posted March 29, 2016 11:38 PM            

I know how that can be, feeling like you are getting the brunt of the other person's unaspected planet. Unaspected moon seems to be especially needy in wynastry, and sometimes unnervingly devoted... I'm not surprised you feel something missing as you're not resonating in a big pronounced way with his essential emotional being even though it's calling out to you... wonder about midpoints to his Moon though and also you do have some nice trines by sign to it... still.

posted March 29, 2016 11:42 PM            

Exactly opposed Lunar Phases. MY gosh.. attraction and completion to the core. With that his Moon is vasya to yours, he'll go through the fire for you, as a matter of speaking.

^ those 2 aspects are the first things I look for in synastry. And BOTH are there. I don't expect much more to see then. IF 'unaspected planets' have its influence (which I don't even think the more I start seeing astrology from a phase perspective) then those opposing lunar phases perfectly make up for a 'lack of aspect'. That is my take.

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Hell, if he isn't the one, then what the hell am I looking for??

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Maybe an actualization and with that an awareness of a "the grass is Always greener on the other side" thingie? After all you can't shake off the feeling he's not "the one". But another voice completely convinced he IS.

posted March 29, 2016 11:50 PM            

And yet I've yet to see Juno-NN contacts in synastry meaning life long partnership.

The person I dated longest I had Juno-NN with.. his Juno on my NN... i left him after 3.5 years because somebody more exciting came along. Straight up--I wasn't especially unhappy but I wasn't head over heels by any stretch. Yet looking back that was a good thing and leaving him took my life in such a crazy other direction--I don't regret anything but life sure would have evolved in a more stable way if I'd stayed with him and I sometimes can't help but wonder, you know? It's strange the ways it's similar.

posted March 30, 2016 12:07 AM            

The orb for pr. Synastry should be tight, 3 degrees but 1 degree is best... so the Sun-Moon happened a while ago

posted March 30, 2016 12:11 AM            

Just like me!!

posted March 30, 2016 12:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:

The desire for true love

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posted March 30, 2016 12:17 AM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Yo Orange, MY Venus is at 17 Libra too! This Uranus Pluto stuff is crazy!!!

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posted March 30, 2016 12:22 AM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:

Yikes! Is that what this has been?? My God it sort of makes sense now. Orange and I are also going through major nodal (Pisces/Virgo) transits right now too! Funnily enough for a couple of months I was obsessed with this Aries Sun/Aries Moon guy so it's so perfect you found your soulmate in that sign girlie!

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My Nodal transits is coming up...the Nodes will cross over my ASC/DSC in Pisces/Virgo. And over my Aries DSC/ASC at Virgo/Pisces ( we have them conjunct and reversed). The Nodes will transit them in a couple of months.

posted March 30, 2016 12:50 AM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
He doesn't really try to understand me. He doesn't take an acute interest in my art or writings. He doesn't want to comb through my mind with fascination. He's very content with the social currency I provide him as his girlfriend in society - younger, decent looking. It's something I intuit all the time. I guess it does bother me.. then I tell myself, don't the perks outweigh the negatives? I always come back to this thought at the end of it..

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No Mercury-Mercury aspect. Hmmm

And Mercury rules your ASC, it's the chart ruler, so it's intrinsic to how you present yourself to the world.

Your Mercury doesn't receive any positive aspects from him...the conjunction to his Chiron looks potentially over-sensitive, as if you can trigger something with your words?

But with his sun-Neptune and Pisces moon, he may not be interested in "normal" communication...or maybe he'd rather just make a student out of you than listen?

Your sun isn't strongly aspected here so that is kinda left out, too.

It's easy to see the "swiss cheeseness" of this picture, despite the many positive things.

If you presented this as a "What do you think? are we compatible?" thread, I think a lot of us would have said "sort of!"

I like to see aspects between the luminaries. Your moon sextile his sun is good, if that's a tight orb, but it's just comfortable, not huge.

I like the composite but it is pretty confusing. A little structure, a little excitement, but not a clear & strong theme.