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posted May 29, 2016 10:42 PM            

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Look at his Venus right on my ASC! *Swoon* Sun and Mercury in my 1st house too which I didn't know. I definitely feel his Moon in my 3rd ...hehe... because he is way too in tune with me when I'm normally stoic and passive. He can see right through my BS. Is there the slightest chance his Jupiter is conjunct my Aries placements? Would his Mars in my 2nd affect my self-esteem?

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posted May 30, 2016 12:30 AM            

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Weird, I was just looking at another one of your threads, and then you make this one. Haha.

Mars in your second - his actions towards you boost your self-esteem, although, I see that his Mars squares your Sun/Venus/Mercury conjunction - how wide is the orb? How wide is the Jupiter Conjunction? I think I might count it since you don't have it natally.

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posted May 30, 2016 12:32 AM            

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I noticed his Uranus hits your Descendant and trines your Aries placements, that must be nice. Have you had that before?

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posted May 30, 2016 12:49 AM            

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The hard Saturn aspects look like - for lack of a better term - a real bishh. Your Saturn opposes his Mercury almost exact. He doesn't annoy you? Lmao. Mars opposite Saturn, I've had that before - it's not too bad when I'm Mars.

Do you two have opposing political/religious beliefs? Are you on unequal "intellectual" platforms? Like one went to college, and the other one didn't?

I'd count the Jupiter conjunct Mercury aspect - it's less than 5° - the other ones are a bit too wide 7 and 8°.

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posted May 30, 2016 01:05 AM            

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Lol venus on the asc, that's a great aspect ime.

Yeah, his chiron is on your asc as well. Potentials for healing.

Your moon oppose his pluto. Intense.

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posted May 30, 2016 01:11 AM            

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The hard Saturn aspects look like - for lack of a better term - a real bishh. Your Saturn opposes his Mercury almost exact. He doesn't annoy you? Lmao. Mars opposite Saturn, I've had that before - it's not too bad when I'm Mars.

Do you two have opposing political/religious beliefs? Are you on unequal "intellectual" platforms? Like one went to college, and the other one didn't?

I'd count the Jupiter conjunct Mercury aspect - it's less than 5° - the other ones are a bit too wide 7 and 8°.

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He DOES annoy me. Oh my gosh, definitely. I am pretty sure we annoy each other. Sometimes his Leo Moon (dunno if this plays apart) is so needy for attention and sooooo obvious and me with my Saturn squares and Taurus moon, I can't stand obvious plays. He's sort of my boss so he was always correcting me in the beginning, I avoided him like the plague and I think it made him even more pushy! I got the incessant questions about my life, what I liked, how things were outside of work, my parents, etc.

YES we have opposing beliefs, how did you know - the Mars Saturn? He's strictly scientific and always teases me for liking astrology but in a friendly way. I'm farther along in college than him too. Interesting. I wouldn't have considered that before, I am trying to figure out his sense of humor which is why I noticed Jupiter. I would think Mercury Jupiter means I'd make him (or anyone) laugh but maybe that's more Venus or Moon with Jupiter.

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posted May 30, 2016 01:12 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Lol venus on the asc, that's a great aspect ime.

Yeah, his chiron is on your asc as well. Potentials for healing.

Your moon oppose his pluto. Intense.

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I saw Chiron and wondered. Wasn't sure if it meant wounding the other, or healing.

DEF felt the Moon Pluto in the beginning, but not so much more now. I wonder why.

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posted May 30, 2016 01:13 AM            

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I don't see a lot here pointing to physical attraction, except Venus / ASC. Could Composite give more insight into this?

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posted May 30, 2016 01:16 AM            

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I don't see a lot here pointing to physical attraction, except Venus / ASC. Could Composite give more insight into this?

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Uranus aspects point to attraction, right? Try looking for Venus/Mars in the composite/Davison.

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posted May 30, 2016 01:38 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Uranus aspects point to attraction, right? Try looking for Venus/Mars in the composite/Davison.

