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next to neptune
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posted March 27, 2016 06:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sometimes I think that your own personal natal chart speaks more about if you're ready for longterm commitment, than your synastry chart with someone:P

1st thing too look after: If your venus has no harsh contact to uranus, this is usually a good sign that you are more steady in a relationship

2nd thing would be to see what else your uranus is doing. If it's not touching your moon, mars or sun there is a better chance that you're more "traditional" according to relationships. I think trines and sextiles is always better than the opposition and square, but I still think that just the slightest connection between uranus and personal planets makes your a bit more original (for good or worse) at least it makes you prioritise your freedom, and it' urgent to find a partner who feels the same probably...

3rd thing would be to look at venus-jupiter connections. These aspects makes you a light-hearted company, a smiling and fun person that people loves to hang out with. The square and opposition still makes you a nice company probably, but much more of a tease. It usually means that you might be able to keep your partner for long periodes, but you often switch to a new one at some point.

4th thing would be to look for uranus, neptune, saturn, perhaps pluto and mars in the 7th house. The dilemma about having a bunch of 7th house placement is that it overall means a person that just wants to be in a relationship with others, but if you for an example have uranus in the 7th house, it makes you very non-traditional in this area. Not that its bad, but you probably get bored with "normal" relationships in the end

5th thing would be to look at the scorpio/taurus/cancer/capricorn influence. People with these signs on their personal planets is more often in longterm relationships than for an example flighty signs as gemini/aquarius/sagittarius. Libra is an exception though, cause they are the ruler of partnerships... libra people is often likely to be in relationships in general

6th thing would be to look for moon/venus aspect and venus/mars. These aspect gives you a whole lot of charisma and charm for the opposite sex, so if a person got these aspects and is very popular with the opposite sex, chances are they got enough with themselves and all their opposite-sex friends to truly want to be married for an example:P (this is just my experience)

Did I forget something, or do you disagree? Please comment !

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comdoc
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posted March 27, 2016 09:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Of all these, I have Venus sextile Leo Mars rising. Powerful sexuality. Aquarius on 7th, with powerful Uranus conj 11th cusp. Intimate relationships have not been traditional!

Taurus NN/MC and Scorpio SN/IC. Quite willing to commit longterm.

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angel4845
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posted March 27, 2016 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree. I know someone whose got moon CONJUNCT uranus and it's been hard for her to stay in committed relationships. I have moon in the 7th house square 5th ruler uranus and I do get bored and I am detached but in a way it can be hard for me to adjust to this because it's the square plus im a libra rising so I always need to find partnerships. I notice that I attract long distance relationships.
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Addicted to Self Relfection - Jupiter R in the 12th House

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Nyctea
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posted March 28, 2016 01:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nyctea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon square Uranus. Venus conjunct Uranus. My Venus is retrograde. 5th house Sagittarius with Pluto and Mercury there. A lot of planets in the 7th house but Uranus is also there. I also have Sun parallel Mercury.

I get bored super easily.

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LaGioconda
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posted March 28, 2016 02:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaGioconda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have them all.

Uranus conjunct Sun,Venus,Mars
Venus/Jupiter
Venus/Mars
Venus/Moon
Pluto in 7th

Buuut... They are in capricorn/scorp (except for moon in sag)

Soo.. I am very independent and need my freedom and me-time but I am also very loyal.. I like commitment but I don't need to see a person 24/7..
Do you know these people who jump from relationship to relationship only because they hate being single? Well, I am the opposite The person needs to be verrrrry special to make me want to share my precious time.

Therefore, I think that your list is quite accurate

Love

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