posted March 11, 2016 11:38 AM            

Sorry but I don't think anyone can or should tell you if it's worth continuing even if you post 100 charts. We hardly know anything about your actual relationship and your connection is fresh. You have to decide whether you can take this risk or not.

What do you suspect to be behind your issue? Your 2nd house overlays and contacts to these planets? It's possible. Could he be more careless with money than you with his Uranus in the 2nd? With your Saturn and Pluto (square his Jupiter) in his 2nd I can see you try to "correct" him.

Those t-squares in your midpoint charts...ouch.

posted March 11, 2016 12:01 PM            

Truly though, the first few months of any relationship should be the best with little snags. Snippiness and arguments will always be present the further a relationship progresses, but when they occur so early on it's typically symbolic of some incompatibility that will make itself more known with time.

You shouldn't hang on to a relationship just because you hate dating.. who doesn't hate dating?! It sucks. But if you force yourself to dredge on with this, you could be missing out on someone way more compatible with you just simply because of fear.

posted March 11, 2016 12:02 PM            

*gets back in the role*

posted March 11, 2016 12:38 PM            

I saw your charts only shortly, and have not memorized them, but you didn`t want us to anyway.
From what I remember there were some very romantic sweet and passionate aspects.
Obviously you hit a rough patch right now, I don`t know how serious that issue is, but it could also be a chance to have it come up so early in your relationship, so you can figure out right away if that is a deal-breaker for you or something that can be worked on.
It depends a little how important that issue is for either of you and how it weighs against the other sides of your relationship.
I would advise though to not make a hasty or impulsive decision (we are still in the aftermath of the solar ecclipse, a Super Moon this time, and things do seem just so much more dramatic and bigger and major at these junctures in time. Usually it is best to give it some time and then readdress those issues and see if they stay as big and major or maybe have gotten miraculously smaller, which I often experienced myself, not sure if it is the sam efor you).

posted March 12, 2016 04:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
I hope you didn't backtrack because of me. I'm not happy to have been right in this case, really.

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posted March 12, 2016 04:26 AM            

It was an ugly fight. We both thought about ending the relationship. Indeed, it seemed very dramatic at the time. Some hurtful things were said. I have to remember this relationship is very Moon-centered (4 Bear hugs involving the Moon, Moon apex of our composite/Davison T-squares) and a lot of sensitivity is required. I said some hurtful things. He did too. It's one of those relationships that itches old wounds.