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angel4845
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posted February 20, 2016 09:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 21, 2016 03:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well sweetie he is a very emotional guy, intense, maybe has a mood disorder such as bipolar but perhaps he is good at keeping that hidden from others. Possibly the moon in Taurus helps a bit keep the mood swings in check but I feel he would still struggle with depression.

He doesn't like change and is possessive in love. I imagine is very hard for him to forget and move on once he falls in love even though he might keep that hidden from others. He is very opinionated and attached to his ideas and way of thinking, perhaps pushy or preachy, thinking he knows best and knows it all specially with matters related to his profession. He could be a teacher, that would fit right in with him. Teaching would be a great outlet for that tsquare and his passion for research, knowledge as well as his emotional need to communicate what he knows to a group of people and make a living doing this.

Is there is something specific you are wondering about?

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posted February 21, 2016 03:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StubbornVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hypatia, are you online/available at the moment? I hate to post on someone else's thread, but I remembered that you work in mental health. There's a reply to the Venting thread on Sweet Peas that is a little worrisome...

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posted February 21, 2016 09:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@hypatia I also wanted to ask you i have some theories on my own about this aspect but want to know your opinion. What does AMOR square his 12th ruler saturn in the 12th house tell you?

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posted February 21, 2016 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Thanks Hypatia I appreciate your immediate thoughts on his natal. The thing that is weird though when you mention he is possessive in love is that he does not mention that ever in his relationships I mean this man sounds like a player and everyone gets that vibe from him. Talks to so many girls don't know if he sleeps with them but he is a musician has lots of people that like him favor him but I do have to say he is very insecure which you are right on he is really insecure. I forgot but he once said that he only wants casual romance not a serious one just someone to be there for him so im a bit surprised you would say he is possessive because he acts so mutable my friend. He even admits he is picky himself when dating and has not stayed in a relationship for too long he is 25 and is still single at the moment. He's very confusing how can you tell he is bi polar? that could be the reason why he messages me HERE AND THERE.


He is exploring and "playing the field" now in part bc he is young and probably wants to settle down in his early 30s so he has decided he is just going to have fun for now. Another reason is that he is afraid of his own intensity bc he knows that once he lets himself fall in love he will want to marry her and it will be a done deal for him. He is the type to only fall in love once and if it doesn't work out he will go back to playing the field and will stay single for the rest of his life so he is not in a rush to make such a life altering decision and will take his time looking for the one approaching it as a fun process and to some extent fearing finding her bc so much will be at stake once he finds her and lets himself fall in love. He is not the type to cheat once he is married so he also wants to get his curiosity out of his system. When he does marry he will be deeply in love and she will be his muse.

There is the possibility he will marry his art and never let himself take that huge risk of falling in love bc in his case the risk is bigger than most, more is at stake bc he feels more deeply. I feel though there is a chance he is in love with someone right now and by the time Transit Pluto conjuncts his Saturn will have his first heart break. I feel when Pluto activated his Yods by conjuncting his Neptune he might have met someone special perhaps she doesn't even know how he feels and they have this casual friends and lovers arrangement. Perhaps he is not fully aware of how much he cares for her and when Pluto conjuncts his Saturn she will cut things with him and he will realize how much she meant to him. Who knows? But him "playing the field" is a way to protect himself and an avoidance tactic or him trying to enjoy his youth before he decides to settle down while he takes his time finding her.

As for the bipolar comment, he might have a mood disorder that he keeps private but its possible he manages it well and uses his dedication to art as a coping skill keeping his mood disorder relatively stable.

Now why do you say he is a player? does he promise girls to be with them only and gets involve in a relationship and then cheats? Or is he honest and tells girls he is not looking for anything serious? bc if he is honest he is not playing anybody and the girls are playing themselves. He sounds like someone who does not want a relationship right now bc he understands himself and has told girls he is not looking for a relationship which to me that is not a player as he is been honest about what he is willing to offer at this point.

