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Topic: Unrequited? Should I go for it?
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Yanmorg
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posted May 15, 2016 04:01 PM
  
I've been interested in someone for awhile. I met him at a gas station months ago (He works there). I was interested the moment I saw him, but didn't get a chance to connect with him until a week ago when I mustered up the courage to find him on Facebook and express my interest. He wasn't freaked out and he even texted me. He seems like the shy type. We've had a few brief conversations, but nothing too personal or too deep. I have already expressed I wanted to get to know him and would like to hang out some time and he agreed to it. I recently ended a 6 month relationship and from what I know, he's single. He's 23 and I am 22.Should I go for it?
Based on aspects..
This is just for entertainment really, but I am curious to hear some feedback on our compatibility also.
His birth time is unknown; mine is completely accurate Thank you in advance.
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LaceyLeigh
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posted May 16, 2016 03:04 AM
Are you looking for something long lasting here? Based on this wheel, I see that your Mercury/Jupiter/Venus/Mars are all unaspected and his Mercury is unaspected. This could potentially lead to trouble because most of your chart doesn't relate to him, and his Mercury doesn't relate to yours. So, I'm assuming that would could lead to a bit of miscommunication as well as other things. But, it's said that unaspected planets could potentially make the feeling of those planets stronger. So many mixed signals..IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted May 16, 2016 06:02 AM
Are you saying they are unaspected because the aspects they DO make are out of orb? I'm a beginner so I don't know much when it comes to these kinds of things. On astro.com, the biwheel shows my mercury making a loose sextile to his Jupiter, my mars makes an exact sesisquare to his Sun and an exact semisquare to his uranus and neptune. A loose trine to his Venus at 7 degrees. Jupiter makes a loose square to his Venus. Our mercuries are square by 5 degrees. Plus, I fooled around with his birth time since it's unknown and it could be making a square to my Sun, but I'm not sure. Venus looks unaspected though which isn't good since it's my chart ruler, but you know the funny part, we find a lot to talk about. I haven't felt any disconnect thus far but this is the beginning. Yes, I am looking for something long term if this progresses. IP: Logged |
Bluejay
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posted May 16, 2016 08:33 AM
I love Scorpios and Cancers together. Especially Plutonic Cancers, so if he does have a Moon/Pluto conjunction on your Scorpio Sun that's even better. Even if his Cancer Sun and Venus aren't aspecting several of your Scorpio planets within orb, there is still a connection between them. This is a case where orbs should be thrown out the window. His Cancer Sun and Venus trine his Pluto, his Mars opposes Pluto, and his Scorpio Moon conjuncts Pluto. So a Scorpio stellium woman would be very compatible with him. It would probably take a woman with a lot of Scorpio or 8th house placements to handle him. His Mercury falls in your 4th and his Jupiter in your 5th, so the house placements are favorable on your side. The square Mercury aspect could cause some misunderstandings or arguments, but I think overall that you two will understand each other. The Saturn squares seem like a downer, but it looks like you both have those in your chart so you might be used to that energy.I think composites are hard to read without accurate birth times to determine house placements. The Sun/Venus trine Neptune/Uranus is nice, but Saturn and Mars square Pluto looks kind of scary. That's just a lot of focused energy of powerful planets to have in a square. IP: Logged |
margym0o
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posted May 16, 2016 09:17 AM
Don't forget to live your life, too! We can only speculate at this point how this would turn out. It's very early to be determining the fate of this relationship, especially since you're still only getting to know each other. You say you enjoy talking to each other, and you seem to really like him, so I say go for it! The worst thing you can do is talk yourself out of it because of what the charts allude to. You might miss out on the opportunity to experience something amazing. If someone told you that you will marry this man but then get divorced after 28 1/2 years, would you believe them? How could any of us know that for sure? Just enjoy the ride  IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted May 16, 2016 12:00 PM
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
Are you saying they are unaspected because the aspects they DO make are out of orb? I'm a beginner so I don't know much when it comes to these kinds of things. On astro.com, the biwheel shows my mercury making a loose sextile to his Jupiter, my mars makes an exact sesisquare to his Sun and an exact semisquare to his uranus and neptune. A loose trine to his Venus at 7 degrees. Jupiter makes a loose square to his Venus. Our mercuries are square by 5 degrees. Plus, I fooled around with his birth time since it's unknown and it could be making a square to my Sun, but I'm not sure. Venus looks unaspected though which isn't good since it's my chart ruler, but you know the funny part, we find a lot to talk about. I haven't felt any disconnect thus far but this is the beginning. Yes, I am looking for something long term if this progresses.
