posted May 17, 2009 11:21 PM            

Some of the descriptions I read suggest that with this aspect the Moon person doesn't appreciate the ideas and mentality of Mercury. Mercury feels misinterpreted and misunderstood while others indicate that Mercury tends to see things in a more logical and detached way, acting in an insensitive way which leads to the Moon person feeling misunderstood.

posted May 18, 2009 05:04 AM            

i want to tell the person that i really like them, but after reading about this aspect, it knocked some confidence down about how to tell them, or if my way of telling them would just not 'connect' with them.

any tips?

posted May 18, 2009 06:54 AM              

Our moons are exactly trine and emotionally we aint on the same level!

His sun is sextile my sun im water hes earth and we dont stick!

My venus in leo his is in aries and they dont match!

My mercury is sextile his sun

My sun mars and mercury are all in his first house but we are so different. We dont think alike and we act very different.

Those apects dont mean nothing!

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•Mars• Cancer
•Mercury• Cancer
•Venus• Leo

posted March 09, 2016 03:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Writesomething:
Moon feels overly sensitive of mercury's way of communicating. I know with Moon conj mercury, mercury communicates in a way that makes it easy for the Moon to feel emotionally comfortable and open in conversations so I think it would have the opposite reaction with the square/oppositions.

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This is so true. Capricorn Moon/Sun and Asc signs that I know who have the said positions conjunct my Mercury, tend to feel that I understand them best. No joke

With the square, it can lead to certain alienation of someone feelings. Or the frustration of communication channels remaining open.

Both parties can feel(at most times), that they are not being "heard" or understood by the other.

But even with the square, there are certain other positions that may help to modify the tension.

Aries Moon squares my Mercury in Cap. But my Aries Asc gravitates Aries to me-because on some level they do feel that I "get" them. Even despite Mercury.

Libra Moon(also squaring Mercury) usually conjuncts my Mars. So there is usually a strong mutual rapport of understanding where they are coming from too.

posted March 09, 2016 06:24 AM            

I can't express my feelings to him. This aspect plays out A LOT. Yesterday he was telling me how his day was, and i had a reason for this so i got jealous (He didn't betray me, bc if he ever do that i'll make him blind). But i was quiet all the time, when i started talking it was impossible to hide. He makes me feel ashamed of feeling jealous. I had to hang up on him. He offends me a lot. I despise the way he thinks sometimes. Too cold(Libra Moon). And he asked me once "Why are you being so emotional about the things i say?" -_-

If i break up with him one day i'll NEVER want to date someone who squares my Moon again, i'm serious. It's a waste of time and i lose a lot of self esteem and confidence.

posted March 09, 2016 08:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Nyctea:
I have this aspect. It's the worst of all aspects to have in synastry. He's a Leo Mercury and i'm a Taurus Moon. By degrees it's a very tight aspect.

[b]I can't express my feelings to him. This aspect plays out A LOT. Yesterday he was telling me how his day was, and i had a reason for this so i got jealous (He didn't betray me, bc if he ever do that i'll make him blind). But i was quiet all the time, when i started talking it was impossible to hide. He makes me feel ashamed of feeling jealous. I had to hang up on him. He offends me a lot. I despise the way he thinks sometimes. Too cold(Libra Moon). And he asked me once "Why are you being so emotional about the things i say?" -_-

If i break up with him one day i'll NEVER want to date someone who squares my Moon again, i'm serious. It's a waste of time and i lose a lot of self esteem and confidence.

***NOTE: Maybe it can work with people who are mature. But i wouldn't advise that anyway. (edit: We have supportive aspects too but this one requires a huge effort)[/B]

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I have the same placements as him. We hate it when our partners are jealous and want to argue all day about it.

We arent cold people in general (in fact quite the opposite) but have little patience for jealousy, controlling people, and being manipulated.....and then we will get cold on you, real fast.

Dramatic emotional displays with the intent to manipulate a situation makes us turn into glaciers, too.

posted March 09, 2016 10:02 AM            

We did end up talking about it and it's because he grew up with a parent being a pastor (heavy stuff for an atheist), so he felt he was always being fed BS disguised as truth. He has Merc in the 4th so I guess he communicates straight from his upbringing.

posted March 09, 2016 07:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
Ugh, I have this aspect with my dad, not to mention it forms a T-Square since I have Moon Opposite Pluto natally. His Mercury is also conjunct Venus by an orb of 2 degrees, which does the same thing to my Moon and Pluto X(

He tries to make jokes constantly about the things I do and I just don't find them funny. I (the Moon and Pluto), constantly find that when he talks to me about issues present in a relationship, he has terrible communication skills. He uses all the wrong sorts of vocabulary and it feels as if he's being condescending when that may not be his intention. It just feels as if he communicates things poorly.

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posted March 09, 2016 08:59 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Do you guys have any Jupiter aspects?

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