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beccathelion
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posted May 05, 2016 08:33 PM
  
Do they mean what they say, or rather, do they follow through on promises? Can you take them at their word? I realize that's a generalization, but I'm dealing with a Cap Sun/Moon who keeps saying we will eventually meet up... however, it's starting to feel more like an empty promise than a reassurance. I hesitate to give in to that feeling, though, because they really are dedicated to their job and are at a major turning point for career success. Trying to be patient, but it makes my Leo sensibilities a bit nervous to see all talk no action.thx IP: Logged |
mar1982delta
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posted May 05, 2016 08:41 PM
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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Do they mean what they say, or rather, do they follow through on promises? Can you take them at their word? I realize that's a generalization, but I'm dealing with a Cap Sun/Moon who keeps saying we will eventually meet up... however, it's starting to feel more like an empty promise than a reassurance. I hesitate to give in to that feeling, though, because they really are dedicated to their job and are at a major turning point for career success. Trying to be patient, but it makes my Leo sensibilities a bit nervous to see all talk no action.thx
Hi, I am a leo sun with cap Asc lol, my father has a cap sun and moon and I had an ex cap way back. Oh and my friend has a 1,5 year relationship which will lead to a marriage apparently, with a cap sun man. From what I know, there are 2 different versions of caps (the good and the bad ones lol), but most of them are career-oriented and dedicated in what they do. As for romance, I think the team "good caps" follow through their promises and are very trustworthy, reliable and stable. Of course, this is still a generalisation, because we can't speak for the character of someone just from one placement/aspect and even then, astrology shows the potential, we aren't able to know absolutely 100% for something..Hope this helped somehow.. 
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beccathelion
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posted May 05, 2016 08:45 PM
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Originally posted by mar1982delta:
Hi, I am a leo sun with cap Asc lol, my father has a cap sun and moon and I had an ex cap way back. Oh and my friend has a 1,5 year relationship which will lead to a marriage apparently, with a cap sun man. From what I know, there are 2 different versions of caps (the good and the bad ones lol), but most of them are career-oriented and dedicated in what they do. As for romance, I think the team "good caps" follow through their promises and are very trustworthy, reliable and stable. Of course, this is still a generalisation, because we can't speak for the character of someone just from one placement/aspect and even then, astrology shows the potential, we aren't able to know absolutely 100% for something..Hope this helped somehow..
It did, thank you. I didn't want to blast the whole chart, but there's Aqu Venus/Mars. You're right though, nature vs nurture is the name of the game. I was just curious because I have very little experience with Caps. Plus the control-freak Leo in me is just dying to get some good leads  IP: Logged |
mar1982delta
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posted May 05, 2016 08:58 PM
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It did, thank you. I didn't want to blast the whole chart, but there's Aqu Venus/Mars. You're right though, nature vs nurture is the name of the game. I was just curious because I have very little experience with Caps. Plus the control-freak Leo in me is just dying to get some good leads
Lol, my father has also aqua venus and I have a slight experience with an aqua, too, I guess this adds detachment and much reasoning, logic in the mix, but again these are general observations. Where is his moon btw? I get what you mean about the control-freak leo in you though, lol, I have a hard time overcoming it myself, although I didn't know this was common to other leos, too, hahahahah But I guess it is more of a different perspective thing, between leos and caps I mean, although the differences aren't unbearable or hard to overcome, at least imo..
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beccathelion
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posted May 05, 2016 09:12 PM
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Lol, my father has also aqua venus and I have a slight experience with an aqua, too, I guess this adds detachment and much reasoning, logic in the mix, but again these are general observations. Where is his moon btw? I get what you mean about the control-freak leo in you though, lol, I have a hard time overcoming it myself, although I didn't know this was common to other leos, too, hahahahah But I guess it is more of a different perspective thing, between leos and caps I mean, although the differences aren't unbearable or hard to overcome, at least imo..
Good luck!
