posted May 02, 2016 07:09 AM            

COMPOSITE

- I read in this old forum post that Sun/Venus conjunctions in the composite are important and one of the best composite aspects.

- Sun & Venus conjunct in the 12th (4.34 degree orb)

- North Node & Vertex in almost exact conjunction in the 5th house (0.01 degree orb)

- Moon conjunct the North Node & Vertex in the 5th (1.54 and 1.55 degree orb respectively)

- Sun sextile Mars (0.17 degree orb)

- Venus sextile Mars (4.17 degree orb)

- Venus sextile Jupiter (1.66 degree orb)

- North Node, Moon & Vertex trine MC

Obviously you can see the negative aspects like Chiron smack dab on the composite AC, & Saturn in the 7th conjunct the DC and opposite Chiron.

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SYNASTRY (I'm the outside chart)

- My Destinn exactly conjunct his Juno

- My Jupiter conjunct his AC

- My Angel conjunct his North Node

- My North Node and Moon close to his 5th house cusp

- My Moon conjunct his Devine

- My 8th house cusp conjunct his Vertex

- His Mercury trine my North Node

- His Sun sextile my AC

posted May 03, 2016 02:49 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Yes, it looks very fated and profound. I'm just curious, did you too break up just before the holidays? Say around mid-November last year?

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posted May 03, 2016 04:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
how were the overlays (conjunctions and oppositions) of the composite to each natal chart?

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posted May 03, 2016 04:37 PM              

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I don't usually compare composites to natal. .

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posted May 03, 2016 04:41 PM            

the reason you can't seem to get pat this is the exact node/vertex conjunction.this aspect, whatever the rest of the chart portrays, gives an intense sense of destiny/karma. when these two are conjunct, there are numerous similarities on your separate experiences. odd coincidences are the same,lifes tricks are the same. this conjunction just gives such a synchronistic similarity that one easily begins to think of soul mate concepts. this conjunction gives a very strong psychic connection and it seems that these intimate karmic and psychic similarities can only serve to bind you together.

initially this feeling was powerful enough for you to get with this guy even though he is not really your type. with mars square to Chiron on the ascendant, he was not what you usually arte drawn to to but his edginess some how entranced you in this case.

the power of the node and vertex overwhelmed you as the moon was conjunct to these also. the power of this conjunction can be seen in the fact that the composite even has a Saturn/lilth conjunction square to pluto and you still took the bait.
Saturn square to pluto is an extemely cold and manipulating aspect. it may be that with lilth /Saturn brought a sense of security to you.

posted May 03, 2016 05:16 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I think most of the benefic composite planet degrees were conjunct my natal planets and the malefics were conjunct his, but I'm not certain.

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Bingo... sounds hard, I'm sorry to hear about this.

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I don't usually compare composites to natal. You can see the natals in the synastry chart which is the second posted (I'm the outside one and he's the insde).[/b]

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posted May 03, 2016 06:33 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Your chart aspects his ascendant in kind of ridiculously positive ways, so you're always going to be seeing him through rose coloured glasses... while on the other hand his South Node is near your ascendant. I've found that to be a really tricky aspect. I have a double whammy with a friend of mine and sometimes i feel like she really is dragging me down...

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posted May 03, 2016 06:58 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi Sun Ascendant

the reason you can't seem to get pat this is the exact node/vertex conjunction.this aspect, whatever the rest of the chart portrays, gives an intense sense of destiny/karma. when these two are conjunct, there are numerous similarities on your separate experiences. odd coincidences are the same,lifes tricks are the same. this conjunction just gives such a synchronistic similarity that one easily begins to think of soul mate concepts. this conjunction gives a very strong psychic connection and it seems that these intimate karmic and psychic similarities can only serve to bind you together.

initially this feeling was powerful enough for you to get with this guy even though he is not really your type. with mars square to Chiron on the ascendant, he was not what you usually arte drawn to to but his edginess some how entranced you in this case.

the power of the node and vertex overwhelmed you as the moon was conjunct to these also. the power of this conjunction can be seen in the fact that the composite even has a Saturn/lilth conjunction square to pluto and you still took the bait.
Saturn square to pluto is an extemely cold and manipulating aspect. it may be that with lilth /Saturn brought a sense of security to you.

todd

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posted May 03, 2016 07:00 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Your chart aspects his ascendant in kind of ridiculously positive ways, so you're always going to be seeing him through rose coloured glasses... while on the other hand his South Node is near your ascendant. I've found that to be a really tricky aspect. I have a double whammy with a friend of mine and sometimes i feel like she really is dragging me down...

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posted May 03, 2016 07:06 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi Sun Ascendant

the reason you can't seem to get pat this is the exact node/vertex conjunction.there are numerous similarities on your separate experiences. odd coincidences are the same,lifes tricks are the same. this conjunction just gives such a synchronistic similarity that one easily begins to think of soul mate concepts. this conjunction gives a very strong psychic connection

initially this feeling was powerful enough for you to get with this guy even though he is not really your type. with mars square to Chiron on the ascendant, he was not what you usually arte drawn to to but his edginess some how entranced you in this case.

the power of the node and vertex overwhelmed you as the moon was conjunct to these also. the power of this conjunction can be seen in the fact that the composite even has a Saturn/lilth conjunction square to pluto and you still took the bait.
Saturn square to pluto is an extemely cold and manipulating aspect. it may be that with lilth /Saturn brought a sense of security to you.

todd

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posted May 04, 2016 07:43 AM            

I did our Davison chart below and I'm even MORE confused as to how we weren't able to have a committed relationship.

