.
my interpretation IS NOT based on the chart you posted.

first thing is the powerful stellium of juno/lupiter/pluto/ixion, Nadir , all in a few minutes.
this implies he or you are from a very powerful heritage family.this shows wealth ,social position and behind the scenes knowledge.
as you are asking why, I have to assume that there is a big economic or social gap between you. Contributing to the "why".

the why for him is the eros/psyche midpoint conjunct to eris and square to ceres.
it implies his young lust has swept him off his feet...kinda..
but the stellium on the nadir is quite calculated and manipulating so I don't think this emotional attraction has much more impetus than a affair.

the venus/mercury midpoint is conjunct the sun so you guys are always bringing each other up. very demonstrative and affectionate interactions' good communication connection and just overall joy.

sedna conjunct the node is a sign of divulging the truest and deepest secrets to each other. this gives an attraction based on common notions. but here Orcus is square to sedna and the node. the square turns the truth away. it show past experiences that have not been resolved. it becomes instead hesitation or withholding the truth.
this shows selfishness so strong a a intimate relationship won't bloom

posted February 06, 2016 08:06 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi

you venus was squared by the noadal axis in late feb ..23th. so in this time you were giving very attractive vibrations. I suspect that there are other guys in the "milieu" around you.
as to this guy, I ran a midpoint composite for your relationship with this guy.
my interpretation IS NOT based on the chart you posted.

first thing is the powerful stellium of juno/lupiter/pluto/ixion, Nadir , all in a few minutes.
this implies he or you are from a very powerful heritage family.this shows wealth ,social position and behind the scenes knowledge.
as you are asking why, I have to assume that there is a big economic or social gap between you. Contributing to the "why".

the why for him is the eros/psyche midpoint conjunct to eris and square to ceres.
it implies his young lust has swept him off his feet...kinda..
but the stellium on the nadir is quite calculated and manipulating so I don't think this emotional attraction has much more impetus than a affair.

the venus/mercury midpoint is conjunct the sun so you guys are always bringing each other up. very demonstrative and affectionate interactions' good communication connection and just overall joy.

sedna conjunct the node is a sign of divulging the truest and deepest secrets to each other. this gives an attraction based on common notions. but here Orcus is square to sedna and the node. the square turns the truth away. it show past experiences that have not been resolved. it becomes instead hesitation or withholding the truth.
this shows selfishness so strong a a intimate relationship won't bloom

todd

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posted February 06, 2016 08:20 PM            

Mars rules your DC and squares his MOON and trines his Uranus which is his DC ruler so your DC rulers trine each other so you both fit an ideal you have of your 'perfect other' right away.

posted February 07, 2016 08:23 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Why me? could be a self esteem thing...one of you has chiron in the 1st and the other has mars conjunct chiron.

Check pandora in synastry that could also explain the element of surprise.

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posted February 07, 2016 03:53 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutonicGemini94:
Lol yep my Chiron in the first is always surprised when someone likes me, or even compliments me. Also yes I do see him as my type lol, I did t even know I had a type but he fits the image. What's a Pandora synatry? Is it on Astro.com?

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posted February 07, 2016 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutonicGemini94:
Hi Todd! Thank you for your time & reply! I'm not sure what social or economical gap there is between though. He is 20 & I am 21 & we are both pretty average/broke when it comes to money lol. But my family does come from a high status since my dad was in a popular African band and toured London before , also my mothers dad was a jaz musician in L A The 50/60's . He however doesn't know any of that. Also there is a past experience that I have been trying to resolve involving a fear of intimacy on my part. So would u say that my fear is what makes the potential slim?

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I think this reflects that both of you have emotional reservations, but which every, this year=ning for truth and truth not being available blocks intimate emotional connections.
todd