He's a 7th house moon, so you'd think he'd be a bit more up-and-at-em, but I'm starting to understand just how powerful Saturn is as a ruler. It's stunning. And omg I'm a Leo Asc/Sun/Merc, and it has taken me a long, long time to finally let go of my control needs. It still flairs when I get curious, but thankfully, I've got Lib Ven that helps me temper my need for crazy. And I like the stoic, rational, practical side of this Cap. The stability. He's funny too and seems legit. I just am sort of tired of hearing "we will, I promise," and then nada. Typically, I'd have shut it down, but I've just got this little voice in my head saying, "feel it out. Wait." Perhaps I'm losing my mind. IP: Logged |
mar1982delta
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posted May 05, 2016 09:56 PM
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Originally posted by beccathelion:
He's a 7th house moon, so you'd think he'd be a bit more up-and-at-em, but I'm starting to understand just how powerful Saturn is as a ruler. It's stunning. And omg I'm a Leo Asc/Sun/Merc, and it has taken me a long, long time to finally let go of my control needs. It still flairs when I get curious, but thankfully, I've got Lib Ven that helps me temper my need for crazy. And I like the stoic, rational, practical side of this Cap. The stability. He's funny too and seems legit. I just am sort of tired of hearing "we will, I promise," and then nada. Typically, I'd have shut it down, but I've just got this little voice in my head saying, "feel it out. Wait." Perhaps I'm losing my mind.
Yes, 7th house, but in which sign? lol 
Wow, Leo sun and Asc, you are really fiery But still I can get what you mean with the cap attitude here "I promise-wait" lol. I don't have much patience myself, although I started learning it for some years now! Still have work to do, but nothing is beyond our reach!
If your little voice tells you to wait, then...you wait, no need to be anxious and no, you aren't crazy, maybe in love? 
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beccathelion
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posted May 05, 2016 10:14 PM
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Yes, 7th house, but in which sign? lol
Wow, Leo sun and Asc, you are really fiery But still I can get what you mean with the cap attitude here "I promise-wait" lol. I don't have much patience myself, although I started learning it for some years now! Still have work to do, but nothing is beyond our reach!
If your little voice tells you to wait, then...you wait, no need to be anxious and no, you aren't crazy, maybe in love?
Hahaha, sorry, it's a Capricorn moon, and then to make matters even more interesting, his descendant is Sagittarius and his 5th house is in Virgo; the intellectual and practical above all, thus sayeth the placements. (Lucky for me we Leos are brilliant ) And if I'm in love after three months with such little physical contact, call a doctor because I am toast! Though he is handsome... sigh. But yes, nothing is beyond our reach, and every experience makes us more fabulous, so I'll just wait on the Earth to move, pun intended.
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mar1982delta
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posted May 05, 2016 10:17 PM
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Originally posted by beccathelion:
I'm dealing with a Cap Sun/Moon thx
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Well, actually my bad..lol, I really don't see or understand anything these days, hahahaha
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beccathelion
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posted May 05, 2016 10:22 PM
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Originally posted by mar1982delta:
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Well, actually my bad..lol, I really don't see or understand anything these days, hahahaha
*self-shoot*
Hahaaha I just assumed I'd left it out. Yay, Leo powers of perception  IP: Logged |
mar1982delta
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posted May 05, 2016 10:22 PM
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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Hahaha, sorry, it's a Capricorn moon, and then to make matters even more interesting, his descendant is Sagittarius and his 5th house is in Virgo; the intellectual and practical above all, thus sayeth the placements. (Lucky for me us Leos are brilliant ) And if I'm in love after so little time with such little physical contact, call a doctor because I am toast! But yes, nothing is beyond our reach, and every experience makes us more fabulous, so I'll just wait on the Earth to move, pun intended.
Hahahha, I like your humor and since you can deal with it with such humor, you'll be good!
"Every experience makes us more fabulous" ---> hahahahahaha, I really liked that, maybe I'll try and use it from now on 
I won't call a doctor, because if I judge by myself as a leo at least, there is nothing better than that!
Ok, maybe this will need patience from you, cap sun/moon (in the 7th maybe helps, I think) and with gem Asc?
