posted May 24, 2016 12:38 AM            

I wasn't attracted until we kissed, then I consistently felt a strong almost unbearable sexual magnetic pull. It sparked something. It seems mostly almost only sexual/physical. I don't feel attached or jealous and I do not feel romantic though I feel very intimate and touchy.

I'm the outside.

Not sure if it matters, but Im also a girl.

my question is--why does she seem to be so into me? what in my chart draws her to me? Why does it seem she feels more intensely than I do?

posted May 24, 2016 02:44 AM            

However, based on her chart it looks like she's just an intense person. Cluster of planets in the 11th, Pluto conjunct Moon/Mercury, Mars in the 8th.

Synastry-wise, your Uranus conjuncts her ascendant trining her Venus and Mars - that would probably indicate an instant type of attraction. Her Mars in the 8th (intense to have) squares your Moon - this could be why you feel touchy-feely towards her. (I'm assuming that's what you meant when you said touchy).

Her Venus falling into your 8th, along with your Mars and Sun squaring her Uranus/Neptune could explain why you also feel very attracted to her.

However, maybe you couldn't feel her Venus in your 8th until things became more romantically/physically involved since Venus is about romance.

Also, her Saturn squares your Venus - Saturn has been known for delaying love, it also might explain your slight emotional detachment.

posted May 24, 2016 03:41 AM            

She's really nervous around me. almost seems in awe of the whole experience. I'm her first love/physical-type experience.

I'm actually in a really weird situation/love triangle. I have a friend also interested in her and they have some kind of interest in each other, but for some reason it hasn't gone anywhere or as far/intense as it has with her and I. My friend even told me she didn't really like kissing her--but she has very intense romantic/emotional feelings and hates me for being involved with her.

Can you tell why their thing isn't progressing? It seems way more compatible between them based on their chart and it confuses the hell out of me.

Astrologically speaking--they should've ended up together!! this is so confusing.

Here's their synastry chart (my lover girl on the inside):

Thank you so much again!

posted May 24, 2016 04:32 AM            

Sun opposite Moon has been said to generate attraction, but I seem to find it to be more unnerving than anything else.

Your friends Sun and Mars in hard aspect to your gf's Pluto, could explain why she's jealous of anyone who might show an interest in her. Pluto represents obsession, jealousy, etc. Mars opposite Mars can be stimulating, but it also might lead to over competitiveness and volatility, depending on the individuals at hand and how they handle stressful situations.

Overall, I'd say your house placements with your girlfriend might be the reason why you two felt so instantly attracted to one another. I'm not saying the other two can't/will never feel the same way, or that your attraction to each other will be withstanding, it's just that the attraction between them/for each other isn't as readily apparent.

posted May 24, 2016 05:12 AM            

I admire your insightfulness and interpretation skills; thank you so much.

I’m confused though--Why do you say my house placements/attraction with my lover girl is more apparent when it seems my friend and her have so much 5th and 8th house influence? I thought that was a huge factor? I know there are a lot of hard aspects to their mars, but there are so many trines/aspects with their mars and venus to other planets.

posted May 24, 2016 03:14 PM            

5th house is more fun and friendly than sexually stimulating. But, you're right - based on the house overlays, your friend and your gf's placements are a bit more on the fun side.

The trines are nice and can definitely point to attraction, but not always. They can also manifest as a means of appreciation for the other person. I cannot see the orbs (how close these apsects are) and that is important, as well. Squares/conjunctions are hard aspects and usually they are felt more readily than the trines.