posted March 06, 2016 09:41 AM            

I have an exact Pluto conjunct Moon with an ex (I'm the Moon) and a wide Pluto conjunct Moon with him being the Moon.

Ever since we met (back in 2005), I cannot get him out of my system.

Fast forward to 2013--I completely stopped talking to him...he's moved on and got married.

It's been 3 years--and he passes through my mind several times a week if not more.

Is this what Pluto/Moon does to a person? Is this happening to him--or do I as the Moon, have this ailment?

posted March 06, 2016 12:29 PM            

Yes, Moon Pluto aspect is very hard to let go.
I once had a mere sextille and ot was difficilt to let go let alone a conjunction.
My current rltshp has a Moon Pluto conjunction ( im the pluto) and we cant split even thou we tried multiple times. It seems it's harder for the Moon.

posted March 06, 2016 01:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
What other aspects do you have in your synasty?
Any angles or Nodes or Satirn strong aspects?

Yes, Moon Pluto aspect is very hard to let go.
I once had a mere sextille and ot was difficilt to let go let alone a conjunction.
My current rltshp has a Moon Pluto conjunction ( im the pluto) and we cant split even thou we tried multiple times. It seems it's harder for the Moon.

I dont know what's the cure for cutting the cord of Moon- Pluto.

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Hi Orange--see below. I don't know if I have his birth time right, I think I do, but I started studying astrology charts after I stopped talking to him, so I was never able to confirm.

And wow, I just noticed we have a strong Pluto/Venus Quintile, him being Venus...he was pretty obsessed with me--would get jealous, but in his Scorpio way, never tell me (until years later).

Also Orange--were you the Moon or Pluto in your relationship?

posted March 07, 2016 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Gracha:
I'm pluto and he's moon in the conjunction of libra (he also has it natal) and we also have a trine between the two, so dw and it's so hard to let him go even though I love him very much. I've tried breaking up a few times and he refused to acknowledge it. Everything is so intense we also have strong saturn contacts. The first man I can truly say I'm in love with because I never wanted to fall in love but it happened. We are currently planning our lives together and I'm just starting to feel comfortable accepting his brand of love.

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For you as the Pluto--did this happen to you instantly or over time?

posted March 08, 2016 01:55 PM            

Going through break up right now. This time I am the pluto, he is the moon. I feel okay. Upset but not crushed. I know it won't last long. I know I am stronger than this guy.

posted March 10, 2016 03:37 AM            

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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
For you as the Pluto--did this happen to you instantly or over time?

I say this because I'm in a work situation where we have 4 orb conjunction--I'm the Moon. I don't think he is obsessed (he's also a Scoprio so maybe he hides it). Is 4 orb considered significant? I feel the obsession--but it has grown on me over the last 6 months.

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From the moment I first met him I was blown away, piercing deep attraction first man I've been with where I'm majorly attracted to him not just physically but on such a deep level it's indescribable, but to come to terms with loving him and actually embracing it took months he's a trooper because he refused to give up. I'm secretly a little obsessed with him and he doesn't know it but the passion explodes in the bedroom. I think about him so much but I rarely verbalize it I tend to let my actions show when we are together how much I love him.

posted March 10, 2016 03:48 AM            

in my experience there's no rule. Sometimes the moon resp venus Person is more obsessed, sometimes it's Pluto.

posted March 10, 2016 04:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
oh, the notorious moon/Pluto venus/Pluto Connections

in my experience there's no rule. Sometimes the moon resp venus Person is more obsessed, sometimes it's Pluto.

It's a very generational aspect. The planet Person is used to that energy. My venus is square the Pluto of a Generation and my moon is opposite the Pluto of another Generation. No one gets really obsessed here. i think it depends on the natal + synastry to determine who and why someone is obsessed. But i do agree that a moon/venus Pluto aspect can increase the potential for Obsession tremendously

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posted March 10, 2016 06:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Gracha:
It's not just a generational aspect because we are not having a relationship with every person from that generation. To just write it off and say it's because of this and that is too one dimensional, people are way more deep and more complicated. I personally believe moon with pluto to be the deeper connection lets say between venus/pluto. This is coming from a venus opposite pluto woman. I prefer moon pluto over venus pluto any day.

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i think you didn't get my Point. of Course i am not in a relationship with every single member of Generations but nonetheless i think that you really Need to look at other factors if you want to determine why you can't Forget one and so on

since i am often the venus resp the moon Person, i know what i am talking about, i know how it's like if Generations closely aspect your venus n moon with their pluto

I had several Dates with guys who had their Pluto opposite my moon. Sometimes i was more obsessed, sometimes it was him. I had to take a deeper look at the synastries to nail down the reasons for our attraction/Obsession

posted March 10, 2016 08:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Gracha:
From the moment I first met him I was blown away, piercing deep attraction first man I've been with where I'm majorly attracted to him not just physically but on such a deep level it's indescribable, but to come to terms with loving him and actually embracing it took months he's a trooper because he refused to give up. I'm secretly a little obsessed with him and he doesn't know it but the passion explodes in the bedroom. I think about him so much but I rarely verbalize it I tend to let my actions show when we are together how much I love him.

I don't believe 4 orbs is too wide. Him being a scorpio I'd assume he's used to the energy but also like you mentioned he could be secretive about the feelings because I am still for the most part secretive to my guy about some feelings but as time goes on I'm opening up more. Your work mate do you two have a close relationship?

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