(mostly I am referring to you as a fiery personality , I don't know if this combination is hard for sure, it sounds "weird" to me at least lol)
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beccathelion
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posted May 05, 2016 10:31 PM
It's so weird, right?! I've never come across a chart like his, which is why I had to ask, because it's baffling. I am starting to see shifts after 2 months... small things. A little more emotionally supportive, not always talking about work, cracking more jokes... it's just that damn "yes, but wait!" I think there's a karmic lesson in all this I'm supposed to learn, haha. Maybe I was an absolute man-ho in a past life, and this is my comeuppance. I trust your Leo decree 100%, so perhaps I am a little more gone on him than I thought (ack!), but I do really appreciate your help as a sounding board. You're a peach, and if I can ever return the favor let me know. I'm usually over on the Personal board giving tarot or leno readings. I'd be happy to oblige IP: Logged |
mar1982delta
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posted May 05, 2016 10:37 PM
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Originally posted by beccathelion:
It's so weird, right?! I've never come across a chart like his, which is why I had to ask, because it's baffling. I am starting to see shifts after 2 months... small things. A little more emotionally supportive, not always talking about work, cracking more jokes... it's just that damn "yes, but wait!" I think there's a karmic lesson in all this I'm supposed to learn, haha. Maybe I was an absolute man-**** in a past life, and this is my comeuppance. I trust your Leo decree 100%, so perhaps I am a little more gone on him than I thought (ack!), but I do really appreciate your help as a sounding board. You're a peach, and if I can ever return the favor let me know. I'm usually over on the Personal board giving tarot or leno readings. I'd be happy to oblige
Hahahaha, my leo "decree", where should I hide? lol 
Thanks so much for your kind words, I don't know much yet, but I try to help with what I know at least lol. Thanks so much for the offer, I'll have that in mind, perhaps we could even exchange, maybe I can try to help with your synastry, too!
Hope all goes well for you, being in love is wonderful 
And totally random, but maybe not so much, here's another "decree" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAOR6ib95kQ
ETA : LOL, I forgot to comment that "I am starting to see shifts after 2 months... small things.", maybe he starts being more loose, that's good, so go with the flow as long as you can and see where it goes from there..!
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beccathelion
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posted May 05, 2016 10:58 PM
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Hahahaha, my leo "decree", where should I hide? lol
Thanks so much for your kind words, I don't know much yet, but I try to help with what I know at least lol. Thanks so much for the offer, I'll have that in mind, perhaps we could even exchange, maybe I can try to help with your synastry, too!
Hope all goes well for you, being in love is wonderful
And totally random, but maybe not so much, here's another "decree" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAOR6ib95kQ
ETA : LOL, I forgot to comment that "I am starting to see shifts after 2 months... small things.", maybe he starts being more loose, that's good, so go with the flow as long as you can and see where it goes from there..!
I LOVE the Gorillaz! Brilliant choice. I am super into this song right now, haha (my decree, if you will ) http://youtu.be/r7Ve8ExE8YY Going with the flow is the plan, and I would LOVE to exchange, but I'm scared what you'll say about the synastry hahaha. Watch it be a lost cause!! IP: Logged |
mar1982delta
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posted May 05, 2016 11:03 PM
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I LOVE the Gorillaz! Brilliant choice. I am super into this song right now, haha (my decree, if you will ) http://youtu.be/r7Ve8ExE8YY Going with the flow is the plan, and I would LOVE to exchange, but I'm scared what you'll say about the synastry hahaha. Watch it be a lost cause!!
WOW, I was so afraid that this was an irrelevant choice, I don't know how popular are gorillaz worldwide, but in my country they are a bit, sooo...I listened to that at some point, too, hahahah
Thanks for the song! 
As for your synastry, don't post it if you don't feel it, but even if you do, there isn't any lost cause defined by astrology at all, so I really doubt that, hahahaha
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beccathelion
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posted May 06, 2016 12:36 AM
Alright... well... be gentle hahahaAnd please feel free to post a question! Most yes/no questions use Lenormand decks (French cartomancy), while more in-depth questions use tarot. Happy to do either IP: Logged |
mar1982delta
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posted May 06, 2016 09:26 AM
I went to sleep yesterday becca, I am coming back later today with comments!