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posted February 21, 2016 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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He is exploring and "playing the field" now in part bc he is young and probably wants to settle down in his early 30s so he has decided he is just going to have fun for now. Another reason is that he is afraid of his own intensity bc he knows that once he lets himself fall in love he will want to marry her and it will be a done deal for him. He is the type to only fall in love once and if it doesn't work out he will go back to playing the field and will stay single for the rest of his life so he is not in a rush to make such a life altering decision and will take his time looking for the one approaching it as a fun process and to some extent fearing finding her bc so much will be at stake once he finds her and lets himself fall in love. He is not the type to cheat once he is married so he also wants to get his curiosity out of his system. When he does marry he will be deeply in love and she will be his muse.

There is the possibility he will marry his art and never let himself take that huge risk of falling in love bc in his case the risk is bigger than most, more is at stake bc he feels more deeply. I feel though there is a chance he is in love with someone right now and by the time Transit Pluto conjuncts his Saturn will have his first heart break. I feel when Pluto activated his Yods by conjuncting his Neptune he might have met someone special perhaps she doesn't even know how he feels and they have this casual friends and lovers arrangement. Perhaps he is not fully aware of how much he cares for her and when Pluto conjuncts his Saturn she will cut things with him and he will realize how much she meant to him. Who knows? But him "playing the field" is a way to protect himself and an avoidance tactic or him trying to enjoy his youth before he decides to settle down while he takes his time finding her.

As for the bipolar comment, he might have a mood disorder that he keeps private but its possible he manages it well and uses his dedication to art as a coping skill keeping his mood disorder relatively stable.

Now why do you say he is a player? does he promise girls to be with them only and gets involve in a relationship and then cheats? Or is he honest and tells girls he is not looking for anything serious? bc if he is honest he is not playing anybody and the girls are playing themselves. He sounds like someone who does not want a relationship right now bc he understands himself and has told girls he is not looking for a relationship which to me that is not a player as he is been honest about what he is willing to offer at this point.


why do i say he is a player? i have no idea hypatia those are just rumors i've heard going around my school to be honest and when i used to kinda Facebook stalk him back in 15' lots of girls responded to his comments in a very flirtatious way and has posted things pertaining to women being a "**** " which could explain (BML opposite his mars) that he does like his girls sexually liberated cause it seems that way with the stuff he posted on his Facebook. i don't know just everyone at my school says he's a player but i find no evidence yet to confirm that he is just a smooth talker and knows how to compliment someone real well i have to say from experience LOL....

thanks for clarifying the mood disorder and pointing out everything you mentioned it really resonates very much so. You actually started making me see the big picture now with his natal chart.

when you mentioned how he might be in love already with someone right now when transit pluto conjunct his neptune. well we actually met when T pluto was 1 degree away from his natal neptune. and when we met that is when he decided to pursue me and develop feelings for me but unfortunately i was very shocked with his intensity and approach to me that i denied the hang out and said i couldn't make it because i was with my someone at the time (i had not told this to him yet because of the shock) and was shocked that i had feelings for a man like him that i didn't even see myself having since 8 years ago (I'm bisexual which I'm sure you know by now). also his natal saturn is conjunct my natal sun exact. and both of our saturn and out sun is aspecting both of out solar/venus returns quite tremendously. which is why i had asked you about his natal saturn square his natal amor because my sun/union/boda is aspecting that.

T pluto at 11 degrees
his natal neptune 12 degrees

i' am quite obsessed with him because of his progressed pluto and BML/true lilith/dark moon lilith square/conjunct my sun/moon/venus. it really sucks. . i want to move on so bad but i can't i just have intense desires for him its not love its just an obsession i've created all by myself.

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Don't want to thread-jack, but hypatia, suicidal people don't always go ahead and do it -at least for me, it's been a pretty constant feeling over the past several years, I just haven't gone through with it.

I couldn't respond in the locked thread here, so I just wanted to find a place to post. Back to the regular thread.

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posted February 21, 2016 07:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well post your chart.

If you are bi why is it so surprising you are having feelings for a guy?

If you like him ask him to hang out since the last time he asked you to hang out you turned him down, then get to know him and take it from there. Be like "last time you asked me out I was in a relationship but now I am single and would like to hang out sometime and get to know you better."

If he turns you down then get on with your life but your moon in Aries hopped in and gave it a shot.

Its interesting he asked you out when transit Pluto activated both of his yods by conjuncting his neptune, pluto was pushing him out of his comfort zone telling him he was ready to take the plunge.

