posted February 20, 2016 06:48 PM            

Lots of charts

Hi Mila, I saw your other post.

It's easy to see why you are attracted...you two have all four angles almost conjunct. I think that is the strongest attraction factor at work here.

Also, your Venus-Mars opposition forms a grand cross with his ASC-DSC axis.

He must be pretty attractive with all those planets in Scorpio. My friend is dating a Libra so heavy in Scorpio, it's hard to remember he's a Libra. His vibe is so Plutonian. And these people can really get a hold on other people. They become used to their power, over time...

And I think, honestly, sometimes they can be even complacent about it, as if they could have anyone they wanted. (?)

But with his Mars-Pluto forming a grand water trine with your sun and moon, of course you are going to be EXTRA affected.

The composite isn't bad but the Saturn square 8H Mercury could point to chronic communication issues, where the deeper things are not being said. And then, his Saturn is on your sun...it could feel like he is not perfectly happy with you as you are...leading to discomfort over time.

(If the synastry is good enough otherwise, Sun-Saturn is not so bad that it ought to be a dealbreaker, though.)

His Pluto-Mars squaring your Mercury could make you feel like you cannot actually say what you want.

I think his Libra sun conjunct Ceres makes him seem caring. Second decan Libra is the aloof "Aquarius" decan, and these people usually need a lot of time alone to recharge. As a Pisces sun, Cancer moon, you might be interested in spending more time with him than he wants to give.

His Gemini moon strives to keep things lighthearted. I think his Gemini moon and Libra Mercury appreciate all your Aqua energy...but there aren't close enough orbs to make a strong, strong impression. So, if this does work out, I can see why there was a slow beginning to it all.

I think if it weren't for the angle conjunctions and all his mesmerizing Scorpio energy you would have been over him by now though. Just a guess.

posted February 20, 2016 08:32 PM            

Yes, he is attractive. He reminds me Zac Efron ( not all the time but when he smiles yes yes yes and his eyebrows and I don't know what else haha but sometimes I feel like I'm with Zac Efron, it's crazy. I get confused ). I told him that, so he does some things on purpose (like smiling in a certain way like Zac) because he knows I can not resist to that! Agh.

I'm writing fast so I don't know if I express/write well. Sorry if I don't .

I think almost every person of my age has their Saturn conjunct my Sun . I have Sun conjunct Saturn. It's chasing me, lol.

I attract people with a lot of Scorpio/Pluto. Casually (?) today I posted this: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/018695.html .

"As a Pisces sun, Cancer moon, you might be interested in spending more time with him than he wants to give." Maybe, I'm not so sure. You'll see, I don't identify so much with Moon in Cancer and I still don't know why. I identify with Aquarius more or even with Leo but I'm not a typical Cancer moon.
There is something that caught my attention: my moon is in Cancer 3rd house and his moon is in Gemini 1rst house. Maybe that is not important, haha but that caught my attention.

I'm aware we don't have the most perfect Synastry and Composite Chart but at least we have Venus sextile Jupiter (?) lol or Moon trine Venus.

I still didn't text him back. He texted me "whats up" on Wednesday and yesterday "what's up, you are lost" (?) (or something like that) but I need to take time to myself. I feel like I need to spend some time alone at least till next week.

I was thinking that having Sun opposite Moon (Composite) and having Saturn involved (Synastry-Composite), it might be a little bit hard to get out of this relationship. But also it's weird? Because my Uranus is squaring his Venus. And well, my NN conj his Venus and my Ascendant opp his Venus.
What do you think? I hope you come back!

posted February 20, 2016 11:59 PM            

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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
Faith said it all. I have nothing of importance to add.

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posted February 21, 2016 10:28 AM            

I've never known what to make of NN conjunct Venus! It's one of the Great Mysteries to me. I had this with my college boyfriend, my Venus conjunct his NN. I guess, to whatever extent he could behave like his NN, I appreciated that....but he didn't behave like that much!

I just don't see that as binding yet...maybe in the future I will change my mind. For now I am neutral about it.

*Hope others will give an opinion*

I am getting pretty biased in favor of couples with at least one luminary-to-luminary aspect. Sun to moon, sun to sun, moon to moon. The orbs don't even have to be that tight.

I just think the compatibility is so much better, over the long haul, when there are contacts between them. Then you have some inborn mutual understanding, based on similarities. You don't have to rely so heavily on communication to explain everything.

One of my best friends is dating a guy she was head over heels in love with for a year. Their synastry and composite are both amazing. But neither their suns nor moons aspect each other at all. After the "honeymoon phase" wore off, they were left struggling to connect. A lot of times, what one person LOVES, the other person flat-out hates.

I'm starting to think, based on what I've seen and experienced, that a lack of sun-moon contact will break the relationship down over time.

Also while I'm sounding opinionated and grouchy, what's with your guy not wanting a relationship? Yet he texts you? I don't understand men these days They all seem to be like this!

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By looking at his chart, do you think he could think about me -almost- like I think about him? Or he is a "free guy" and that's it?

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His sun and moon both in air signs definitely suggest he is comfortable just playing the field and keeping it light. Your sun and moon in water signs will probably hold onto things longer.

With his Scorpio planets, I don't know how you are going to shake him off easily. To me that is the major draw here. Maybe with his Scorpio Venus he is capable of committing but from what I've seen these people are difficult to pin down...they like to reserve themselves for a time when they feel such overwhelming attraction and true love that they cannot help but commit.

Of course he might fall in love with you like that, because you are so lovely He might not be blind to that! So I don't mean to rule anything out.