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It does point to attraction but I don't know I'd staple Uranus as "sexual" attraction. Plus it's very light-switchy, not able to be steered.

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posted May 30, 2016 01:48 AM            

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It does point to attraction but I don't know I'd staple Uranus as "sexual" attraction. Plus it's very light-switchy, not able to be steered.

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You're right, it's more shocking rather than sultry. I see Venus trine Mars and Sun square Mars in your Davision chart, I have this with a Cancer guy, too and I'm very fond of him . Also Venus opp Uranus - exact.

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posted May 30, 2016 01:53 AM            

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Cue "TELL ME SOMETHING GOOD..." haha! Passion, passion, passion. I'd be happy with this guy and me just being best friends or close. I love the emotional closeness Cancers provide. I've never been with one physically but oddly enough it's not something I really want to try. The only reason I think he's the exception is because of his damn Leo Moon and Venus in Gemini. Grr.

I haven't even looked at the Davison yet, but Venus opp. Uranus sounds electric. Reminds me of the ending of Grease when Sandy makes her transformation, lol. ETA: Actually though! It seems both of us are surprised and not fond of changes the other makes to the appearance! Once he came in with his head very, very closely shaved and I said nothing. And while I was basking in compliments from dying my hair fire engine red - he said nothing. When I shaved the side of my hair off thought without the guard... that's when he finally said something but it wasn't positive! And because of the Saturn stuff you mentioned I think we care too much about what the other thinks about that kind of thing.

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posted May 30, 2016 02:11 AM            

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I agree with all the above posters.

The Jupiter-Merc conjunction probably takes the edge off the Saturn annoyance, 'coz in Jupiter-Merc aspects, the Jupiter partner is kinda like Mercury's own personal Clown. They can always make Mercury laugh, or at the very least put a smile on that face.

Also, I might still count the aspects to your Sun/Venus. Jupiter is a biiig planet. So, the orbs can be bigger too. (Plus, a conjunction still holds for 8°). Nevertheless, the *good cheer* will be felt, Jupiter to Sun/Venus - to some extent. How much, depends on how much you interact and how much he is comfortable with expressing his Jupiterian self *with you*. Which, judging by the description, he is.

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posted May 30, 2016 06:21 AM            

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The only reason I think he's the exception is because of his damn Leo Moon and Venus in Gemini. Grr.

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Yeah, you have Mars in Gemini and so your 3rd house tells more about the type of guy you like... Men with Leo placements.

Your 7th house ruler is Gemini, along with your Asc. So you like his Venus not just cause it's on your Asc, but also because it's in the same sign as your Dsc ruler.

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posted May 30, 2016 10:10 AM            

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Yeah, you have Mars in Gemini and so your 3rd house tells more about the type of guy you like... Men with Leo placements.

Your 7th house ruler is Gemini, along with your Asc. So you like his Venus not just cause it's on your Asc, but also because it's in the same sign as your Dsc ruler.

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My DSC is Sag unless you meant ASC ruler, which I figure you did?

And that's interesting... I never thought to look at the house of your Mars sign! Thanks Lotis I don't enjoy Leo placements actually. I've had negative experiences with a lot of them so I'm always scared when I meet one, BUT they have a lot of attractive qualities. My 3rd house rules Leo and sure enough.... they just talk, talk, talk, talk, talk! OMG! They must not notice I have ADD. :P

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posted May 30, 2016 02:07 PM            

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posted May 30, 2016 02:51 PM            

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His time of birth is correct?

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No 😢

It's a noon chart

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posted May 30, 2016 03:46 PM            

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No 😢

It's a noon chart

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Ok, so unless he is actually born at noon, the house placements for your composite aren't precise.

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posted May 30, 2016 06:28 PM            

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My DSC is Sag unless you meant ASC ruler, which I figure you did?

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I meant your Dsc ruler... Jupiter in Gemini.

Oooh yeah, the secondary houses of the sign Mars is in (for men), and the sign Venus is in (for women) shows extra details about what attracts us.

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