posted April 19, 2016 07:16 PM
Hi Angel,Maybe others could give you better answers as my natal aspect is wide, 6.09°. Some people wouldn't even count it. However, I do relate to the descriptions.
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/venusneptuneaspects.html
With Saturn transiting close to my Neptune I have felt my Neptune "squashed" and the romantic effect diminished. Now, only once in a while do I get a silly romantic notion...and it stands out like a feeling of being on drugs. Intoxicated. I mean, to think that I have gone through life feeling that way? At this point, it's just a little weird.
At this point I don't have the patience for feeling all dreamy and unreasonable.
As for progressions, that is a technical question I believe, better answered by a real astrologer.
However, if you have Venus-Neptune in progression & synastry, getting hit by transits, I would definitely pay close attention.
My advice is to keep your head on your shoulders but also...enjoy the dreaming. Revel in the imaginative side, use it like a muse, create art & drama and whatever bubbles up out of you.
I think it's a very fun aspect to have.
Wishing you the best with it. Also, I think 12muddy and theunknown have tighter conjunctions ~ maybe they can tell you more.