posted May 21, 2016 05:21 AM            

For example: I've just gotten through on a well known talent show and so has he! Without consciously knowing the other has definitely gone for it. Only difference is that mine will be in a different country. I dance and he sings. We are 11 years apart so it's definitely not a generational thing.

It feels like the higher one person goes, the higher the other goes. We feed off one another's successes. Even spiritually. We'll also often think about one another and then one of us will have a dream about them or text.
I can feel him when he's thinking about me.
He finishes my sentences and knows exactly how i'm feeling without me having to tell him. moon conj moon?

Not long ago, he was telling his friends that I'm his angel, without me knowing, and then I change my profile pic on fb the next day to me wearing an angel costume from a dress up party.

We'll also post similar things using similar language but without consciously doing it on purpose with the other in mind.

I ended up getting a job working in a rehab centre where his ex was from who was murdered because she was an ice addict and got caught up with the wrong people. This is an hour from where I live. I then met someone at a cafe who knew her and started talking about her. I've had dreams of her and her murder, so vivid. I never even knew her.
There was one day where he texted me saying he was working 5 min from my house and that very day I was working 5 min from his. We both have jobs that are freelance. These suburbs are an hour away from one another.

posted May 21, 2016 10:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
You can find our collected synastry musings here.

There's much more, but I don't have any time left so will leave it at that for now.

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I love what you've done here Vajra. I'm looking forward to reading over this.

posted May 22, 2016 06:03 AM            

Well I have my sun/Mercury opposite Neptune. He has Neptune trine Mercury.
His mars opposes my Neptune.

As you say Venus, I do think there's something to the nodes though in sharing similar life experiences. He says he was born at 5am but doesn't have an exact tob. If it was 5am it puts my SN in conjunction with his ASC. His SN conjuncts my moon.

A tob of 15 mins earlier makes my NN conjunct his vertex.
15 mins later makes our vertexes opposite one another.

What would be more likely?

Todd, the vertex seems to hover near the DSC in the composite but very widely.

Here's the synastry:

posted May 24, 2016 02:57 AM            

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@EmGem: It's indeed been quite the trip, being with this guy, and I remember that upon getting to know each other and finding out these and many further things, it was almost a tad too scary. In a way I'm glad we didn't get involved before our mid-thirties, as I'm not sure we'd been able to handle this sort of energy between us well. It's been four years now (known each other loosely for almost twelve though) and it has transformed both of us, basically enabled us to get rid of many psychologically inhibiting patterns.

Just checked the Vertex situation, and we don't have it touching the Nodes in the composite. But our Vx/AVx axis lies on top of the comp AC/DC axis in the following way:
-compAC @ 0'29 Aries
-comp AVx @ 0'39 Aries

Moreover, comp Venus (R7) is just a degree away @ 1'45 Aries.

*ETA* For rectifying his angles, you could check the transit charts of decisive events in his life, and see which potential angle degrees get hit the most. Since MC/IC relates to career/family and father/mother, events in those areas tend to "strike" that axis. AC/DC can relate to partnerships and health issues among other things. Typically one looks at graduation dates, career changes, moving houses, death dates of close family, birth dates of children, weddings, separations etc. If you have a few of these types of events with a particular date for him available, it might help figure out the exact AC and MC degrees, but it's a lot of work.

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Sounds beautiful Vajra! I used to think, why oh why didn't i meet this guy 10 years ago but pffffft there is no way it would've worked I don't think. I kinda like that i've met him in my 30s and actually he's a very old soul so it's working out well this slow burn.

posted May 24, 2016 02:34 PM            

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@ Selenite, what are the aspects you have with her that might contribute you think?

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Well, I was thinking about this and the only thing that stands out is that we have similar house overlays and Nodes conjunct. Her AC is 22 Cancer and mine is 16 Leo, and we both have Scorpio NN in the 4th. I think it is more representative in each of our natal charts than in our synastry, for example she has Neptune/Uranus squaring her Sun, and I have Neptune/Uranus squaring my Moon. She has Moon/Pluto in the 5th and I have Sun/Mercury in the 5th, which are huge parts of our personalities and they express themselves very similarly (even though hers is in Scorpio and mine in Sag.) We both have Mars in the 1st house too. She has Sun right on her IC and I have Venus right on my IC. We are very different because she's mostly water and I'm mostly fire, but definitely parallel.

posted May 24, 2016 02:46 PM            

Also stuff that makes me think 'soul family' : Saturn in 4th DW, my Saturn/Karma on his IC, his Pluto/Ceres on my IC/Venus.
Also weird stuff like asteroid DNA conjunct DNA exactly -- I think that is the most representative aspect of our parallels.

Oh, and Sun contra-parallel Moon both ways. That might have something to do with it.

posted May 24, 2016 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
I've experienced this with three people. I hate to be boring but I'm going to say Neptune in aspect to personal planets in natal for both people. I think both people are open to the messages we are subconsciously sending out into the universe all the time. When in love the messages are usually about each other 😊

The Nodes don't support higher communication, I don't think, but they can show parallels in life events and progress. The Nodes are amazing- like a road map showing where and how you crossed paths.

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