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Topic: Better as lovers or friends?
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cultstatus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 13, 2016 06:14 AM
Please if you have a moment take a look at this synastry. A new guy I've been seeing - definite attraction/chemistry but I can't help but wonder if I should try and keep it as friends - I just don't know what direction our friendship/relationship will take at this point so I'm curious to hear your thoughts... IP: Logged |
cultstatus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 14, 2016 03:11 PM
Does anyone have time to take a look? I'm really not sure how to progress forward with this person x IP: Logged |
todd Knowflake Posts: 639 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 14, 2016 07:33 PM
hi cultstatuspost a midpoint composite and i'll take a long after the holiday. todd IP: Logged |
cultstatus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 14, 2016 11:25 PM
Hi Todd! Thanks for the reply. Will do so soon. I'm really curious to hear your thoughts! IP: Logged |
cultstatus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 15, 2016 03:09 AM
here is the composite mid point chart x IP: Logged |
cultstatus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 17, 2016 05:59 PM
Can anyone help me? We're kind of at a weird place now having kissed (best kiss of my life!) so there is definite POTENTIAL and ATTRACTION. Will it be possible to just maintain a good friendship? IP: Logged |
todd Knowflake Posts: 639 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 17, 2016 07:52 PM
hi cultstatuswith a stellium of Jupiter/mercury and the sun trine to Uranus and Saturn, a excellent friendship could be pictures. Jupiter implies this is a workplace connection or you have similar professional goals. the venus/mars midpointis opposed to urnaus ,so thereis a very magnetic emotional feeling between you. but urnaus usually brings brief affairs,intense , but not committed. here the venus/mars midpoint is also square to the node. this increases the electricity between you but also increases the instability of a long-term relationship. as the romantic aspects bode a brief affair and then breakup, and if this is a workplace "romance", I would keep it on the friendship level so that any emotional turbulence that ensues does not create havoc in your workplace. with lilth opposed to ceres, there is a deep feeling of nurturing between you, but this energy would unlikely stabilize the physical/emotional aspect of the relationship. there is great attraction and an excellent mental connection. If this is not workplace romance, it might not hurt to see how this goes, but if you share a workplace, then it would unwise to pursue this relationship. todd IP: Logged |
cultstatus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 18, 2016 12:35 AM
HI Toddthanks for getting back to me. No it's not a workplace thing, we both have creative career goals but not necessarily in the same industry. From what you're saying it all sounds quite positive, I will try and be open to it and see how things go! IP: Logged |
cultstatus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 26, 2016 12:20 AM
well we definitely aren't going to be 'just friends'. There is this constant undertone of tension, I think it has a lot to do with the venus opposite uranus in synastry...is our synastry any good? there seems to be an electric attraction between us that is quite romantic, what would this come down to? Also, I am very suspicious of him, feeling like he's not being real with me or isn't genuinely interested in me even though all of his behaviour has been positive and respectful. Is this my own insecurities playing out or can you see some aspects that might ignite me feeling such a way? Would you pursue this based on the synastry? Help!! IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 633 From: New Jersey Registered: Jul 2014
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posted February 26, 2016 01:13 PM
Are you the Cancer or Aquarius?IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 637 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted February 26, 2016 03:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by cultstatus: well we definitely aren't going to be 'just friends'. There is this constant undertone of tension, I think it has a lot to do with the venus opposite uranus in synastry...is our synastry any good? there seems to be an electric attraction between us that is quite romantic, what would this come down to? Also, I am very suspicious of him, feeling like he's not being real with me or isn't genuinely interested in me even though all of his behaviour has been positive and respectful. Is this my own insecurities playing out or can you see some aspects that might ignite me feeling such a way? Would you pursue this based on the synastry? Help!!
Actually, both of your Uranuses are unaspected, aside from a conjunction from your Uranus to his Uranus/Saturn (assuming you're inside). What you're seeing is his Venus opp. your Venus/Saturn. You might want to look into Mars sq. Neptune as you have this DW. Moon/Venus DW and Moon conj. Moon is very nice. A lot of emotional understanding and fuzzy feelings.
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LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 633 From: New Jersey Registered: Jul 2014
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posted February 26, 2016 07:47 PM
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cultstatus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 27, 2016 07:30 AM
I'm the aquarius! IP: Logged |
cultstatus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Australia Registered: Nov 2014
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posted February 27, 2016 07:32 AM
Thanks for the info, on astro.com additional chart it says uranus opposite venus just over 6 degrees, not sure if that would be felt...IP: Logged |