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posted February 21, 2016 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Well post your chart.

If you are bi why is it so surprising you are having feelings for a guy?

If you like him ask him to hang out since the last time he asked you to hang out you turned him down, then get to know him and take it from there. Be like "last time you asked me out I was in a relationship but now I am single and would like to hang out sometime and get to know you better."

If he turns you down then get on with your life but your moon in Aries hopped in and gave it a shot.

Its interesting he asked you out when transit Pluto activated both of his yods by conjuncting his neptune, pluto was pushing him out of his comfort zone telling him he was ready to take the plunge.


it was surprising to me because i thought i was a lesbian i was almost convinced i was done with men because of the way they treated me plus my father and my past with men in general. i was heartbroken by a man and since then i wanted to stop liking men for good and i do love women i always loved women don't get me wrong i've had at least 3 significant relationships with women who really taught me so much about what it is to be in a relationship. i promised i would not fall for a guy and i did, which is him and its been a year now and i still like him and he knows it. He also knows i' am still with my gf to this day and my gf knows that and she is okay with that. i try everyday to move on from him because i love my partner but sometimes s h i t happens.

i know you are going to tell me that i should get on and move on from him and that is exactly what I'm doing but i still think of him everyday. . i' m happy at least my partner understands this and how this has nothing to do with her.

i already did ask him to hang out but it was very spontaneous when i emailed him to hang out and he responded back right away telling me he had the flu and could not meet up but that he would want to meet up for sure "some other time". i don't know if he is lying but I'm not buying it. this happened 3 weeks ago.

ill post the synastry and the composite and tell me what you think.

if you want i can always give you some money since your doing me such a beautiful thing for me

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posted February 21, 2016 08:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
Don't want to thread-jack, but hypatia, suicidal people don't always go ahead and do it -at least for me, it's been a pretty constant feeling over the past several years, I just haven't gone through with it.

I couldn't respond in the locked thread here, so I just wanted to find a place to post. Back to the regular thread.


I definitely don't want to continue that thread here but will response in hopes to clarify what I was expressing.

I have had suicidal ideation in the past but never had intention to act on it or planned it. A lot of people when depressed have suicidal ideation but no intention at all to act on it and don't actually make plans and actually get the supplies needed to make it happen, just fleeting dark thoughts in moments of distress.

Research shows that MALES, NOT females like YOU and I, usually when they are serious about suicide they don't tell anyone and act on it and the suicide attempts are usually successful. With females they do tend to tell people and reach out somehow and their suicide attempts often are NOT successful so with females suicide attempts are often a cry for help.

Regardless based on his behavior I can tell he is not truly open to help online or offline and LL is not a place designed to help people who are having suicidal thoughts. He needs to call a suicide hotline and get linked to the right resources from there on, be humble, listen to others and try things even if he thinks they wont help, truly try the things suggested to him by professionals including taking some type of medication at least natural to help raise his serotonin levels which are clearly depleted and if he has psychotic symptoms natural medication will not suffice.

Hopefully this clarified what I meant for you but I don't want to derail this thread further and truly hope you learn to manage your own negative automatic intrusive thoughts better so you can achieve a more consistent positive mood in your life

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posted February 21, 2016 08:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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it was surprising to me because i thought i was a lesbian i was almost convinced i was done with men because of the way they treated me plus my father and my past with men in general. i was heartbroken by a man and since then i wanted to stop liking men for good and i do love women i always loved women don't get me wrong i've had at least 3 significant relationships with women who really taught me so much about what it is to be in a relationship. i promised i would not fall for a guy and i did, which is him and its been a year now and i still like him and he knows it. He also knows i' am still with my gf to this day and my gf knows that and she is okay with that. i try everyday to move on from him because i love my partner but sometimes s h i t happens.

i know you are going to tell me that i should get on and move on from him and that is exactly what I'm doing but i still think of him everyday. . i' m happy at least my partner understands this and how this has nothing to do with her.

i already did ask him to hang out but it was very spontaneous when i emailed him to hang out and he responded back right away telling me he had the flu and could not meet up but that he would want to meet up for sure "some other time". i don't know if he is lying but I'm not buying it. this happened 3 weeks ago.

ill post the synastry and the composite and tell me what you think.

if you want i can always give you some money since your doing me such a beautiful thing for me


Girl ! I am not a professional astrologer, I would never take your money and feel honored that you are asking for my opinion sweetie and will do my best to help.

