posted June 12, 2016 10:43 AM
Question about conjunctions/squares/oppositions in synastry.What happens when you have a square in your natal chart and somebody activates that square for you because their planet conjuncts your planet so automatically squares your other planet?
I have his Mars conjunct my Venus - good. And I have his Mars square my Saturn - bad. But it's stupid, looking at each aspect separately. I have a square in my natal chart - Saturn square Venus. I'm a 'cold' girl.
So if I take into account my natal chart, does it mean that because he stumbled onto my natal square, when pursuing me (Mars) this is exactly what he will get - a 'cold' girl, somebody who will restrict his efforts to get closer?
His Mars conjunct my Venus - 'let's have sex'
My Saturn square my Venus and my Saturn square his Mars - 'no', 'no,later' etc.
Another example.
In his chart he has Moon opposite Mercury. My Pluto conjuncts his Moon so automatically it makes an opposition to his Mercury. What to make of this one? In our merging together and feeling as one entity (Moon conjunct Pluto), he will feel at odds between his rational mind and emotions.
His Moon conjunct my Pluto - 'I want you all, there should be no secrets between us, tell me all about you'
His Mercury opposite his Moon and his Mercury opposite my Pluto - 'should I? Should I not? I really want to, emotionally I'm in so deep! But rationally, I shouldn't give into this obsession, I should keep something to myself'
Is this correct? How I'm trying to interpret the aspects?
Also, give me your examples too, please. I want to learn more about how to look at aspects between people deeper, past the standard interpretation planet to planet and nature of aspect. Thank you