No, I'm saying they're unaspected because I can't see them on the wheel itself. But, judging by what you're telling me, they aren't as unapsected as they look. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted May 16, 2016 12:33 PM
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Originally posted by Bluejay:
I love Scorpios and Cancers together. Especially Plutonic Cancers, so if he does have a Moon/Pluto conjunction on your Scorpio Sun that's even better. Even if his Cancer Sun and Venus aren't aspecting several of your Scorpio planets within orb, there is still a connection between them. This is a case where orbs should be thrown out the window. His Cancer Sun and Venus trine his Pluto, his Mars opposes Pluto, and his Scorpio Moon conjuncts Pluto. So a Scorpio stellium woman would be very compatible with him. It would probably take a woman with a lot of Scorpio or 8th house placements to handle him. His Mercury falls in your 4th and his Jupiter in your 5th, so the house placements are favorable on your side. The square Mercury aspect could cause some misunderstandings or arguments, but I think overall that you two will understand each other. The Saturn squares seem like a downer, but it looks like you both have those in your chart so you might be used to that energy.I think composites are hard to read without accurate birth times to determine house placements. The Sun/Venus trine Neptune/Uranus is nice, but Saturn and Mars square Pluto looks kind of scary. That's just a lot of focused energy of powerful planets to have in a square.
Do you think he would be attracted or repulsed by me? He DOES have Venus-Uranus and Sun-Uranus oppositions in his own natal and we have it in synastry. Also, his mars opposes my Sun. I've experienced this type of vibe, but with a Taurus and we had a ton of oppositions between personal planets. He was very plutonic, but instead of being attracted, he rejected that energy. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted May 16, 2016 12:38 PM
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Originally posted by margym0o:
Don't forget to live your life, too! We can only speculate at this point how this would turn out. It's very early to be determining the fate of this relationship, especially since you're still only getting to know each other. You say you enjoy talking to each other, and you seem to really like him, so I say go for it! The worst thing you can do is talk yourself out of it because of what the charts allude to. You might miss out on the opportunity to experience something amazing. If someone told you that you will marry this man but then get divorced after 28 1/2 years, would you believe them? How could any of us know that for sure? Just enjoy the ride
Believe it or not, I've gotten a lot better at this and I have that attitude. I just want to know and potential or not some of you guys see just to get a few more pieces to the puzzle. Once I get his birth time (if we get the far for me to ask), it'll add another layer. I just enjoy human experiences and putting them down into something visible like a chart. So although I'm very interested, I'm interested in himan psychology and human relationships in general so this is entertainment for me as well. Do you think our composite would have potential for long term compatibility with all of those Uranus trines? Mars-Saturn conjunct isn't supposed to be positive but my parents have it and they've been married 24 years, together 27, but known each other since my mother was 9. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted May 16, 2016 12:40 PM
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
No, I'm saying they're unaspected because I can't see them on the wheel itself. But, judging by what you're telling me, they aren't as unapsected as they look.
Yeah, plus I was thinking maybe since his Sun and Venus are in my 3rd, it makes up for the lack a little because they're still very poorly aspectee if at all like you said. I'm not sure if those orbs count, but our communication hasn't been bad so far. It flows after I get passed the awkwardness "crush feeling". Haha. But like I keep saying, we just started out so who knows. Anything else you see? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted May 16, 2016 12:41 PM
Is the attraction the same on both ends? Or am I more attracted than he is? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted May 17, 2016 11:24 AM
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Yanmorg
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posted May 18, 2016 01:44 PM
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