DAVISON RELATIONSHIP CHART

[i]- This chart shows an arrow literally pointing towards the 7th house

- There's also an Earth trine

posted May 04, 2016 07:49 AM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
while on the other hand his South Node is near your ascendant. I've found that to be a really tricky aspect. I have a double whammy with a friend of mine and sometimes i feel like she really is dragging me down...

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posted May 04, 2016 07:55 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi Sun Ascendant

The composite even has a Saturn/lilth conjunction square to pluto and you still took the bait.
Saturn square to pluto is an extemely cold and manipulating aspect. it may be that with lilth /Saturn brought a sense of security to you.

todd

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posted May 04, 2016 08:14 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi

initially this feeling was powerful enough for you to get with this guy [b] even though he is not really your type. with mars square to Chiron on the ascendant, he was not what you usually arte drawn to to but his edginess some how entranced you in this case.

todd[/B]

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I just realized that this paragraph reminded me of a horary I did a few months back asking who my next bf would be. My delineation concluded it would be someone different than my usual type as you said about this guy. Also, in the horary he is represented as Mercury ruler of the 7th House Gemini, and his natal sun and asc also happen to be ruled by Mercury (Virgo and not Gemini). Just another synchronicity...

posted May 04, 2016 03:48 PM            

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Originally posted by KoreAbyss:
You're going to have to let it go. You can't force it. The way you talk about him is disrepectful as well.

He is doing what he needs to do. Respect that.

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posted May 04, 2016 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
and he changed his mind which was the worst decision for him.

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This is disrespectful. I find your problem with letting this go and your "I am right, astrology agrees, he is wrong" attitude dangerous and I will not refrain from expressing that opinion no matter my post count.

You said you think you might sound crazy. Accept that you said that and the fact that others might agree with you on it.

posted May 04, 2016 05:19 PM            

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Originally posted by KoreAbyss:
This is disrespectful. I find your problem with letting this go and your "I am right, astrology agrees, he is wrong" attitude dangerous and I will not refrain from expressing that opinion no matter my post count.

You said you think you might sound crazy. Accept that you said that and the fact that others might agree with you on it.

My goal here is to protect the boundary that he has set. And to let you know that you sound very close to justifying crossing it.

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posted May 04, 2016 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
We did have similar life experiences (he is more outgoing though because of his Sag moon; I think it's actually pretty odd that I have a Cap moon and he has a moon right next door in Sag... idk out of all the signs it was a sign next to my moon sign). I am probably going to sound like one of those crazy chicks, but man I feel like he eventually has to come around. How do you have such karmic synastry and a similar composite without being in a committed relationship? Even the bad aspects are karmically bad aspects that COULD be found with twinflames and soulmates. He was very obsessed with me at first and I held off because I felt he was too outgoing and different as you said, but I obviously came to my senses... and he changed his mind which was the worst decision for him.

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but man I feel like he eventually has to come around. How do you have such karmic synastry and a similar composite without being in a committed relationship?

karma is both good and bad. many relationships that existed in a past life are destructive then and again now. one must learn from destiny/karma or one can repeat the problems.

in my experiences the Saturn/Pluto square is extremely bad and dooms a relationship no matter how much you want the"good" aspects to prevail. in my experience bad squares such as this are not offset by trines and sextiles.

todd

posted May 04, 2016 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
but man I feel like he eventually has to come around. How do you have such karmic synastry and a similar composite without being in a committed relationship?

karma is both good and bad. many relationships that existed in a past life are destructive then and again now. one must learn from destiny/karma or one can repeat the problems.

in my experiences the Saturn/Pluto square is extremely bad and dooms a relationship no matter how much you want the"good" aspects to prevail. in my experience bad squares such as this are not offset by trines and sextiles.

todd

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My parents and grandparents have this Saturn/Pluto square and have been together for almost 30 years which is surprising for having such a terrible aspect in synastry.

posted May 04, 2016 08:11 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
My parents and grandparents have this Saturn/Pluto square and have been together for almost 30 years which is surprising for having such a terrible aspect in synastry.

In my situation I think perhaps if he really thought about it he would want to reconcile. I think this whole situation could POSSIBLY be turned around for the better if he just remembered the numerous times he said we were so similar and a "once in a lifetime match". If he was able to really think deeply about those words he uttered many times, then I think the Saturn square Pluto aspect could possibly be handled like how my parents are grandparents have handled theirs...

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do you paernts and grandparents each have a Saturn/pluto square in their respective natal charts?
todd

posted May 04, 2016 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
do you paernts and grandparents each have a Saturn/pluto square in their respective natal charts?
todd

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