posted February 29, 2016 08:32 PM            

We broke up two weeks ago but I miss him so much and I want to make contact with him once again so maybe we could try to "reset" our relationship and give love a new try, but I don't know...I'm afraid of his rejection to be honest, and I'm wondering if the risk is worth taking. Before the break up he told me he would be leaving for france (cause he's french) and it gives me anxiety, cause it would mean that probably I'll never see him again, I feel like we still have issues to solve tho, I feel this relationship is a bit karmic too.
I'd like to know your opinions on this.
(I'm the outside)

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posted March 01, 2016 06:03 PM            

the composite shows the venus/mars midpoint square to the nodal axis. this shows the emotional/physical attraction between you.this is a steady and constant attraction.
with venus opposed to amore. you certainly feel head over heels for him. but the pluto/venus midpoint is conjunct mars which shows he was much more interested in the physical aspects of the relationship rather than the spiritual/karmic aspe4ct as you are.
with sun conjunct Uranus and eros gives this relationship the intensity nd "magical/karmic" feel to the relationship.
but sun /Uranus conjunctions do not translate into steady relationship very often. the intense attraction of this pattern fades once the unique quality of the relationship wears off.in this case Saturn is also part of the sun stellium. Saturn is opposite in nature to Saturn and when the two are together ,it signifies push and pull ,off and on with nor long-term stability.
with juno opposed to the moon,you possibly felt a serious relationship was possible . but with Neptune and mercury conjunct juno, these idea/feelings were purely dreams.
with Saturn opposed to chiron, he actually had a cold and distant heart at times. this aspect is very domineering and reinforces the feeling that it was never more than physical hookup for him.

posted March 02, 2016 05:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Marandana:
Thank you todd, it is pretty accurate, it was totally a pull and push relationship, sadly we had only short periods of stability throughout the relationship we were always fighting and such, but indeed there was attraction. So practically it was a kind of one-sided love?

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well if you want to try to categorize it in that manner i'd say it was more passive aggressive. juno conjunct neptune and mercury can show personal agendas, hidden or not fully disclosed.the Saturn/Uranus dynamic is more direct and abrupt. i would think that you likely had higher dreams/potentialities than him for the relationship . though unspoken he had to continually impress his attitude of independence emotionally on you.

rahu

todd