posted February 12, 2016 07:07 PM            

I've known this guy for a few years now and i wonder what you can make out from our charts.
We had an attempt at becoming close, but i didn't like him, in fact, there is something repulsive in his personality and physique.
But when we get dangerously close i instantaneously feel sexually magnetised to him, even though i still feel repulsed at the same time.

He would want us to get together but for the wrong reasons. We don't love each other, and i find his constant sexual demands unhealthy.

He comes off as very insensitive, hardly any emotional reactions ever, prefers to be "logical" at all times. I think he is very selfish, as well as validation seeking.

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posted February 12, 2016 08:33 PM            

Negative:

* You may feel repulsed partly because your moon is square his sun, even though it's a wide square. Also, his Chiron on your moon...that's a very sensitive dynamic. Can set you up for some "hair-trigger" responses.

* Your Mars is widely square his moon...not so great.

* Your Cap stellium on his Neptune (sun's ruler) could cause him to overreact to you.

Positive:

* His sun on your north node.
* Your Mars conjunct his Mars-Venus (hence the electric connection.)
* Your Venus conjunct his Saturn could be binding even though the orb is wide. "Binding" is not necessarily positive, but I didn't want to call it negative, either.

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Positive:

* Sun-Mercury-Venus over the ASC...could be an important, public relationship for both of you...however, the sun is in the 12th house...not SO very public. Perhaps your communication in public is very unusual (Mercury in Aquarius on the ASC) or innovative. Pallas and Jupiter in the 1st house would only enhance this potential to make a strong impression. Pluto squaring the ASC, maybe some hidden things you each feel about philosophy puts a vibe of contention between you that is noticeable.

Negative:

* I think a lot of what you described with the erratic nature of the feelings is the fault of the composite moon opposing Uranus.

* Karma on the MC is curious and makes me wonder how many "coincidental" incidents you two have, that have a karmic feel to them.

posted February 13, 2016 06:37 PM            

I have always wanted to know more about the Moon - Chiron conjunction since i have it with someone else as well, only reversed.

I did think my Mars conjunct his Mars-Venus is responsible for the crazy "electric" connection. I wonder if his conjunction is also contributing to him being constantly in need for sexual release

I found lots of information, here on the forum, that Sun-Venus-Mercury is the ultimate love bond. That's definitely not the case here.
To elaborate on your interpretation - we have kept our relationship (which is difficult to define in the first place) private from the rest of the people we mutually know. So this must be how this aspect with the 12th house plays out for us.

posted February 13, 2016 06:46 PM            

Faith is right on about a lot of things including the Chiron-Moon bringing hair trigger responses.

He's also getting in the way of your Venus-Jupiter flow with his Saturn and that's probably super frustrating... I think Saturn on Venus can feel predatory in some conditions.

posted February 14, 2016 06:59 AM            

It's not as bad as it may seem... he's not a rapist (yet) however, he is quite annoying and can be assertive.
He basically needs sex as much as he requires food.

I've read that in favour to the North Node's "mission" one should have a partner whose Sun or ASC is conjunct their NN. It doesn't really apply in my case, though

We may have experienced "hair trigger" responses on rare occasions, but i don't think that's the most significant aspect of the Moon - Chiron conjunction.

posted February 15, 2016 12:12 PM            

You are right, i don't think anyone is actually interested in intimacy, but we are still capable of deceiving each other that we may want it.
He does make sexual promises of extreme pleasure that i have very little interest in. Overall selfishness is prominent with a lot of sexual frustration on his side.

Your points are funny and accurate, thank god this person repulses me then!

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Originally posted by todd:
Jupiter square the Neptune/Uranus midpoint bodes deception or unexpected changes that preclude previous promises. not a reliable influence.

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