posted March 29, 2016 11:41 AM            

How do you think an exact conjunction to the IC but from the 3rd house would differ?

posted March 29, 2016 11:52 AM            

But I'm actually interested in the aspect you mentioned so feel free to shed some light on it.

posted March 29, 2016 01:38 PM            

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Have not yet made up my mind about this

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posted March 29, 2016 01:43 PM            

I have Neptune close to ic in comp in 4th house. NN and Juno are also there, so I think its a very sensitive part of the chart for us.

I believe I may have written about this placement once before...we both have our own homes and commitment to our family members, but I think often about sharing a home with him. I dont know if that will come with time once my kids at older, but I still think about it, which is a big deal for an independent gal like me. I'm also a cancer rising so my home is very important to me.

posted March 29, 2016 01:48 PM            

they probably favour the near midpoint of the MC-positions and whichever ASC fits that, they use.

Actually yes, thinking about that all axis can be switched like this, as we are dealing with a midpoint axis.
The question is how much of a difference is between near and far midpoint? Is there any?

I had once a composite reading done (computerized) and that program only mentioned the planets in the axis "5/11" or something like, it did not differentiate at all between 5th or 11th house.

posted March 29, 2016 02:15 PM            

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Same is true for Neptune`s brothers, too. They need strong personal aspects to balance them.

posted March 29, 2016 02:20 PM            

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I think it may help tap into a more spiritual place within the relationship.

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They need strong personal aspects to balance them.

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posted March 29, 2016 02:22 PM            

As for composite, a Neptune on IC with some harmonious aspects would be good, maybe even a trine or sextile to Saturn.

Some nice personal interaction Sun/Moon/Venus to each other or to Jupiter/Saturn/mercury/Mars could be helpful, too.

posted March 29, 2016 03:07 PM            

Pluto in composite forms a T-Square with Venus and Sun/Mercury. It's a grand cross if you count the nodes, and definitely Sun/Mercury/Venus complete a natal grand cross for him who has Mercury/Mars at 4 and 7 Taurus and Saturn/Vertex at 2 and 4 Scorpio.

My natal Pluto is at 13 Scorpio along comp MC/IC,
and is my chart ruler. It is square by MC/IC and his also. His natal Pluto is conjunct my Ascendant and his own Saturn, parallel my Venus and contraparallel his own Moon.

Obviously our relationship is characterized by constant upheaval and a huge amount of power... this aspect seems to generate a lot of upheaval and discomfort, intense profundity, issues of control/domination and... perhaps... the potential for deep karmic healing and cleansing of old patterns and demons to take place. I know this sounds very run of the mill and blasé as a description lol. But it's true that Pluto-South Node is... intense... combined with an angle it's obviously kinda next level intense. I think it does require a lot of other stabilizing aspects, emotional compatibility, love and care, as well as a loooot of maturity being constantly applied by both people. As with any Plutonian interaction; "with great power comes great responsibility!" It is sooo easy for things to go off the rails but a relationship like this can be transformative and healing (says me the Plutonian)--it really can. (Repeat, repeat )

posted March 29, 2016 03:29 PM            

I feel a little left out as I cannot offer an outer planet at the IC
Only Eros-Priapus, which is the Apex of a Yod to the exact Neptune-Pluto-sextile, with Uranus on the Neptune-Pluto-midpoint sitting on the MC and from there opposing Eros-Priapus-(Dionysos - yeah we needed ONE more of those asteroids down there, right? ).

But I guess Auntie will tell me it does not count for anything.

posted March 29, 2016 05:11 PM            

I would say that Neptune exactly on our IC makes us comfortable with the idea of coming together when we want to get away from everyday life and experience unconditional love. We understand each other but when we have our fights, we're always there for one another. I think Saturn helps us ground ourself so that we're not up in the sky for too long neglecting our responsibilities. I get the impression that we won't settle down into a physical home on earth, that we have to be happy with what we have spiritually. In the thread about long term relationships/marriages, I think Faith was right on the money about our IC. I feel Uranus more in the 3rd house. Our communication is sporadic. We don't talk everyday but when we do, it's through technology since we're long distance.

We have Sun/Venus conjunct ASC so it may help with the squares from the generational planets on the IC.

posted March 29, 2016 05:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
Being able to be oneself = pricess...

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posted March 29, 2016 05:28 PM            

And typo? There was a typo?
I guess I must have breathed in your words so quickly I did not even notice. lol