Is it possible if you posted the synastry again with vertex, Pars Fortunae, Juno, Vesta, Chiron from the additional objects list and Eros (433), Psyche (16) in the asteroids below, too? Plus add aspects to nodes and Chiron in the option list, too. Only if it isn't much of a bother, otherwise I'll stick to that, ok? IP: Logged |
beccathelion
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posted May 06, 2016 10:08 AM
I went to sleep too, but this stupid Mars retrograde is causing me so much dream-drama! Blargh! Reposting now, with all the bells and whistles  IP: Logged |
mar1982delta
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posted May 06, 2016 10:13 AM
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I went to sleep too, but this stupid Mars retrograde is causing me so much dream-drama! Blargh! Reposting now, with all the bells and whistles
Hahahaha, it will pass! 
Ok, I am coming back later tonight with some first observations!
ETA : I'll think of some question and probably post it in a separate thread in PR then? So that I don't derail yours, lol. I don't have any at the moment, so maybe we could do this in the future, if that's alright? (Earlier yesterday I was desperate though, so maybe I'll need some help quite soon, hahaha!) Thanks so much!
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beccathelion
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posted May 06, 2016 10:17 AM
Sounds wonderful! And just lemme know if I can return the favor <3IP: Logged |
comdoc
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posted May 06, 2016 10:38 AM
Merry greet Becca.IP: Logged |
athenaia
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posted May 06, 2016 12:09 PM
Hey my bf is a Cap Sun/Moon + Aqua Venus! I had to make all the major moves for our relationship to happen, but once they're in, they're all in. Caps have that gooey, delicious center not unlike their Cancer counterparts, and are deeply committed and romantic once settled into the groove of the relationship. I wouldn't wait for him to call you - ask him when he's free, set up the time, place, date, etc. and meet him there. You have to be really proactive with these people because otherwise they'll never get around to doing anything for themselves on an interpersonal level.. so much of the time they don't feel they "deserve" happiness and it becomes a habit from them to skirt around it whenever the opportunity presents itself. Feel out the chemistry from there! IP: Logged |
beccathelion
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posted May 06, 2016 12:41 PM
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Merry greet Becca.
Thanks so much! It feels so odd to be on another Linda board, haha! IP: Logged |
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posted May 06, 2016 12:49 PM
You're welcome. Couldn't resist your Leo Sun on my ASC, my Sun on your NN/MC, and Libra Venus on my Neptune. quote:
Originally posted by beccathelion:
Thanks so much! It feels so odd to be on another Linda board, haha!
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beccathelion
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posted May 06, 2016 12:56 PM
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Originally posted by athenaia:
Hey my bf is a Cap Sun/Moon + Aqua Venus! I had to make all the major moves for our relationship to happen, but once they're in, they're all in. Caps have that gooey, delicious center not unlike their Cancer counterparts, and are deeply committed and romantic once fully in. I wouldn't wait for him to call you - ask him when he's free, set up the time, place, date, etc. and meet him there. You have to be really proactive with these people because otherwise they'll never get around to doing anything for themselves on an interpersonal level.. so much of the time they don't feel they "deserve" happiness and it becomes a habit from them to skirt around it whenever the opportunity presents itself. Feel out the chemistry from there!
Thanks so much for this! It's fascinating. For what it's worth, I've said multiple times, let's go out, and every time it's "Yes, but!" And then the buts are always work related. Who can argue with work? (._.) Again, I'm just not sure if I'm being fed a line or if he means we will when work subsides (and to be fair, he's incredibly busy and on the cusp of a major project). It's just odd because we randomly met at a work function, and within the hour, he had my number, asked me out, then 5 minutes later asked if I wanted to go out right then instead, and we had a truly great time. The chemistry was vavooom, and he was very open about his attraction... but that feels like a lifetime ago. He texts almost every day, and I'm noticing small changes in convos (asks me about feelings, gives me advice/wants advice, makes more jokes), but I'm having a hard time reconciling the "if a man wants you, he takes you, don't make it complicated" mindset with the "Yes, but!" Maybe I do need to be proactive, but how does one do that without seeming too demanding? Any tips, sensei? IP: Logged |
beccathelion
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posted May 06, 2016 01:15 PM
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You're welcome. Couldn't resist your Leo Sun on my ASC, my Sun on your NN/MC, and Libra Venus on my Neptune.
I take it then, that you must be the most delightfully fun blend of fire and air A wildfires be damned, sort of chart? IP: Logged | |
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