Your girlfriend is great! Its so nice she is understanding about this, I like the bond you two have, that is real intimacy to be able to discuss such topics and show support like that. I am sorry to hear about your history with guys and your father and can understand you being bisexual that if its easier to be in a relationship with a female that you would stick to what works best for you and tend to gravitate to women more and that is ok, I totally get it.

So he knows you like him? are you sure? does he know you have a girlfriend?

(I will look at the charts probably later tonight. Walking dead is on in 15 minutes.)

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posted February 21, 2016 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 21, 2016 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tell me at what degree is your Jupiter? and at what degree is your Moon in Aries? Does your Moon sextile his Mars by 3d?

Does your lilith-MC sextile your Jupiter and his Moon?? bc if so your MC-Lilith completes a kite with that grand trine between Jupiter-Moon-Neptune.

His Jupiter conjuncts his DC so it forming a grand trine with your feminine planets moon and venus is very nice specially since Jupiter is disposited by his Sun which rules his DC.

You have his Mars opposite your Venus, that is great. I guess it would have been nice too to see some Sun-Moon aspects...

I think the composite is where I feel I am seeing more resistance from this taking off which I will talk more about later as it seems to show your inability to commit to him bc you are involved, I get the impression you would never leave your girlfriend and he must sense that as he is intuitive I am sure and upon close inspection not willing to invest in this. He took that plunge when Pluto conjuncted his Neptune and activated his yods but you didn't go for it now he is not feeling as brave and having second thoughts about going for it...

LOVE YOD:

His DC ruler is his Sun which conjuncts exact his Venus. His Sun-Venus inconjuncts your MOON which I think sextiles his Mars. This would mean that his DC ruler Sun-Venus is at the apex of a love yod with your Moon sextile his Mars so that would generate a lot of chemistry!

That love yod is like a volcano waiting to erupt and you just want it to erupt already specially with your moon in aries but he probably has reservations about that do to his intense nature and given you are involved, this is high risk to get involved with you, his moon in Taurus is more calculating and cautious than your moon in Aries that is ready to go (I feel you my mars rules my 5th). He tells you he is cool with you having a girlfriend but on some level it scares him bc lets be real he is not the type to be ok with sharing but as a guy he is probably thinking that is crazy to turn this down so he tells you he is cool with it but he really isn't, he would want you all to himself, not in love with anybody else. Just think about it DC in Leo, Moon in Taurus and Sun-Venus-Pluto in Scorpio! nothing about this says I am not possessive and ok with sharing! He would be the jealous type, remember Scorpios are good at hiding their feelings.

However, his chart ruler been Uranus and him having Mars in Gemini is that side of him that is cool with it and may go for it! Those two are in conflict with Sun-venus-pluto in Scorpio and Dc in Leo but since his DC is ruled by his Sun in Scorpio stellium the side that doesnt want to share will win ultimately.

Ofcourse you flirt like crazy around him with that Yod, your body probably does it automatically for you; you can't help it, there is heat in the air.

I had a similar yod like that with my ex and I kissed him the moment I saw him

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posted February 22, 2016 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Tell me at what degree is your Jupiter? and at what degree is your Moon in Aries? Does your Moon sextile his Mars by 3d?

Does your lilith-MC sextile your Jupiter and his Moon?? bc if so your MC-Lilith completes a kite with that grand trine between Jupiter-Moon-Neptune.

His Jupiter conjuncts his DC so it forming a grand trine with your feminine planets moon and venus is very nice specially since Jupiter is disposited by his Sun which rules his DC.

You have his Mars opposite your Venus, that is great. I guess it would have been nice too to see some Sun-Moon aspects...

I think the composite is where I feel I am seeing more resistance from this taking off which I will talk more about later as it seems to show your inability to commit to him bc you are involved, I get the impression you would never leave your girlfriend and he must sense that as he is intuitive I am sure and upon close inspection not willing to invest in this. He took that plunge when Pluto conjuncted his Neptune and activated his yods but you didn't go for it now he is not feeling as brave and having second thoughts about going for it...

