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Topic: no moon OR venus aspects?
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missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 555
From: neverneverland
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted February 09, 2016 01:47 PM
  
WTF
so, this man is pursuing me but his venus and moon are totally unaspected in our synastry.Is he even really attracted to me? I will admit, after seeing this I don't even feel like I should engage him any further. I find him very attractive and I feel like this is like a test for me and if i get involved I shall be punished. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
Moderator Posts: 3526
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted February 09, 2016 01:58 PM
If you never knew about astrology, what would you do?IP: Logged |
missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 555
From: neverneverland
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted February 09, 2016 03:04 PM
well I am convinced that this is a test for me from the universe because I just committed to myself that I would be abstinent until I am in a serious relationship bc I think I will have better judgement in picking a mate...Then this dude who is like my physical manifestation of perfection appears, I am not entirely sure on the rest of the connection yet :/ IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
Moderator Posts: 3526
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted February 10, 2016 01:40 AM
Unaspected planets are wild cards, they can bring you trouble (disinterest) or they can become even more powerful. Their energy is less diluted. I generally don't like to see them in synastry, but there have been instances when my planets were not aspected by the other's planets and they still functioned. IP: Logged |
EmGem
Knowflake Posts: 1085
From:
Registered: Jan 2015
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posted February 10, 2016 02:01 AM
My venus was unaspected with my ex husband. Repeat.. EX husband. says it all really.. IP: Logged |
missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 555
From: neverneverland
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted February 10, 2016 02:47 AM
LOL, thanks guys!See, he is attracted to me- as far as having met me offline, checked out my FB etc. My insecure-ness is thinking that because they are both unaspected, if we were to get together in person he would NOT be attracted and then I would feel really sad, because, that is pretty sad if someone is like "oh you look different in person... nvm" That's basically what I'm worried about! IP: Logged |
missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 555
From: neverneverland
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted February 10, 2016 02:50 AM
I will add, I also am afraid that I'm going to meet him and he is going to have all the power because my venus and moon are aspected and his aren't. IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 1900
From:
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted February 10, 2016 06:43 AM
I have unaspected sun in my synastry.
It seems to shine brighter without bothering her. Normally she can't even stand men of my Sun sign. Another person had unaspected mars with me and it didn't seem to hurt anything. In fact, they were far more sexually comfortable with me than anyone else before me. (That coming from them, not me)
I certainly don't mean to say that unaspected planets are always a good thing. My point is that they are not always bad either!
If you like each other then just try it. Don't let astrology stop you. Don't quote please IP: Logged |
margym0o
Knowflake Posts: 630
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted February 10, 2016 10:24 AM
Please don't let astrology control your life. You actually have to LIVE IT instead of letting an imperfect science dictate your choices.I posted a chart not too long ago of a married couple where both of their Mercuries are unaspected, and the wife's Venus/Saturn conj. is unaspected. They've been together for 7 years now and just welcomed their first baby. Unaspected planets seem to be a pattern in my relationships now that I think about it (if you don't count minor aspects). In my first 5-year relationship, both of our Mars' were unaspected and so was his Sun. My second 3-year relationship his Mercury and my Moon were unaspected. Now in my 2-year+ relationship his Mercury is unaspected. You might say well yeah they're exes so obviously there was a problem but I can assure you they were problems that had little to do with these unaspected planets. Anyway, point is...if you think there might be something there, give it a shot  What's going to happen will happen! IP: Logged |
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