posted February 15, 2016 04:58 AM            

Met these men like 10 years ago - i had an affair with one of them and i really got somehow obsessed- when i draw the line, he was devastated though and would try to get back in touch with me; the other guy was a kind of an admirer and really tried to take revenge when i rejected him. Nonetheless, we had a nice flirt and even today he is really into me.

So, guess. Who is the affair i got obsessed with and who cried after the split up and who is the vindinctive admirer/flirt who is still into me?

I am the cancer sun girl

Guy No 1

posted February 16, 2016 04:51 AM            

YESSSS, the first guy was the one i obsessed all over and the 2nd guy is the vindictive flirt

How did you know???

posted February 16, 2016 07:24 AM            

But the reasons for my pick were these:

° chart 1 was much more coherent
° chart 1 had his Moon on your ASC and possibly on the Sun/Venus-mp (maybe even conjunct your Sun and Venus - not sure about the orbs, but it looks symmetrical)
° Sun-Jupiter opposing Mercury-Jupiter looking quite nice to me, too, very idealistic
° Venus opposing Sun
° no aspects to his Pluto (which I would have expected with a vindictive guy), however your Pluto square his Mooon and possibly your Venus, Sun or ASC (not sure about orbs) can speak of obsessiveness
° at the same time however there was instability inbuilt with mars-uranus-opposition and Moon-uranus-opposition

chart 2
° much less coherent
° Venus-Uranus conjunction and also squaring Mercury-jupiter can be electric, stimulating, and indicative of an affair or exciting friendship, however it seems to have been an isolated aspect, no closed aspectconfiguration, so it is sort of floating somewhere (it`s his Venus, so he is the admirerer)
° your Moon is unaspected, he doesn`t quite touch you on that deeper emotional level
° your Sun is almost unaspected save for the sextile to Saturn - neither Sun nor Moon? not a good sign for someone getting you on a core level
° interestingly both Plutos unaspected, which I did not expect
° the fact that this is still ungoing and probably not finished with yet, is the fact that his Moon conjuncts your Saturn-NN. hard to break tie, even if he is not a partner-prospect for you (he might see it differently though).
° Lilith conjunct Lilith - could also be indicative of that fascination (and Lilith can be vindictive, too)

posted February 16, 2016 01:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
to be honest, I didn`t spend much time on it analyzing (like I usually do), just went with the first impression.

But the reasons for my pick were these:

° chart 1 was much more coherent
° chart 1 had his Moon on your ASC and possibly on the Sun/Venus-mp (maybe even conjunct your Sun and Venus - not sure about the orbs, but it looks symmetrical)
° Sun-Jupiter opposing Mercury-Jupiter looking quite nice to me, too, very idealistic
° Venus opposing Sun
° no aspects to his Pluto (which I would have expected with a vindictive guy), however your Pluto square his Mooon and possibly your Venus, Sun or ASC (not sure about orbs) can speak of obsessiveness
° at the same time however there was instability inbuilt with mars-uranus-opposition and Moon-uranus-opposition

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it was a (for me) HEARTBREAKENING affair well, and after 3 years of a real sh*tty up and down affair I suddenly would draw the line and that's it (moon in aries and mars in gem you know )
so, if you want to look at a composite of an affair without love, respect, loyalty, etc. look at this one:

posted February 16, 2016 01:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

chart 2
° much less coherent
° Venus-Uranus conjunction and also squaring Mercury-jupiter can be electric, stimulating, and indicative of an affair or exciting friendship, however it seems to have been an isolated aspect, no closed aspectconfiguration, so it is sort of floating somewhere (it`s his Venus, so he is the admirerer)
° your Moon is unaspected, he doesn`t quite touch you on that deeper emotional level
° your Sun is almost unaspected save for the sextile to Saturn - neither Sun nor Moon? not a good sign for someone getting you on a core level
° interestingly both Plutos unaspected, which I did not expect
° the fact that this is still ungoing and probably not finished with yet, is the fact that his Moon conjuncts your Saturn-NN. hard to break tie, even if he is not a partner-prospect for you (he might see it differently though).
° Lilith conjunct Lilith - could also be indicative of that fascination (and Lilith can be vindictive, too)

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Hihi You know what: when i first met him 10 years ago, i realized his existence when he was acting unfriendly during a business meeting. I was like "Isn't this the guy who smiled and tried to talk to me the first time he was here?!" Then i realized that i had met him before and I had been ignoring him all the time. My unaspected moon & sun were guilty.

when i would pay more attention to him, he would become like over the moon

i met him again last year and my friend was like "the attraction has not changed"

Did you notice:
1. my chart ruler moon is opposite his venus/sun mdp and venus/uranus mdp

2. my pluto/ic is conjunct his venus/mars mdp and moon/venus mdp