LOVE YOD:

His DC ruler is his Sun which conjuncts exact his Venus. His Sun-Venus inconjuncts your MOON which I think sextiles his Mars. This would mean that his DC ruler Sun-Venus is at the apex of a love yod with your Moon sextile his Mars so that would generate a lot of chemistry!

That love yod is like a volcano waiting to erupt and you just want it to erupt already specially with your moon in aries but he probably has reservations about that do to his intense nature and given you are involved, this is high risk to get involved with you, his moon in Taurus is more calculating and cautious than your moon in Aries that is ready to go (I feel you my mars rules my 5th). He tells you he is cool with you having a girlfriend but on some level it scares him bc lets be real he is not the type to be ok with sharing but as a guy he is probably thinking that is crazy to turn this down so he tells you he is cool with it but he really isn't, he would want you all to himself, not in love with anybody else. Just think about it DC in Leo, Moon in Taurus and Sun-Venus-Pluto in Scorpio! nothing about this says I am not possessive and ok with sharing! He would be the jealous type, remember Scorpios are good at hiding their feelings.

However, his chart ruler been Uranus and him having Mars in Gemini is that side of him that is cool with it and may go for it! Those two are in conflict with Sun-venus-pluto in Scorpio and Dc in Leo but since his DC is ruled by his Sun in Scorpio stellium the side that doesnt want to share will win ultimately.

Ofcourse you flirt like crazy around him with that Yod, your body probably does it automatically for you; you can't help it, there is heat in the air.

I had a similar yod like that with my ex and I kissed him the moment I saw him


my jupiter is at 14 degrees virgo R in the 12th house. my moon in aries at 11 degrees it sextile his mars by 2 degrees applying. my lilith/mc does not sextile it, its TOO wide. no i really can't help to flirt with him especially over message god.... ;(. i had no idea i had a love yod with him with his sun venus at the apex jeeeeeeez that is crazy!! hahahah was the kiss amazing? LOL so i can imagine how it would be with him hahahah jkjk! god I'm going to research yod's in synastry.

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posted February 22, 2016 09:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well thanks for telling me that the composite is weaker then the synastry i could not figure out which one would be weaker LOL. also in the progressed composite we have a YOD, but progressed synastry/composites is another thing entirely...

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well thanks for telling me that the composite is weaker then the synastry i could not figure out which one would be weaker LOL. also in the progressed composite we have a YOD, but progressed synastry/composites is another thing entirely...


Well how is your progressed synastry or progressed to natal synastry? are there any Venus to Sun aspects or sun to moon aspects or AC/DC to moon aspects?

Those are important factors to have for some kind of relationship to take off.

Even with Mr.Aqua I belief we had P Venus square natal Sun so our timing was off for a relationship but we were lovers for a while and then he was forced to move to another state and we stayed as friends. Well we still keep in touch briefly online a few times a year.

Can you also post the Davison?

But ultimately I see from the composite that this relationship will not take off:

Your composite chart ruler is JUPITER in the 9th none the less squaring Venus in the 12th, sesquisquaring Juno-Neptune and inconjuncting Saturn! this screams a love that has to be kept hidden even though marriage is desired bc there are many obstacles preventing this relationship from turning into a committed relationship and ending in marriage even though that is what is desired as an outcome.

Jupiter rules your chart and it falls in the 9th and sesquisquare Juno, marriage is desired but Jupiter is also squaring Venus in the 12th and inconjuncting Saturn so the love is kept hidden and there are factors keeping this relationship from following its natural traditional course that will lead to marriage.

There is a lot working agaisnt this relationship becoming official and turning into a committed relationship. Based on the composite I can tell you that there is potential for a fling with Jupiter trining Moon in the 5th and squaring Venus in the 12th but it will never be more than that even though the desire for it be more is there as you also have the composite DC ruler conjuncting the AC.

I am thinking he picks up on all this at an instinctual level and is why he hesitates bc he knows he is taking a risk at getting hurt, he knows you two can only have a romantic fling.

