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Topic: Men and their Mars and Venus
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CapriciousCapricorn
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Registered: Sep 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 09:21 AM
  
I am a Pisces Mars and Aquarius Venus girl. Which guy would be more like a male version of me: 1) Aquarius Mars and Pisces Venus (reversal due to gender difference) or 2) Aquarius Venus and Pisces Mars (we are all humans = the same)?I am interested not so much in personality but more in the way the person is going to behave similar to the way I behave in love relationships. How they love, how they display affection, how they court, their type etc. I want to concentrate on Venus and Mars placements alone. Obviously the whole chart (houses, signs, aspects) needs to be taken into account but that would be the next step. I have a mixed opinion on this. Men come from Mars and women come from Venus so that's our respective planets that describe our attitudes to love. Guys choose girls with the help of their Venus and the rest they do with Mars. But on the other hand, Venus in natal chart is the planet that shows how we All love, not just women. Still, women are more in touch with their Venus than men so again Mars wins for men, even in love. Yeah..I am on the fence about this. How do You evaluate your romantic interest's chart for example? What do you use? I would like to hear your opinion. Thank you IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz
Knowflake Posts: 589
From: Lititz, PA, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 31, 2016 02:09 PM
It's tricky having an air/water mixture for your mars and venus. I have libra mars and scorpio venus (I'm a guy). From my experience, I've seen positive Mars-Mars contacts and positive Venus-Venus contacts work better than Mars-Venus. At least for long term. I would put more value in good Mars-Moon contacts than Mars-Venus, but that's just me. I admire people with Venus in Aquarius, but I'm not sure I can be in a relationship with them. Just too distant/aloof for my liking. Someone with Venus in Pisces might feel the same way. IP: Logged |
comdoc
Knowflake Posts: 392
From: Tucson
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 03:24 PM
I use her whole chart, then synastry, and composite chart. My natal Leo Mars rising and Gemini Venus 10H. I love Leo Venus. Best romantic prospects have Mars in Leo, Aqua, Gemini, and Cap (+ my 10H Venus?). quote:
Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
I am interested not so much in personality but more in the way the person is going to behave similar to the way I behave in love relationships. How they love, how they display affection, how they court, their type etc. I want to concentrate on Venus and Mars placements alone. Obviously the whole chart (houses, signs, aspects) needs to be taken into account but that would be the next step. I have a mixed opinion on this. Men come from Mars and women come from Venus so that's our respective planets that describe our attitudes to love. Guys choose girls with the help of their Venus and the rest they do with Mars. But on the other hand, Venus in natal chart is the planet that shows how we All love, not just women. Still, women are more in touch with their Venus than men so again Mars wins for men, even in love. Yeah..I am on the fence about this. How do You evaluate your romantic interest's chart for example? What do you use? I would like to hear your opinion. Thank you
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CapriciousCapricorn
Knowflake Posts: 268
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posted March 31, 2016 05:04 PM
The thing I don't like about same Mars and Venus is that it might be better for friendship rather than romantic partnership . Say we both have Venus in Aqua then we have similar tastes and both like space in relationship, both have Pisces Mars - both..lazy..I don't know.. so what? Common interests don't grant the spark and with Aqua Venus being so detached and aloof we might not even ever get together (too cold for each other). Plus imagine two lazy people together! Nothing ever gets done )) no challenge, no growth, no element of surprise etc. All in theory of course. Guys, anybody wants to add their theories and experiences whatever the signs, please do! IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted April 06, 2016 07:18 AM
hmm, I think men still love with their Venus and act with their Mars, just the same as women, men are just more prone to act than to love. So if you want his attention, activate his Mars first and enrapture his Venus second.Note that I don't believe Venus/Mars contacts last long or are even that particularly important to the Mars person without a double whammy. Yes, Mars notices Venus, and may even lust after her, but unless there is a DW it will fade almost as quickly as it started. Whether the Mars person is male or female. I would go for the Venus Pisces/Mars Aquarius combo in your case, but then, your Moon is going to be a big factor in whether or not that Venus in Pisces male will be able to handle your Aqua Venus. They need like an infant and your Aqua Venus may not be able to speak their love language. In your shoes, I would look for compatible Venus/Mars instead of a direct sign/planet swap. Maybe someone with an Aqua Mars and a Sag Venus? You may be surprised at the love shared between Sag and Pisces, sharing Jupiter as their ruler, even with the squared signs. Or! Since you are air/water you could find a man with a fire/earth combo. Sounds spicy  ETA: For what you ACTUALLY asked (sorry, i get carried away lol) the guy with the same planets in the same signs is more likely to be a "mirror image" of yourself. IP: Logged |
HelixID
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted April 06, 2016 10:51 AM
With your Venus in Aquarius, a guy with a Venus in hard aspect to Uranus would be a good fit for you. That is the simplest explanation I have.You would also have to look in which house your Venus is and all the hard aspects it makes. All of that colours your Venus. Let's say your Aqua Venus makes a square to Jupiter, then someone with Sag Venus conjunct Uranus might be attracted to you. IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
Knowflake Posts: 268
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Registered: Sep 2015
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posted April 06, 2016 05:37 PM
HelixID,I would say that I'm a cold girl. Venus in Aquarius + squaring Saturn. But it's in the 5th house. "Shower me with gifts and make me feel like a queen but please don't smother me with your love" I know, it's not very nice but yeah, I can be egoistic like that. Having said all that, I can't really imagine a Venus/Uranus square guy with me. We'll give each other so much space that in the end I won't probably notice that it's over and him neither 2 robots together. At the same time, I feel like that Venus/Saturn square of mine wants someone loving and more affectionate than myself so I see Venus Pisces more fitting for me. We very often want what we lack. IP: Logged | |
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