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my jupiter is at 14 degrees virgo R in the 12th house. my moon in aries at 11 degrees it sextile his mars by 2 degrees applying. my lilith/mc does not sextile it, its TOO wide. no i really can't help to flirt with him especially over message god.... ;(. i had no idea i had a love yod with him with his sun venus at the apex jeeeeeeez that is crazy!! hahahah was the kiss amazing? LOL so i can imagine how it would be with him hahahah jkjk! god I'm going to research yod's in synastry.


Well according to my best friend we kissed for 2 hours, yeah it was very nice like out of a movie. I guess reuniting with a soulmate you probably haven't seen in 1000s of years is very exciting stuff.

I want to be clear though, I don't think your composite is WEAK at all! The chart ruler trining moon in the 5th and squaring Venus shows that there are some nice feelings there. All I am saying is that there is a lot of challenges and sacrifices that will need to be overcome for you two to be together.

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posted February 22, 2016 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Well how is your progressed synastry or progressed to natal synastry? are there any Venus to Sun aspects or sun to moon aspects or AC/DC to moon aspects?

Those are important factors to have for some kind of relationship to take off.

Even with Mr.Aqua I belief we had P Venus square natal Sun so our timing was off for a relationship but we were lovers for a while and then he was forced to move to another state and we stayed as friends. Well we still keep in touch briefly online a few times a year.

Can you also post the Davison?

But ultimately I see from the composite that this relationship will not take off:

Your composite chart ruler is JUPITER in the 9th none the less squaring Venus in the 12th, sesquisquaring Juno-Neptune and inconjuncting Saturn! this screams a love that has to be kept hidden even though marriage is desired bc there are many obstacles preventing this relationship from turning into a committed relationship and ending in marriage even though that is what is desired as an outcome.

Jupiter rules your chart and it falls in the 9th and sesquisquare Juno, marriage is desired but Jupiter is also squaring Venus in the 12th and inconjuncting Saturn so the love is kept hidden and there are factors keeping this relationship from following its natural traditional course that will lead to marriage.

There is a lot working agaisnt this relationship becoming official and turning into a committed relationship. Based on the composite I can tell you that there is potential for a fling with Jupiter trining Moon in the 5th and squaring Venus in the 12th but it will never be more than that even though the desire for it be more is there as you also have the composite DC ruler conjuncting the AC.

I am thinking he picks up on all this at an instinctual level and is why he hesitates bc he knows he is taking a risk at getting hurt, he knows you two can only have a romantic fling.


Yes I totally understand where your going with the composite. I too see the composite as something very weak it's a total blow and it's unfortunate. I know where you going with it I see the flaws in it too and the potential to be very weak but I think we also need to see transits as well and potential triggers as well when you were mentioning the progressed SYNASTRY and progressed composite. But ultimately my gut tells me "who knows..." Lol. But your analysis man im WITH you on that really everything you pointed out made me rethink my connection with him if it's even worth it you know?

Yes I will post the Davison and have you look at it my friend and I'll give post our progressed charts and my natal so you can take a peak.

and yes i agree i always felt he was and is picking up on all of this on an instinctual level even though he is not admitting and communicating about it with me.
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Well according to my best friend we kissed for 2 hours, yeah it was very nice like out of a movie. I guess reuniting with a soulmate you probably haven't seen in 1000s of years is very exciting stuff.

I want to be clear though, I don't think your composite is WEAK at all! The chart ruler trining moon in the 5th and squaring Venus shows that there are some nice feelings there. All I am saying is that there is a lot of challenges and sacrifices that will need to be overcome for you two to be together.


No itd okay Hypatia!! It is WEAK I mean man when I first pulled up the composite I was so disapointed man ughhhh but yes there is lovely romance with the 8 ruler being in the 5th and Mars the 5th ruler being in the 4th house it's honestly sweet and the vertex siting in the 7th house just gives me hope man! Hahahha! But yes I mean we did meet at school which is why we've got strong sag/jupiter in the home of the 9th house and we both LOVE world music hahaha! And he's into politics and law like me omg this relaionship just sits well with my venus in sag but again im with you on that!

Omg that's so sweet two hours omg that's probably how it would be with me and him ....Awwww!!! LOL. That's awesome! Such a lovely moment

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